Is 2 Carat Too Big?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Short and chubby fingers...are you sure you want to go through with this?

OP here. Yes. She has small hands. She’s 5’1”, 120lbs, and busty. She’s a great person and the sex is amazing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Blue Nile running close to $20k. I really hope you have the income. Going into massive debt for a ring is not the way to start a marriage.

OP here. I have the money to pay for it. I’m older ( 39) and make $300k/year. I have money saved and the cost is not an issue. She is financially stable and makes $120k/year.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Short and chubby fingers...are you sure you want to go through with this?

OP here. Yes. She has small hands. She’s 5’1”, 120lbs, and busty. She’s a great person and the sex is amazing.

red flag post

[Anonymous]

I will never forget the 3 carat diamond ring my law school roommate got. Talk about excess! She could barely pick up her hand!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Blue Nile running close to $20k. I really hope you have the income. Going into massive debt for a ring is not the way to start a marriage.

OP here. I have the money to pay for it. I’m older ( 39) and make $300k/year. I have money saved and the cost is not an issue. She is financially stable and makes $120k/year.

I'm the exact same age and income as you (like, exactly). When I proposed I was making less (200k) and went with a 2 carat. Honestly at this point in my life and income I'd go for 2.5-3 carats. Just for the f*ck of it. All her friends and coworkers will be jealous. It's awesome. Ritani has some ~2.5 carat with reasonable specs (G, VS2, ideal) for around 30k

[Anonymous]

The average stone size in the US is 1.1 carats.

If your endowment is below average, hers should be above.

It is inversely proportional.

[Anonymous]

I don't cook, I don't clean
But let me tell you how I got this ring

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. She had smaller hands but her fingers are a little short and chubby.

My MIL has short chubby finger and recently traded up to a 2.5. It looks ridiculous. Do you know what she wants? I met a woman who had the Jean Jean Schlumberger ring from Tiffany which she used in place of a wedding/engagement ring. It was really pretty.
https://www.tiffany.com/jewelry/rings/tiffany-co-schlumberger-sixteen-stone-ring-GRP00053/

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Short and chubby fingers...are you sure you want to go through with this?

OP here. Yes. She has small hands. She’s 5’1”, 120lbs, and busty. She’s a great person and the sex is amazing.

red flag post

Huge red flag. Buy her the 3 carat so when she leaves you, she can sell it and take a fabulous vacation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Blue Nile running close to $20k. I really hope you have the income. Going into massive debt for a ring is not the way to start a marriage.

OP here. I have the money to pay for it. I’m older ( 39) and make $300k/year. I have money saved and the cost is not an issue. She is financially stable and makes $120k/year.

I'm the exact same age and income as you (like, exactly). When I proposed I was making less (200k) and went with a 2 carat. Honestly at this point in my life and income I'd go for 2.5-3 carats. Just for the f*ck of it. All her friends and coworkers will be jealous. It's awesome. Ritani has some ~2.5 carat with reasonable specs (G, VS2, ideal) for around 30k

No. They will be sad that she has to put up with this kind of behavior for a cloudy two carat ring.

[Anonymous]

People are still wearing diamonds?

I have a diamond ring (which I rarely wear) but if I could do it over again, I would pick a beautiful colored stone. I think more engaged couples are doing that vs diamonds.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Short and chubby fingers...are you sure you want to go through with this?

OP here. Yes. She has small hands. She’s 5’1”, 120lbs, and busty. She’s a great person and the sex is amazing.

5'1" 120 won't age well. She will grow out of that ring after the first kid.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. She had smaller hands but her fingers are a little short and chubby.

My MIL has short chubby finger and recently traded up to a 2.5. It looks ridiculous. Do you know what she wants? I met a woman who had the Jean Jean Schlumberger ring from Tiffany which she used in place of a wedding/engagement ring. It was really pretty.
https://www.tiffany.com/jewelry/rings/tiffany-co-schlumberger-sixteen-stone-ring-GRP00053/

I have the Schlumberger ring with emeralds and diamonds. (Don’t know if they make it with colored stones anymore.)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Blue Nile running close to $20k. I really hope you have the income. Going into massive debt for a ring is not the way to start a marriage.

OP here. I have the money to pay for it. I’m older ( 39) and make $300k/year. I have money saved and the cost is not an issue. She is financially stable and makes $120k/year.

I'm the exact same age and income as you (like, exactly). When I proposed I was making less (200k) and went with a 2 carat. Honestly at this point in my life and income I'd go for 2.5-3 carats. Just for the f*ck of it. All her friends and coworkers will be jealous. It's awesome. Ritani has some ~2.5 carat with reasonable specs (G, VS2, ideal) for around 30k

No. They will be sad that she has to put up with this kind of behavior for a cloudy two carat ring.

You're an idiot. VS2 won't be "cloudy". It will be indistinguishable to the human eye.

[Anonymous]

Pp here. I checked and they make it with sapphires now.

For the record I have very long skinny fingers and hands like a spider. My ring size is a 4 something but I can use a men’s tennis racket.