25 and 34 too much of an age difference?

Anonymous wrote:When I was 25 I though guys who were 34 were ancient. I think within three years is ideal and anything over six is a big gap. Six is still a lot tho.

I think as you age, that gap,gets less significant. I am in my early 40s and my BF is 12 years older. I don't think the age gap is very significant at all.

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09/14/2018 05:05

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The age gap gets less as you age. I'm with a guy who is eight years my senior now. But if I'd met him when I was 25 ... 33 would have seemed considerably older to me. Because I was immature.

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09/14/2018 05:24

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Anonymous

Yes. You'll end up being his nursemaid when he turns into a broken-down old man.

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09/14/2018 06:36

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Anonymous

It doesn’t strike me as a big deal.

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09/14/2018 06:52

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Personally, it would be too much for me and I wouldn't want my kids to date someone either that older or younger.

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09/14/2018 06:55

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Anonymous

1/2*34 + 7 = 24. So you're good.

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09/14/2018 07:21

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Anonymous

I think it’s okay if it’s the man who is older.

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09/14/2018 07:32

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Anonymous

It depends a bit on your maturity and life experiences. When I met my DH, he was 34 and I was turning 27, but I’d lived and worked overseas. I found 20 something men to be relatively immature.