Is your child happy with their college choice?

[Anonymous]

So, college has been in session a couple of weeks now. Did your college meet/exceed your expectations or is it not what it seemed?

My daughter choose Colby in Maine over a number of schools. She's super happy there. Kids are nice and smart; classes challenging. The new Davidson Center is already setting up an internship for her. Having a fabulous time.

Others?

[Anonymous]

Congratulations to her! Amazing place.

[Anonymous]

Yep. My boy/girl twins picked colleges about an hour away from each other. They're each very happy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So, college has been in session a couple of weeks now. Did your college meet/exceed your expectations or is it not what it seemed?

My daughter choose Colby in Maine over a number of schools. She's super happy there. Kids are nice and smart; classes challenging. The new Davidson Center is already setting up an internship for her. Having a fabulous time.

Others?

Happy that your daughter is doing well but, really don't understand the post. If I tell you my kid is hating it or loving it how does that affect you and your daughter?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So, college has been in session a couple of weeks now. Did your college meet/exceed your expectations or is it not what it seemed?

My daughter choose Colby in Maine over a number of schools. She's super happy there. Kids are nice and smart; classes challenging. The new Davidson Center is already setting up an internship for her. Having a fabulous time.

Others?

Colby dropped from #12 to #18 in US News. Quite a drop.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So, college has been in session a couple of weeks now. Did your college meet/exceed your expectations or is it not what it seemed?

My daughter choose Colby in Maine over a number of schools. She's super happy there. Kids are nice and smart; classes challenging. The new Davidson Center is already setting up an internship for her. Having a fabulous time.

Others?

Colby dropped from #12 to #18 in US News. Quite a drop.

And exactly what changed making Colby six places lower?

Quite a stupid comment, for many reasons. Rankings are subjective, for one. #12 and #18 are virtual ties out of 3,000 colleges. And, also, you are just being a jerk to a parent who is expressing some joy. Sorry you are joyless.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:So, college has been in session a couple of weeks now. Did your college meet/exceed your expectations or is it not what it seemed?

My daughter choose Colby in Maine over a number of schools. She's super happy there. Kids are nice and smart; classes challenging. The new Davidson Center is already setting up an internship for her. Having a fabulous time.

Others?

Happy that your daughter is doing well but, really don't understand the post. If I tell you my kid is hating it or loving it how does that affect you and your daughter?

Perspective maybe? Why does it have to “affect” them? It’s called human interaction. Obviously you suck at it.

OP, mine had a rocky first two weeks but I’m seeing a change. He could’ve come home for the storm and he said no.

[Anonymous]

My DS did not get into his dream school and got wait listed from his second choice. The school he ended up attending is one I thought would be the best fit for him and strongly urged him to apply to. He did make the final decision to attend this school on his own. He absolutely LOVES it there. He was very nervous when we dropped him off and he even cried. But three weeks in, he told me he LOVES it. He admitted to me that he wasn't really excited about the school three weeks ago. But once he got there and started meeting people, and going to classes, he said he realized that this is where he belongs.

[Anonymous]

NP, but would love it if posters could include the name of the school. And if those who just want to debate rankings could take it to another thread.

[Anonymous]

DS doesn't text us and we only get a weekly Facetime so how would we know! My spouse accused me of worrying about the same things I did when he went to kindergarten. Will he make friends? (Yes) Will he eat right? (No) Will he dress himself appropriately? (No)

He arrived on campus with friends from high school and camp so he has not been lonely and he has already had a couple visitors. But he has accepted that it will take a while to find a broader circle of new friends. DS is perturbed how pre-professional most of the students are. Because I suggested that he take an easy course load this fall, he said that the workload looks lighter than high school and he is pretty (over)confident about academics. He expressed surprise about how frequently money/expenses/work-study are brought up by classmates. And I was shocked when he said he felt extremely privileged and grateful not to have to worry about those things. So maybe he already learned a valuable life lesson!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:So, college has been in session a couple of weeks now. Did your college meet/exceed your expectations or is it not what it seemed?

My daughter choose Colby in Maine over a number of schools. She's super happy there. Kids are nice and smart; classes challenging. The new Davidson Center is already setting up an internship for her. Having a fabulous time.

Others?

Colby dropped from #12 to #18 in US News. Quite a drop.

And exactly what changed making Colby six places lower?

Quite a stupid comment, for many reasons. Rankings are subjective, for one. #12 and #18 are virtual ties out of 3,000 colleges. And, also, you are just being a jerk to a parent who is expressing some joy. Sorry you are joyless.

Colby dropped because US News adjusted its formula to reward schools who are successful in enrolling and graduating an economically diverse student body. Colby is less economically diverse than many other SLACs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My DS did not get into his dream school and got wait listed from his second choice. The school he ended up attending is one I thought would be the best fit for him and strongly urged him to apply to. He did make the final decision to attend this school on his own. He absolutely LOVES it there. He was very nervous when we dropped him off and he even cried. But three weeks in, he told me he LOVES it. He admitted to me that he wasn't really excited about the school three weeks ago. But once he got there and started meeting people, and going to classes, he said he realized that this is where he belongs.

That's really great to hear--so glad it's worked out the way you hoped it would!

[Anonymous]

I'd love to hear names. My next child is applying soon and I'd like to hear about what colleges worked for you and your family (or didn't).

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:So, college has been in session a couple of weeks now. Did your college meet/exceed your expectations or is it not what it seemed?

My daughter choose Colby in Maine over a number of schools. She's super happy there. Kids are nice and smart; classes challenging. The new Davidson Center is already setting up an internship for her. Having a fabulous time.

Others?

Colby dropped from #12 to #18 in US News. Quite a drop.

And exactly what changed making Colby six places lower?

Quite a stupid comment, for many reasons. Rankings are subjective, for one. #12 and #18 are virtual ties out of 3,000 colleges. And, also, you are just being a jerk to a parent who is expressing some joy. Sorry you are joyless.

Colby dropped because US News adjusted its formula to reward schools who are successful in enrolling and graduating an economically diverse student body. Colby is less economically diverse than many other SLACs.

I knew that, and that was the point -- that it wasn't in fact something that changed lowering the educational quality of Colby.

I don't know why Colby is less diverse than others, and I wish it wasn't as I think economic (and racial) diversity are good things. But the suggestion that Colby is less of an excellent college this year than last is complete and utter bullcrap.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:So, college has been in session a couple of weeks now. Did your college meet/exceed your expectations or is it not what it seemed?

My daughter choose Colby in Maine over a number of schools. She's super happy there. Kids are nice and smart; classes challenging. The new Davidson Center is already setting up an internship for her. Having a fabulous time.

Others?

Colby dropped from #12 to #18 in US News. Quite a drop.

And exactly what changed making Colby six places lower?

Quite a stupid comment, for many reasons. Rankings are subjective, for one. #12 and #18 are virtual ties out of 3,000 colleges. And, also, you are just being a jerk to a parent who is expressing some joy. Sorry you are joyless.

Colby dropped because US News adjusted its formula to reward schools who are successful in enrolling and graduating an economically diverse student body. Colby is less economically diverse than many other SLACs.

I knew that, and that was the point -- that it wasn't in fact something that changed lowering the educational quality of Colby.

I don't know why Colby is less diverse than others, and I wish it wasn't as I think economic (and racial) diversity are good things. But the suggestion that Colby is less of an excellent college this year than last is complete and utter bullcrap.

Fair point but be honest, would you say it’s bullcrap if it moved the same distance in the other direction?