Trump voting husband is going to ask for divorce

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:As a liberal, it pains me to hear from Pew that white liberals are double the rate of mental illness diagnoses in their lifetimes than white conservatives.

https://mobile.twitter.com/ZachG932/status/1249062265711742984

It makes sense because in consistent studies liberals are also physically weaker, poorer on average, less informed and less sexually attractive so mental illness could come from that . I’m one of those .

😂😂😂

Lol right you’re a liberal. Liberals are smart enough to go to therapists and get diagnoses and deal with their problems. Conservatives just fondle their guns and hang out on whack alt right web sites. I bet Donnie doesn’t have formal diagnoses and he’s a one man DSM-V. Because mental health care is only for limp wristed libs, right?

Liberals reach out and get help. There are two ways to interpret those studies OP, and I doubt you are a liberal because you can't think of both ways.

Anyhow, I can see being married to a Republican, but if they turned into a Trump supporter, that is a real issue.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This thread is hilarious! The oh tolerant left is at it again. Not every Trump supporter is bad, just like not every liberal is a Antifa lunatic. I voted on policy, and Trump was the better candidate. Biden was so corrupt and Kamala was way too bad to every consider a vote for this “ black” ( not actually black) woman.

What specific policy or policies of Trump's swayed your vote (that actually became law)?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This thread is hilarious! The oh tolerant left is at it again. Not every Trump supporter is bad, just like not every liberal is a Antifa lunatic. I voted on policy, and Trump was the better candidate. Biden was so corrupt and Kamala was way too bad to every consider a vote for this “ black” ( not actually black) woman.

Says who? You? So you get to decide someone else's race? Kamala has a black parent and says she is black, so she is. You can froth at the mouth but she is black. Seethe.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So, let me get this straight ....Husbands and wives now have to vote the same in order to survive marriage? My DH and I did NOT vote for the same candidate in the recent election. I am confident with my choice as he is with his. Move on, the election is over. Is it social media that has made everyone so vocal and immature?

No many people with a moral center refuse to tolerate/live with/sexually touch someone who is able to tolerate a racist sexist bigot.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Well, the election did us in. Or rather, the fact that I talked to my kids about my support of Biden and am going to watch him speak on TV tonight.

Not sure what I am looking for here, I guess advice on how to deal with this.

He is divorcing you? How intolerant of him.

LOL, I see you. To the OP, no great advice. People can and do initiate divorce for a myriad of reasons and you can’t keep someone that doesn’t want to stay. All you can do is prepare mentally and financially for the divorce and make sure you have a good lawyer. If this is all bluster, and the question becomes do you want to now divorce him after his bluster of divorcing you, that’s a different conversation. Only you can make the decision of what’s worth it to you in the marriage and have to live with the consequences of your decision whatever you decide.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This thread is hilarious! The oh tolerant left is at it again. Not every Trump supporter is bad, just like not every liberal is a Antifa lunatic. I voted on policy, and Trump was the better candidate. Biden was so corrupt and Kamala was way too bad to every consider a vote for this “ black” ( not actually black) woman.

Says who? You? So you get to decide someone else's race? Kamala has a black parent and says she is black, so she is. You can froth at the mouth but she is black. Seethe.

+1. Reminds me of the people who said Obama was “only” half-black.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:So, let me get this straight ....Husbands and wives now have to vote the same in order to survive marriage? My DH and I did NOT vote for the same candidate in the recent election. I am confident with my choice as he is with his. Move on, the election is over. Is it social media that has made everyone so vocal and immature?

NP - I’m a moderate Democrat. DH is a moderate Republican. We would not have survived if he was a Trumper. That’s not just a difference of opinion; it’s a fundamental incompatibility. I can’t overlook or respect supporting a candidate who championed sexism, homophobia, xenophobia, and racism.

+1 except we're the other way. I was a moderate R, left the party years ago. DH is a liberal. This was not about R vs D. This was flat out about morals and integrity, and the kind of person who supports someone like Trump knowing that he was more than just a flawed character.

McCain was a "flawed" character but DH never questioned his integrity or character, ever, so when I was full on planning to vote for McCain, DH did not get upset. When DH votes straight D ticket, it doesn't bother me one bit. My vote sometimes cancels his out, and we laugh about it.

Trump OTH, nope. I don't think either of us could respect the other if the other supported Trump. And once you lose respect for your spouse, your marriage is doomed for failure.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This thread is hilarious! The oh tolerant left is at it again. Not every Trump supporter is bad, just like not every liberal is a Antifa lunatic. I voted on policy, and Trump was the better candidate. Biden was so corrupt and Kamala was way too bad to every consider a vote for this “ black” ( not actually black) woman.

LOL that's comedy at its finest.

Trump's entire being is corrupt. And the quip about Kamala not being "black" just goes to show just how cookoo you are and can't be taken seriously.

-signed an Independent

[Anonymous]

This is the third such post that I have read tonight on this thread.

Man, the world has truly gone crazy.

[Anonymous]

Interesting article by BBC on how Trump puts down women. https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-50563106

(I am sure his shame on his mom being a cleaning lady and being bullied by his dad had a part to play in how he treated women but still ... https://www.thenational.scot/news/14903147.an-inconvenient-truth-donald-trumps-scottish-mother-was-a-low-earning-migrant/ )

But in the end the result was this -

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I gotta say I don't know how couples who did not both support Trump could stay together over the past four years. The difference in ideology and morality is too big of a gap to reconcile. It goes to the core of who you are as a person.

This! My husband and I are rabid Trump supporters. We will accept the results once all is clear. Republicans 2024! Enjoy while you can! Life is still good with us!

+1. Husband and I are both Trump supporters. We don't agree with the election results but we will respect it if it turns out to actually be legit. Americans rise up 2024. I'm in it for all Americans, not just Republicans.

There has not been the tiniest bit of evidence that it is not. Comments like this are designed to undermine faith in democracy.

OP, I wish you luck.

CNN, MSNBC, and Fox are all hella partisan and therefore annoying, but Fox is like getting your news from the National Enquirer. Sometimes, they break the big story, but usually its trash. Currently, they're pushing the narrative that something nefarious occurred and bringing enablers on to corroborate that narrative. I sometimes watch for comedic relief.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This thread is hilarious! The oh tolerant left is at it again. Not every ***** supporter is bad, just like not every liberal is a Antifa lunatic. I voted on policy, and ***** was the better candidate. Biden was so corrupt and Kamala was way too bad to every consider a vote for this “ black” ( not actually black) woman.

Oh my God, you have successfully embodied every ridiculous Right Wing stereotype in one post! Bravo. Excellent sarcasm.

Trump doesn't even have "policy." They didn't even bother to put together a 2020 platform. Their platform was "I'm With Stupid.:

You should do some actual research about this idiotic "HURR DURR I THOT LIBRULS WERE SPOSED TO BE TOLERANT" fallacy and why some things in a decent society cannot and will not be "tolerated."

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am so sorry you are going through this. I have realized a profound truth that most Trump supporters have narcissistic personality disorder. I’m a clinician and feel confident saying this. So there are likely many problems in your marriage and your husband being a Trump supporter is only one of them. It must not been easy to stand up for your believes being married to a person with NPD. I’m here to tell you that you will get through this and divorcing this man will mean that your kids will spend at least fifty percent of their home lives not in the presence of a bully.

I certainly hope you practice medicine with more objectivity and less generalization. It’s a very bold and frankly unprofessional statement that nearly half of our country has a personality disorder just because you differ in political opinion. Do you hear how ridiculous that sounds?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I am so sorry you are going through this. I have realized a profound truth that most Trump supporters have narcissistic personality disorder. I’m a clinician and feel confident saying this. So there are likely many problems in your marriage and your husband being a Trump supporter is only one of them. It must not been easy to stand up for your believes being married to a person with NPD. I’m here to tell you that you will get through this and divorcing this man will mean that your kids will spend at least fifty percent of their home lives not in the presence of a bully.

I certainly hope you practice medicine with more objectivity and less generalization. It’s a very bold and frankly unprofessional statement that nearly half of our country has a personality disorder just because you differ in political opinion. Do you hear how ridiculous that sounds?

I don’t hear that at all. This is more than a difference of opinion, it is in fact about morality. I have said this before but two of the cardinal features of narcissism are entitlement and lack of empathy. To support Trump is not just saying, “I don’t want my taxes increased”. This man separated children from their parents and there are at least 400 of these children who are yet to be reunified with their parents, he took a full page add out in the NYT declaring five minority youth were guilty of rape and refused to apologize even though they were proven innocent. I could go on. To support a man like this you have to lack empathy. So no I don’t believe I sound ridiculous at all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Interesting article by BBC on how Trump puts down women. https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-50563106

(I am sure his shame on his mom being a cleaning lady and being bullied by his dad had a part to play in how he treated women but still ... https://www.thenational.scot/news/14903147.an-inconvenient-truth-donald-trumps-scottish-mother-was-a-low-earning-migrant/ )

But in the end the result was this -