| And men seem confused when I approach them. I think maybe I’m ugly. |
| Trolls usually are. |
| Not trolling. I’m 30 and have never had a guy hit on me. I’ve mase my interest obvious and worse than being not interested they seem confused. |
You are 30 and don't know whether you are ugly. Okayyyy. |
Well I thought maybe I was just average, but now I think I’m a lot less attractive than I thought. |
| Um... what kind of "vibe" do you put out? I've never been hit on by a woman, but I think I have a "I do the hitting on" vibe... I wish I could turn it off... |
Honestly don’t know about my vibe. |
If she's never been hit on, her vibe is "morbidly obese". |
I’m not overweight. I’m very skinny actually with no shape. Anyway It’s not kind to use someone ‘s weight as a joke. |
| Post a picture from the neck down. |
Contrary to this DCUM mentality all about the bod, this sounds like a face thing. How could someone with a smokin bod not get hit on by 30? I was 12 with barely boobs and got disgusting crap left and right as a curvy size 2. Face does matter. |
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I’m not posting my pictures, but I’m Indian. Brown skin. Brown Eyes. I wear my Hair shortish it’s just above my shoulder blades when down. I’m very plain. Don’t wear makeup as it breaks me out badly , but I keep my eyebrows shaped and my lips are moist. I keep my nails done and polished. I also wear eye glasses.
I have average style in colder months I wear jeans, boots, and fitted sweaters. In warmer weather I wear sundresses and sandals. For work I am a nurse and wear scrubs. |
| OP....you sound cute and smart. I'm interested. |
| What about match or tinder? |
Perhaps go to the makeup counter at the mall for a little makeover? See what they think? I’m not saying you need to cake the makeup on, but maybe some refreshing and an eyebrow pluck (also available at the mall) might be good for you. Get a personal shopper to help you pick out a wardrobe? What do you do in your free time? What is your job? |