Ugh... you wouldn't be "guesting" you would be on that team even if it meant you weren't on the "top" team. You didn't prove the point you think you did. |
Disagree. There are top-tier Q1 players who will benefit from the switch to SY in playing against kids who are older, especially if the club also is top-tier (in fact, they often already practice/play against them). Not all older kids/parents are dreading the shift. |
Lol exactly! If your kid was so great they would have them play up every game. I’m sure your the parent telling your director your kids amazing and they let them guest play once in a while to shut you up and keep you as a paying customer. |
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You are full of sh*t. If he can already play up in a national title team, he has already signed up with the MLS academy. I am in a national title team with four players going to the MLS academy this coming season. None of them can play up. So when the SY comes, it will be very hard to for Q3/Q4 to stay in the same NL team. |
There are definitely top tier current Q1/2 players that will be excited to have a team with bigger, stronger, faster players to help them out. Overall this age change is only a positive thing because it will make games more competitive by combining the top Q1/2 talent with the top Q3/4 talent in the same grade. Any outliers can still play up so again games are more competitive. As a ECNL girl parent who has a Q3 go through and graduate already the U19 situation was terrible many kids start checking out for various reason your kid and a few others have to find a new team when everyone graduates or join a team of girls who have been together and your kids are treated like and outsider. SY was always the best option for American youth soccer and I’m glad it’s changing back. Have two kids still playing that will be affected on both sides of this. |
I never said my kid was the next Pele ... The development at our club really makes sense and playing with your age actually has its benefits -- often you can get injured or burnout when you play against as a full-time player against in older age groups -- we've seen that, too.. We just see the upcoming change to SY as and opportunity to play against stronger, more experienced players at a well-coached club that's won national titles and sends kids to D1 schools. I will say the kid is good enough not to worry about losing playing time OR a spot from any of these Aug-Dec kids from the club OR others who may try to come in from the outside. Unless you're living it, you may not truly get it. |
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No, you misunderstand. The kid currently matches better with the older age group, especially on size and also competitive on skill BUT our club almost never allows kids to actually play up because of its philosophy on development -- which we think is sound and especially for us fits our kid currently, especially with the opportunities for practice and guest play. The larger point is about the switch to SY and being ready/welcoming that change to play against some of these talented older players on a team. We do have Aug-Dec players who would rather stay on the current team (and who wouldn't?) and they are good BUT the way our club does things, it probably won't happen and those kids/parents will have to decide their next move. |
Congratulations, not only is it rare to have "a few" Q4 players in a top team , but all starters as well. Your kid is playing in a true unicorn 🦄 . |
Not PP, but wow! Some of you really show how far off top teams your families are. The dynamics are totally different, and the roster decisions are as well. Guesting up is a solid reward for a kid that has earned it. But even if they’re better than the bottom 6 on the older team, the roster dynamics are often such that the kid can’t be moved up by the club. My DC who is rostered up, and guests up 2 years - also on a top ECNL program that makes Richmond annually in various ages and genders - is, per the club, rostered up because the requirement is you be “top 3 minimum” for the age up to be brought up a year permanently. And even when that’s the case, the club takes a ton of heat for brining a kid up 1 year. Many clubs actually have rubrics to help with this decision - it’s not all politics - and it’s not all skill based. They have seats to fill, and for ECNL they are trying to place kids in college. A rostered up kid, is one less kid placed in college next the final year on that team. |
If the parents don't care about the change then they wouldn't care about the disruption either. |
Not a thinker are yah. 🤯 |
I think the confusion here is a definitional one with the term “disruption.” Your perspective seems to be of one that believes disruption will provide significant opportunity for people not on top teams to be placed on them. Outside, looking in. Most kids and families on top teams already know they’ll still be there. For them to disruption is knowing that some of their teammates, carpools, coach assignments, etc. are going to change. Not their position on a top team, for most kids on top teams their position is secure. For most of the kids, it’s about knowing that maybe their best friend who’s a Q1 when they’re a Q3 might be playing on a different team, after those two kids have played together for five years. Insiders, looking inside. |
The littles parent know it alls posts about how things work on olders teams is mind numbing to read. Its so obvious that they dont understand how things change when kids get older. |