I’ve never been approached by a man

[Anonymous]

If you really don't want to have to do your hair everyday but want it to be straight and silky, you could try a keratin treatment/Brazilian blowout/Japanese straightening. But do your research! Don't go just anywhere because they can ruin your hair. You could also ask a stylist to thin your hair if it's overly voluminous and out of control. You can still wear it up and out of the way at work but definitely down when going out. You should not look like you've just come from work when you go out- the medical field is different from those of us who basically wear our business attire out after work.

You don't need face makeup especially if you're wearing eyeliner and mascara. You could also try contacts which would really let your eyes take center stage. In my experience guys don't love a lot of lipstick- they like lips that they can kiss. Go to Sephora and ask for a flattering lip gloss that suits your skin tone.

A good opening line with guys is, "What are you drinking?"

If you're looking for a fun way to learn about fashion, you can try watching "What Not to Wear." It's probably a bit outdated, but it can be on in the background while you practice styling your hair

https://www.tlc.com/tv-shows/what-not-to-wear/full-episodes/gina-m

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m not posting my pictures, but I’m Indian. Brown skin. Brown Eyes. I wear my Hair shortish it’s just above my shoulder blades when down. I’m very plain. Don’t wear makeup as it breaks me out badly , but I keep my eyebrows shaped and my lips are moist. I keep my nails done and polished. I also wear eye glasses.
I have average style in colder months I wear jeans, boots, and fitted sweaters. In warmer weather I wear sundresses and sandals. For work I am a nurse and wear scrubs.

You should probably live in India.

Why did you leave your culture.

[Anonymous]

Hahaha PP, thanks for the laugh. This is not the OP but clearly YOU should get out more...maybe try checking out some other cultures in the big wide world around you?

[Anonymous]

Yes, to the PP 18:07, you should probably live in a different time period in history. Why did you leave the Jim Crow era?