27 year old friend is so immature

[Anonymous]

You “can’t even?” Lol.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You sound insufferable....has your boyfriend brain washed you?

No. My boyfriend and I enjoy meeting friends for dinner cooking healthy meals. We’re too old for the club scene at 27-28.

I am sure this is a couples event and she isn’t a couple. Get over yourself. And why is your boyfriend so cheap he can’t take you out for a healthy meal? Red flag.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You sound insufferable....has your boyfriend brain washed you?

No. My boyfriend and I enjoy meeting friends for dinner cooking healthy meals. We’re too old for the club scene at 27-28.

Very few of my friends were settling down at that age, but I have a PhD and most of the people I knew then were pursuing higher ed.

Of the people that did settle down at that age, several are divorced now. Many more never got married to that long term boyfriend and finally realized that guy wasn't going to marry them. So, be careful what you say about your domestic bliss. Without a ring or even with one, you could be back to the single scene pretty quickly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You sound insufferable....has your boyfriend brain washed you?

No. My boyfriend and I enjoy meeting friends for dinner cooking healthy meals. We’re too old for the club scene at 27-28.

Very few of my friends were settling down at that age, but I have a PhD and most of the people I knew then were pursuing higher ed.

Of the people that did settle down at that age, several are divorced now. Many more never got married to that long term boyfriend and finally realized that guy wasn't going to marry them. So, be careful what you say about your domestic bliss. Without a ring or even with one, you could be back to the single scene pretty quickly.

ITA and OP is in for it if her hobbies now are cooking and decorating. Her future DH is under the impression he won’t be doing a single domestic chore.

[Anonymous]

I hope your boyfriend dumps your judgmental, smug self rather than proposes. People who are snug because they are coupled up and their friends aren't - I can't even.....

[Anonymous]

I'm in the camp that you should hang out once in a while, but not often. I knew a woman like this. She was in her early 30s before she realized she couldn't keep doing this, so she moved out of the area she was living in to not be tempted to continue living like a 20 something year old. She eventually saved enough to buy a small condo.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you married or do you have kids?

No but I live with my boyfriend.

That sounds pretty immature to me...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Honestly OP, you sound like a child trying to play grownup. You can perform the acts and rituals of a grownup, while still being very immature in your mindset. The fact that you're so obsessed with what other adults are doing with their own lives, isn't indicative of maturity.

Agree. OP, you’re not as awesome and grown up as you think you are.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you married or do you have kids?

No but I live with my boyfriend.

Maybe she thinks you are a heaux.

[Anonymous]

So you started eating fish at 27...good job.

[Anonymous]

I don’t get it. 27 is the time to be out having fun and single if you want. I certainly can’t judge her and neither should you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:As long as you eat fish a few times a week, you have license to judge everything.

I thought she meant they went fishing.

[Anonymous]

So jelly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you married or do you have kids?

No but I live with my boyfriend.

So you are living with your boyfriend, yet you think she and her friends are trashy. Pot calling the kettle black.

[Anonymous]

Pretty sure you are a troll