Things you secretly oppose, but don't want other people to know:

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Anonymous wrote:Interesting PP. Hospitals are deporting immigrants who are incapacitated and cannot pay their bills. Private jet and all, from the hospital returned to their home country where they have to hope they will receive some sort of lifetime care from their families.

Is this really true?

Yes. Let me find some links. BRB.

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Anonymous wrote:What's with all the hate for IVF? Because I can't get pregnant naturally I should just accept that? By that line of reasoning I should decline treatment for a cancer dx.

I personally don't understand the desire to have a child that's biologically yours. I have seen too many marriages break up over the wife's overwhelming desire to have a biological child. It's not the end all be all and there are other ways to create a family.

Men just follow along because they are trying to do what's going to make their wives happy.

Do you have a biological child? I'm guessing no and that's for the best, I'm sure. The desire to have a child that is "biologically" yours is just that - BIOLOGY. It is perfectly normal and all of the snarky, rotten to black on the inside hateful people like you can rail against BIOLOGY all you want, but it won't change it. You are not fucking God and you're not going to change human nature, so get over it already.

Total over reaction.

All I said was that I personally don't understand the desire to have a biological child. I just don't get it. I never had any overwhelming desire to have children and thought I would adopt if I really, truly, wanted a child. Then my birth control failed. I was married and there was no reason to have an abortion so I had a baby. God, do I love that child, and the sibling that soon followed. I didn't have the ticking clock or any brooding. I just kind of fell into motherhood.

We still had the plan of adopting older children until we discovered our second was severely disabled. Biology didn't give me a child without issues. And no one in the history of my family, or DH's, has had the problems our child has. This child ended any and all ideas of adding to our family.

Yippee. All your clarification did was highlight how uniquely unqualified you are to judge other people, since your personal story is relevant only to you. And it's particularly telling that someone who "fell into" biological motherhood feels the need to secretly judge women who didn't have it so easy. What a peach you are.

You still don't get it. I just don't understand the overwhelming desire to have a child. Let alone one that's biologically connected. That's all. I'm not anti-IVF. I just don't get the lengths people will go to. That's all.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Interesting PP. Hospitals are deporting immigrants who are incapacitated and cannot pay their bills. Private jet and all, from the hospital returned to their home country where they have to hope they will receive some sort of lifetime care from their families.

Is this really true?

Yes. Let me find some links. BRB.

Sad but necessary when you have so many people in your country who can't support themselves. The legal residents must take priority.

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Anonymous wrote:Interesting PP. Hospitals are deporting immigrants who are incapacitated and cannot pay their bills. Private jet and all, from the hospital returned to their home country where they have to hope they will receive some sort of lifetime care from their families.

Is this really true?

Yes. Let me find some links. BRB.

Medical repatriation:

Over the last five years, American hospitals have sent at least 600 immigrants who were in the U.S. illegally back to their home countries to avoid paying for long-term care after serious illness or injury

Quelino Ojeda Jimenez was working atop a building at Chicago's Midway Airport in 2010 when he fell, suffering injuries that left him nearly quadriplegic and reliant on a ventilator.

Advocate Christ Medical Center cared for Jimenez for four months, absorbing more than $650,000 in costs, according to a 2011 Chicago Tribune story.

Three days before Christmas that year, the hospital put him aboard a medical flight and sent him to Mexico, even though his family protested. Crying and unable to speak, Jimenez could do nothing to prevent his removal.

The receiving hospital in Mexico lacked rehabilitation services and could not afford new filters for his ventilator. After suffering two heart attacks and a septic infection, Jimenez died on Jan. 2, 2012.

http://news.yahoo.com/look-immigrant-patients-deported-hospitals-071427622.html


Hospitals trying to curb costs have chartered flights to send sick, uninsured, undocumented immigrants back to their home countries. It's a process called medical repatriation, and critics say it amounts to unregulated deportation. (April 23)

http://www.usatoday.com/videos/news/world/2013/04/23/2105577/

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Interesting PP. Hospitals are deporting immigrants who are incapacitated and cannot pay their bills. Private jet and all, from the hospital returned to their home country where they have to hope they will receive some sort of lifetime care from their families.

I hope we're only deporting immigrants who are here illegally and not people who are here legally.

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But you could say the same about coal miners and welders. I am also grateful for garbage collectors and septic tank cleaners.

Actually, I am grateful. But more importantly, I would never be purposely hurtful. That's the issue I have with the people referring to our service members as idiots. You certainly don't have to express gratitude or admiration. However, name calling and insults just seems so very wrong, especially when it caused so much pain.

Well, if it doesn't apply to your sons, move along. Seriously, you need to grow a thicker skin. But the tide is turning around here. This notion that we have to blindly fall down on our knees and thank the troops, and if we don't we're not patriotic, is BS. Look at this board in general. Do you see how many professions are called idiots here on a daily basis?? Try lawyers for one, journalists recently, I could go on and on. No one is immune, but it's purposefully hurtful and pain inducing when someone suggests that the military isn't all that. That's why it bugs me so much. You act like they're above it simply because they're in the military. You're proving the point.

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Anonymous wrote:I am Jewish and I can't really stand socializing with non-assimilated and observant Jews. Sheltered types like Shoshanna on "Girls" are a dime a dozen here in DC. Even at age 40+, they are still talking about camp and wetting their panties over planning a $45000 bar mitzvah.

I despise the Orthodox and feel they have destroyed any chance of Israel succeeding peacefully. I prefer the company of lapsed Catholics. Ironically, most of my close friends are Jewish, but they have all intermarried and lead completely secular lives.

Yes!!!

I got together with a friend of mine, we are in our 40s and she just wanted to talk about camp, from 30 years ago. And, all her friends are Jewish. I just can't deal with it.

I'm raising my daughter Catholic (my husbands religion) just because the whole thing makes me ill.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Interesting PP. Hospitals are deporting immigrants who are incapacitated and cannot pay their bills. Private jet and all, from the hospital returned to their home country where they have to hope they will receive some sort of lifetime care from their families.

Is this really true?

It would be weird if it were since prisons are keeping illegals in prison for the length of the sentence.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Interesting PP. Hospitals are deporting immigrants who are incapacitated and cannot pay their bills. Private jet and all, from the hospital returned to their home country where they have to hope they will receive some sort of lifetime care from their families.

Is this really true?

Yes. Let me find some links. BRB.

Medical repatriation:

Over the last five years, American hospitals have sent at least 600 immigrants who were in the U.S. illegally back to their home countries to avoid paying for long-term care after serious illness or injury

Quelino Ojeda Jimenez was working atop a building at Chicago's Midway Airport in 2010 when he fell, suffering injuries that left him nearly quadriplegic and reliant on a ventilator.

Advocate Christ Medical Center cared for Jimenez for four months, absorbing more than $650,000 in costs, according to a 2011 Chicago Tribune story.

Three days before Christmas that year, the hospital put him aboard a medical flight and sent him to Mexico, even though his family protested. Crying and unable to speak, Jimenez could do nothing to prevent his removal.

The receiving hospital in Mexico lacked rehabilitation services and could not afford new filters for his ventilator. After suffering two heart attacks and a septic infection, Jimenez died on Jan. 2, 2012.

http://news.yahoo.com/look-immigrant-patients-deported-hospitals-071427622.html


Hospitals trying to curb costs have chartered flights to send sick, uninsured, undocumented immigrants back to their home countries. It's a process called medical repatriation, and critics say it amounts to unregulated deportation. (April 23)

http://www.usatoday.com/videos/news/world/2013/04/23/2105577/

Some hospitals also apparently literally dump mentally ill and/or homeless people back out onto the streets ASAP after they come into the ER. No mental or social services provided.

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Some companies/places cover IVF. I resent this because I have a life changing illness that I did not cause and my illness is barely covered. I also resent that there are so many multiple births, also covered by insurance.

My friend had abortions and now wants her IVF to be covered. It just doesn't sit well with me.

While we are talking about health. I really have a problem going to the ER with a legit health issue and the system being clogged as it is. There is no excuse for this and we are turning into a third world country. Open your eyes and look around.

You asked.

Generations of people living off the system does not sit well with me, ITA PP. They know the system better than the system knows the system. This needs to change.

In the old days, immigrants would be far less likely to consider being illegal or using the system, now both are often true. As if it has become a country of hand outs. Its repulsive and Americans should be embarassed.

Another issue which may seem arbitrary: why are all the red heads I know batsh*t crazy? I mean really, truly in need of professional treatment? Surely I can't be the only one who has noticed this.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Interesting PP. Hospitals are deporting immigrants who are incapacitated and cannot pay their bills. Private jet and all, from the hospital returned to their home country where they have to hope they will receive some sort of lifetime care from their families.

Is this really true?

It would be weird if it were since prisons are keeping illegals in prison for the length of the sentence.

Maybe it's because prisons are supported by the masses with taxpayer money and hospitals have to find their own funding.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Interesting PP. Hospitals are deporting immigrants who are incapacitated and cannot pay their bills. Private jet and all, from the hospital returned to their home country where they have to hope they will receive some sort of lifetime care from their families.

Is this really true?

It would be weird if it were since prisons are keeping illegals in prison for the length of the sentence.

Maybe it's because prisons are supported by the masses with taxpayer money and hospitals have to find their own funding.

Don't worry! Thanks to the sequester, they are releasing them out onto the street of America! http://rt.com/usa/ice-immigrant-illegal-prison-495/

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I am Jewish and I can't really stand socializing with non-assimilated and observant Jews. Sheltered types like Shoshanna on "Girls" are a dime a dozen here in DC. Even at age 40+, they are still talking about camp and wetting their panties over planning a $45000 bar mitzvah.

I despise the Orthodox and feel they have destroyed any chance of Israel succeeding peacefully. I prefer the company of lapsed Catholics. Ironically, most of my close friends are Jewish, but they have all intermarried and lead completely secular lives.

Yes!!!

I got together with a friend of mine, we are in our 40s and she just wanted to talk about camp, from 30 years ago. And, all her friends are Jewish. I just can't deal with it.

I'm raising my daughter Catholic (my husbands religion) just because the whole thing makes me ill.

Just curious: would you say you have a good relationship with your mothers growing up ?

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18:24 - PPs thank you for your honesty. I have noticed this and I am not Jewish. Do they think people don't pick up on this sh*t, somehow?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Women who wear make up. It's perpetuating a view of women that I find demeaning. After all the whole point of make up is to make a woman look like she is constantly sexually aroused. Ugh.

The point of my make up is to hide my blemishes and my poor self-discipline in going to sleep at a decent hour.