27 year old friend is so immature
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Anonymous
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I just can’t even with her right now. I’m 28 and everyone I know is settling down and growing up. We are all beginning to eat healthy, fish a couple times a week, working out,going to bed at 10 pm. We are all getting engaged and married, buying apartments and homes and getting into decorating.
Meanwhile she keeps texting me to go to raves with her and hangout with potheads and drunks. All they do is dress in cropntops and hang out at concerts and clubs after work. She also has a group of international party girls that she fell into and expects me to join. I’m already fading out on her as I feel we’ve grown to be different people. I will miss her but just can’t be around she and her new trashy friends. Am I wrong? |
Anonymous
| Are you married or do you have kids? |
Anonymous
No but I live with my boyfriend. |
Anonymous
| You do you but don’t judge her. She isn’t ready or doesn’t want your quiet life...so what? |
Anonymous
| Fade out but once you get all boring you should keep her around for a fun night. Like the one friend on Girls. |
Anonymous
if you no longer enjoy her friendship, end the friendship. |
Anonymous
And let’s guess she is single and your boyfriend isn’t crazy about you hanging out with her.. Regardless, I strongly suggest having fun now because you are going to be tied to the house once you have kids. |
Anonymous
| You sound insufferable....has your boyfriend brain washed you? |
Anonymous
| As long as you eat fish a few times a week, you have license to judge everything. |
Anonymous
| Part of being mature is making your own decisions. Why do you need to come here to trash your friend and get approval for phasing her out? That’s the real question. |
Anonymous
No. My boyfriend and I enjoy meeting friends for dinner cooking healthy meals. We’re too old for the club scene at 27-28. |
Anonymous
| Honestly OP, you sound like a child trying to play grownup. You can perform the acts and rituals of a grownup, while still being very immature in your mindset. The fact that you're so obsessed with what other adults are doing with their own lives, isn't indicative of maturity. |
Anonymous
You sound awful. Do your friend a favor and continue the fade. I didn't get as boring as you sound until I had a baby. And yet to get as judgmental Signed, - a boring 34 year old with two kids who makes healthy dinners and goes to bed early to get up with my kids and who hasn't been to a club in a decade |
Anonymous
| Sorry OP, you’re the one who sounds immature and insecure. |
Anonymous
+1 |