How much sex did you have on your honeymoon?

[Anonymous]

Assuming you had a honeymoon and we’re over 30 when you married. Planning a 10 day trip to Spain and France. I’m being told it’s a wasted trip and we’re better off doing it later and just booking a B & B because of all the sex. I should note we’re not virgins and have been together 4 years, and living together the last 2 years.

[Anonymous]

Go on the trip

[Anonymous]

You should decide what kind of honeymoon you want. Are you tired from all of the wedding planning and just want sone down time to connnect? Would being at a beach resort be boring and you’d rather walk around interesting cities?

Chance are you aren’t going to get married after living togethr for 2 years and suddenly never want to leave the hotel room.

[Anonymous]

Do people really have honeymoons where they barely leave the hotel room?

[Anonymous]

I had trips in my late teens / early 20s where we barely left the hotel room. I'm a guy, and I orgasmed 16 times in 24 hours once. I'm late 30s now and can't do that anymore.

That was not my experience with my DW. We married mid-20s, and while she orgasms easily and loves sex, she is generally one and done, and rarely wants it more than 1x per day even on vacation.

Our honeymoon was great, and we had a moderate amount of sex (not a ton). I would have liked a little more at the time, and these days would like a moderate amount more (we're 1-2x per week, I'd like 3-4x).

I would never not honeymoon for this reason though. I look back on that trip very fondly.

[Anonymous]

How about a trip where you don’t plan as many outings at the beginning? I know that it took s few days for us to decompress and we were happy to just hang out and also have sex the first few days, but after that we were ready for touring.

[Anonymous]

Definitely once a day and one day twice. But we did a lot of other fun activities like sightseeing, massages, meals. Older, but also had lived together. Our bodies weren’t a mystery. I think the never leave the hotel room approach is best associated with new lovers.

[Anonymous]

1x/day. I was pregnant, in my 30s and it was not like we hadn't been together before then. Mostly my advice would be not to try to do too much. Give yourself some down/quiet time. I found the first few days we were just so relieved not to have to deal with anything wedding related, and we did not have particularly large or complicated one (60 people, 5 months btwn engagement and wedding date).

[Anonymous]

OP, after 4 years with your fiancé and 2 years living together, it seems to me you would have a general understanding of how much sec the two of you desire. And even if you had sex 1 - 2x/day on your honeymoon, how long can that possibly take? This seems like a non-issue to me.

[Anonymous]

It wasn't any less or more compared to pre-honeymoon. Your vacation destination will have many exciting places and things to do. I doubt you'll boy want to nail each other for the entire duration.

With that said, we had sex every morning and night during our honeymoon.

[Anonymous]

1x a day either beginning or end of day, maybe both a few times. Still had a blast on our trip and were out and about all day. Go and have fun.

[Anonymous]

We lived together for a year before marriage. We had our honeymoon at a beach resort. We had sex 2-3 times a day but we still went out, ate, did some sight seeing and hiked etc. You may have one or 2 days you don’t want to do much other than each other but there is value on booking a trip to Europe.

[Anonymous]

It was a long time ago but it was probably once a day but at different times. I do remember coming back from the beach one afternoon getting on my knees and pulling down his bathing suit. Things progressed very nicely from there.

[Anonymous]

We went to a quiet Caribbean island and did it all the time. Between the strolls on beach and great food. It was awesome and memorable after ten years of marriage and four divorced. Still reflect on it as a fun experience.

[Anonymous]

I should add, I never thought of Europe as a honeymoon destination. But if it works for you that’s nice.