You just sound very bitter. I can see that you struggled. Yet you don't care if others similar to your old self struggle. Then why is in the world are you complaining of the struggles your kids potentially may experience. Inequity persists in this world when people are selfish in protecting their own privilege and are blind to other's suffering. I am advocating for those who are more fortunate to think of those who are not on many different fronts, whether it is education, income, services, etc. If our education system can churn out a new crop of adults who are mindful of service to others, then the world will be a much better place. BTW, using your own terms caps and all, is meant to show that I am not trying to twist your words or to paraphrase, out of respect for you. You want to perpetuate this victim mentality, be my guest. You will struggle mightily through the admission process. |
The results from this admission cycle does feel as if someone drop all of those apps in the middle from a clock tower. |
The irony is that you fail to see how programs tailored to help first gen and economically disadvantaged kids that you disparage would have helped you. But you're too busy nursing the chip on your shoulder that some poor first gen kid from Appalachia is taking the spot your kid "deserved" because you paid for it. |
DP. What I am advocating is for a first gen kid who went to crappy schools, never had tutors and nevertheless scored 1500 on SAT, let that be their ticket to Harvard. For a kid who was raised by two professors, went to the best schools, and was tutored up the wazoo, 1500 on SAT and $2.75 will buy a subway ride in NYC. |
You are arguing that your kids be given an advantage in admissions based on what YOU have done- made money to pay for prep and tutoring and extracurriculars. Why should your kids get an advantage for something they haven't done? If they can earn high scores on the SAT/ACT without tutoring, get good grades and demonstrate leadership, motivation and intellectual curiosity on their own volition, then they should absolutely be in line for top colleges. If they are only in contention for admission due to tutoring and other experiences that YOU paid for to make their resume look good, well, then maybe your kids haven't earned that spot. |
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There's no "inequality".
It's not about you at all. Drop your ego at the door. It is very simple: The colleges pick who they want, and deal with the consequences. That's their right, entirely. That's it. |
+10000 |
Well after 6 pages I'd have to answer "yes" to the above post. Here's my idea: How about students send the colleges their transcripts and list of accomplishments, and the colleges pick the class they want? What could be easier than that? |
| There is the key sentence “college picking the class they want” not what one’s parents think their kid is entitled to. |
Exactly. They know immediately that you didn’t just throw them in at the last minute, to the list of 20 other random schools you’re applying to. It would make a huge difference. Plus, admissions offices wouldn’t be inundated with thousands of meaningless applications. |
+100 All great ideas/thoughts! |
Colleges don't care if you added them at the last minute if they want you. Admissions offices are not "inundated". They want as many students to choose from as they can and they can handle it. If they didn't they would fill the entire class ED/SCEA. You are applying a solution to a thing that is not a problem, and certainly not your problem. This would not make anything better and would make a whole lot worse for both students and the colleges. Do you think you thought of this and no one in admissions has? If this was a good idea it would be implemented already. It is a bad idea. |
No, it would’t be implemented in US because of antitrust considerations. Our laws don’t allow colleges to talk to each other and make any joint decisions limiting competition. Even the idea that a college can’t go after an applicant who already accepted somewhere else got shut down a couple of years ago. The US college admission game is a classic prisoner’s dilemma - cooperation would be beneficial for all, but the benefits to a single entity that doesn’t cooperate are huge, so everyone refuses to cooperate and we are all worse off. |
Except college isn't solely academics. Colleges have clubs and theater and other activities and want to offer the opportunity for their students to grown and expand across many areas, not just academics. |
Part of the reason sports are in schools is because it is the one place where many kids across the country, have the opportunity. You show your colors when making a comment like this because you are assuming every neighborhood and community has rich offerings outside of school and parents who are willing and able to take their kids to such acitivities and pay for it.. |