Just found that my Fifth ivf also failed

[Anonymous]

with a CCS tested normal 5AA blast ... i am just dumbfounded on what to do next. I have no more embryos left. Should i believe in science or god? SHould i just accept the fact that i will never be mom and move on with life...

[Anonymous]

So sorry this is happening to you. I would recommend testing for thyroid antibodies and blood clotting factors to make sure it’s not an implantation issue.

[Anonymous]

Have you had an ERA? I put back PGS normal and highly graded untested embryos and never got pregnant. Finally they suggested an ERA which showed I was pre-receptive and needed an extra day of progesterone for my FETs. First FET under new protocol I got pregnant for the first time ever transferring a blast.

[Anonymous]

I am so so sorry, OP. IF sucks.

[Anonymous]

I’ve read that uterine scratching is another way to help implantation.

[Anonymous]

I'm so sorry OP. I know someone who took 9 IVF cycles to conceive. It's really up to you whether you can or want to continue. Hugs.

[Anonymous]

Recent studies show scratching does not help increase pregnancy rates. I'm really sorry OP. I would ask for testing as others suggested to rule out issues concerning receptivity or the uterine environment. Are you willing to use donor eggs or embryos? There are options always if you are flexible about the path. Best wishes to you!

[Anonymous]

I'm so sorry. I'm sure you're already aware of the other possibilities and only you can decide if they would be an option for you. I was (in theory) open to donor eggs/embryos, but I know it was an absolute last resort that I hoped I'd never have to use.

I saw a therapist throughout my whole journey and I hope you have quality support around you.

[Anonymous]

i am so sorry. you can be a mom, but it may not be through the means you wanted. if you want to be a mom, there is a way to be one. donor embryos, donor eggs, foster to adopt, traditional adoption etc.

[Anonymous]

So sorry. It's hard to speak on next steps without knowing what you're open to considering, but there may be other options available.

[Anonymous]

Which clinic did you use?

[Anonymous]

I'm so sorry.

[Anonymous]

5th transfer that failed?

We’re they all PGS tested? Have you been at the same clinic for all cycles?

[Anonymous]

Its ok to give up but keep trying. It took us 6 years to adopt..I had given up but still was trying for another year before officially giving up and it happened...

[Anonymous]

I am so sorry, OP.