How many texts a day makes a man in "needy"?
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Anonymous
| Man here. Is once everyday ok? But not more? |
Anonymous
| depends on where you are in the relationship. Current BF will text me multiple times per day if he's bored at work. He's just trying to kill time. If I'm not busy, I'll respond. If I am, I'll just tell him so he stops |
Anonymous
| How long have you been dating? |
Anonymous
| 15-20 |
Anonymous
| She's a 'friend' at the moment |
Anonymous
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Totally depends on the relationship and dynamics.
Once a day - fine, but are you getting responses? Are you always the initiator? Is it always a "good morning sexy" or "wyd" text or does it have some substance or conversation? Do you normally communicate by text only or do you see/date/talk to the person otherwise? Seriously with these vague open ended questions... |
Anonymous
| Depends on the relationship. When DH and I started dating, we texted constantly throughout the day. |
Anonymous
| I love chatting with her text or in person but text is obviously much easier. Just don't want to be too aggressive. |
Anonymous
| Why is she a 'friend'? What does that mean? If you like her, man up and ask her out for dinner and try to kiss her unless you dont think she wants that. |
Anonymous
So chill and see if she initiates some sometimes or is she just responsive and being kind. That should be an indicator. |
Anonymous
| No more than 1200 per day. |
Anonymous
Ok thanks I will do that. I know she's most likely just being kind and nice as she's only initiated once or twice. Maybe tomorrow. |
Anonymous
What do you want to get out of this situation? Do you want to date her? If so, ask her out. Quit with the texting games. |
Anonymous
| Six. |
Anonymous
| If you're not dating I wouldn't text more than once or twice a week. Ask her out for gods sake! |