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Anonymous wrote:No one said trapped players are doomed. The statement was made that BY is systematically dysfunctional for q4 and some q3 players during certain periods of their soccer career.
Don’t waste time arguing with the BY parents who are so blinded by the thought of having to compete with older kids. SY is coming they get one more year and then the party is over for most of those kids.
Isn't someone always older and someone always younger?
Won't SY have a 11 month difference in ages just like BY?
How does this relate to the PP's comment?
We are all BY parents today
Why would people who prefer BY be afraid of competing against older kids, when so many of them want their kids to play up?
Because they are really seeking bragging rights and recognition, not an extra challenge. If you adjust the age group to SY, they are playing with older kids but viewed as "with age." If they play with the same kids across a group divide, that comes with the higher status label of "playing up." Like many of the toxic elements of youth sports, it's all about status-seeking, mostly by the parents.
I love all these assumptions 100% predicated on a false fact that soccer skills, performance, competitiveness are all dictated by birth months
There are many strong q3 and q4 players out there and lots of weak q1 and q2
Also several kids playing up a year.
It all washes out