How do I learn not to fall so easily?
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Anonymous
| So it doesn't hurt so bad when it turns out the guy isn't interested in me? |
Anonymous
| Stop having sex with them so quickly. |
Anonymous
| Date no less than three guys at the same time. This keeps you from undue focus on any one of them. |
Anonymous
| Work on your self-esteem and setting expectations. |
Anonymous
| Don’t idealize and romanticize everything. Allow time to build (months) to help in truly validating what you feel. Most wont make it that long. |
Anonymous
This is a good plan! I did this and it really worked out. |
Anonymous
| Don’t sleep w them |
Anonymous
| Maybe you should take a break from dating at all and focus on you and building a life where you are pretty happy with how you are spending your time, your hobbies, your friendships and your work. If you are looking for a guy to provide your sense of purpose and happiness, you're going to struggle |
Anonymous
| Know your worth girl. |
Anonymous
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- Don’t put them on a pedestal, they’re not that special.
- Fall in love with yourself. Figure out what attracts you the most to them and work to acquire those qualities - Date from a place of abundance and confidence, not scarcity - Date a pair and a spare, remember that they are nobode until they commit to you. |
Anonymous
| Just realize men are a complete waste of time. All the they want to do is use you and hurt you for their own gain. The sooner you realize this the better off you'll be. |
Anonymous
^^^^ Someone is bitter... |
Anonymous
| Work with a therapist on building better boundaries. That's what I did. |
Anonymous
Yep that avoids a fall, but also means it never gets past 2 dates. |
Anonymous
Nope I'm an honest realist. |