Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I don’t get how an adult woman could care if a group of mere acquaintances didn’t invite her to something.
All the ladies at my yoga studio get together all of the time. I’ve only been invited once or twice and couldn’t make it. I’ve run into them out and about for lunch/drinks and jimmy crack corn I don’t care. What’s it to me? Is it a clique? Nope, it’s just a group of women who like to hang out with each other. They’re not doing it at my expense.
Besides, I’m too busy to care. Now, if my friends got together and didn’t include me, that would hurt. But mommies on a bus stop? I really, really could not care less.
Don’t you have other stuff to do, OP?
Exactly. It's because OP and this echo chamber here are all thirsty social climbers. They ooze desperation. It's a safe bet the women OP and the echo chamber are all frustrated by are upper caste and wealthy. You're not pissed off if the school's apartment dwelling parents aren't inviting you to an Olive Garden lunch on Friday. You want to be 'in' with the high born. Too bad you're not.
It's crazy to me that you couldn't understand anyone every feeling left out for any reason other than being a "thirsty social climber."
When I have felt left out of a group of women, it is usually because I am in a place where I don't yet have many friends and am lonely. That's it. Not because I'm trying to wheedle my way into a higher "caste."
This is honestly a deranged attitude and I hope I never find myself in a friend group with people who think this way. Most people just want friends to hang out with and talk to, not to gain entry to high society. Good lord.