Dating someone on medication for depression

[Anonymous]

When do you ask for the history, how far do you inquire about their unmedicated personality, etc. Also, if you have minor children, would this be a deal breaker for a permanent relationship?

FWIW, I am not the partner on meds. I like him but not in love yet.

[Anonymous]

No, too risky. I only date people who take Narcan for opiod overdoses, insulin for diabetes, and chemotherapy for cancer.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No, too risky. I only date people who take Narcan for opiod overdoses, insulin for diabetes, and chemotherapy for cancer.

Well played.

I think OP was simply inarticulate.

Biggest thing is ED. I got viagra as I tapered off my depression meds. That would be most immediate concern. Not whether the guys “unmedicated” personality.

[Anonymous]

You don’t seem to have any empathy or understanding for mental health issues which are incredibly prevalent in our society. I think that’s a dealbreaker for the person you’re with— he/she should find someone who understands.

[Anonymous]

Wtf, OP? This person is taking responsibility for their health. I’ve got news for you- MILLIONS of people take antidepressants! They’re teachers, doctors, daycare workers, lawyers- everyone. They can be compassionate, responsible productive neighbors and partners.
I say dump them, but only because they deserve a better person than you!
Geez...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No, too risky. I only date people who take Narcan for opiod overdoses, insulin for diabetes, and chemotherapy for cancer.

Well played.

I think OP was simply inarticulate.

Biggest thing is ED. I got viagra as I tapered off my depression meds. That would be most immediate concern. Not whether the guys “unmedicated” personality.

I am aware of the lowered sex drive while taking the meds, how long did you take the viagara? There are underlying issues that he has not addressed or that do reappear, hence the need for the meds. I am concerned that if he chooses to stop, the relationship will not be sustainable. We are taking it slow, so I have not experienced his sex drive.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wtf, OP? This person is taking responsibility for their health. I’ve got news for you- MILLIONS of people take antidepressants! They’re teachers, doctors, daycare workers, lawyers- everyone. They can be compassionate, responsible productive neighbors and partners.
I say dump them, but only because they deserve a better person than you!
Geez...

Calm down. This is more serious than your garden variety "I am not satisfied with my life" depression. It is enough that if he is not taking the meds, he might become a danger to himself and others. Hence my concern about having my child around him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wtf, OP? This person is taking responsibility for their health. I’ve got news for you- MILLIONS of people take antidepressants! They’re teachers, doctors, daycare workers, lawyers- everyone. They can be compassionate, responsible productive neighbors and partners.
I say dump them, but only because they deserve a better person than you!
Geez...

Calm down. This is more serious than your garden variety "I am not satisfied with my life" depression. It is enough that if he is not taking the meds, he might become a danger to himself and others. Hence my concern about my kid. He is fine noe.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No, too risky. I only date people who take Narcan for opiod overdoses, insulin for diabetes, and chemotherapy for cancer.

Well played.

I think OP was simply inarticulate.

Biggest thing is ED. I got viagra as I tapered off my depression meds. That would be most immediate concern. Not whether the guys “unmedicated” personality.

I am aware of the lowered sex drive while taking the meds, how long did you take the viagara? There are underlying issues that he has not addressed or that do reappear, hence the need for the meds. I am concerned that if he chooses to stop, the relationship will not be sustainable. We are taking it slow, so I have not experienced his sex drive.

You should line up a FWB for your sexual needs since his ability might be compromised. I don't think you need to tell him since that might make him more depressed (and need more anti-depressants), just keep it discreet.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No, too risky. I only date people who take Narcan for opiod overdoses, insulin for diabetes, and chemotherapy for cancer.

Well played.

I think OP was simply inarticulate.

Biggest thing is ED. I got viagra as I tapered off my depression meds. That would be most immediate concern. Not whether the guys “unmedicated” personality.

I am aware of the lowered sex drive while taking the meds, how long did you take the viagara? There are underlying issues that he has not addressed or that do reappear, hence the need for the meds. I am concerned that if he chooses to stop, the relationship will not be sustainable. We are taking it slow, so I have not experienced his sex drive.

I was very into my new girlfriend. And my depression was somewhat situational post divorce and I hadn’t been with another woman in years. So as I tapered down from Zoloft I started 50 mg viagra and it worked awesome and helped me with my anxiety of being with a new person. Maybe 6 months of viagra?

Now I keep ten or so on hand at all times for when we go away so we can go multiples on a getaway. Totally awesome. Great connection.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No, too risky. I only date people who take Narcan for opiod overdoses, insulin for diabetes, and chemotherapy for cancer.

Well played.

I think OP was simply inarticulate.

Biggest thing is ED. I got viagra as I tapered off my depression meds. That would be most immediate concern. Not whether the guys “unmedicated” personality.

I am aware of the lowered sex drive while taking the meds, how long did you take the viagara? There are underlying issues that he has not addressed or that do reappear, hence the need for the meds. I am concerned that if he chooses to stop, the relationship will not be sustainable. We are taking it slow, so I have not experienced his sex drive.

I was very into my new girlfriend. And my depression was somewhat situational post divorce and I hadn’t been with another woman in years. So as I tapered down from Zoloft I started 50 mg viagra and it worked awesome and helped me with my anxiety of being with a new person. Maybe 6 months of viagra?

Now I keep ten or so on hand at all times for when we go away so we can go multiples on a getaway. Totally awesome. Great connection.

(I don’t use ten in a weekend. Lol.). Also I had no lower sex drive. The Zoloft made it difficult to maintain.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No, too risky. I only date people who take Narcan for opiod overdoses, insulin for diabetes, and chemotherapy for cancer.

Well played.

I think OP was simply inarticulate.

Biggest thing is ED. I got viagra as I tapered off my depression meds. That would be most immediate concern. Not whether the guys “unmedicated” personality.

I am aware of the lowered sex drive while taking the meds, how long did you take the viagara? There are underlying issues that he has not addressed or that do reappear, hence the need for the meds. I am concerned that if he chooses to stop, the relationship will not be sustainable. We are taking it slow, so I have not experienced his sex drive.

You should line up a FWB for your sexual needs since his ability might be compromised. I don't think you need to tell him since that might make him more depressed (and need more anti-depressants), just keep it discreet.

Thank you. This is very good advice. I have dated a guy with ED before and had to supplement. I was able to keep it discreet.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No, too risky. I only date people who take Narcan for opiod overdoses, insulin for diabetes, and chemotherapy for cancer.

Well played.

I think OP was simply inarticulate.

Biggest thing is ED. I got viagra as I tapered off my depression meds. That would be most immediate concern. Not whether the guys “unmedicated” personality.

I am aware of the lowered sex drive while taking the meds, how long did you take the viagara? There are underlying issues that he has not addressed or that do reappear, hence the need for the meds. I am concerned that if he chooses to stop, the relationship will not be sustainable. We are taking it slow, so I have not experienced his sex drive.

You should line up a FWB for your sexual needs since his ability might be compromised. I don't think you need to tell him since that might make him more depressed (and need more anti-depressants), just keep it discreet.

Thank you. This is very good advice. I have dated a guy with ED before and had to supplement. I was able to keep it discreet.

Jesus freaking christ, I was trolling you. You shouldn't have a FWB and keep it discreet. People with depression are people too.

[Anonymous]

Wow. OP doesn’t seem very nice.

[Anonymous]

Depression is a very serious thing to consider regarding marriage. It's great that people manage it but there are potential ramifications of all kinds.