Solution for all the Single Women

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:African American women have faced this reality for a couple of decades.

How is that? There are LOTS of AA men. I thought I saw statistics that they outnumber the women.

There has never been stats showing AA men outnumbering AA women . Never

[Anonymous]

Why can’t all these single women just pair off?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why can’t all these single women just pair off?

That’s another trend .... even for married ones

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:All of this is BS. Any woman can go online and be inundated with messages from men. Case closed.

True but these are not the men most college educated women will be interested in. I get a lot of messages from men who haven't graduated from college. I guess I'm a snob that way but I need someone who earns more than me. This is not difficult to do as I am a teacher.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:All of this is BS. Any woman can go online and be inundated with messages from men. Case closed.

True but these are not the men most college educated women will be interested in. I get a lot of messages from men who haven't graduated from college. I guess I'm a snob that way but I need someone who earns more than me. This is not difficult to do as I am a teacher.

Where are you drawing the line? I don’t know what median income here is, but median household income is not that much above $100K, and there aren’t enough tall princes available for all of ya. If you can’t make your standards work, screw your standards.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:All of this is BS. Any woman can go online and be inundated with messages from men. Case closed.

True but these are not the men most college educated women will be interested in. I get a lot of messages from men who haven't graduated from college. I guess I'm a snob that way but I need someone who earns more than me. This is not difficult to do as I am a teacher.

Where are you drawing the line? I don’t know what median income here is, but median household income is not that much above $100K, and there aren’t enough tall princes available for all of ya. If you can’t make your standards work, screw your standards.

LOL where do you draw the line? Would you sleep with someone you are not attracted to?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:All of this is BS. Any woman can go online and be inundated with messages from men. Case closed.

True but these are not the men most college educated women will be interested in. I get a lot of messages from men who haven't graduated from college. I guess I'm a snob that way but I need someone who earns more than me. This is not difficult to do as I am a teacher.

Where are you drawing the line? I don’t know what median income here is, but median household income is not that much above $100K, and there aren’t enough tall princes available for all of ya. If you can’t make your standards work, screw your standards.

LOL where do you draw the line? Would you sleep with someone you are not attracted to?

I’m attracted to an enormous chunk of the women my age. Basically anyone not fat who cares what she looks like. If you’re only attracted to the same ten men who are 6 foot 2, and rich, with one brown eye and one blue eye, as every other woman your age here, that’s pretty childish. Stay single I guess.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:But, I will say that some women do have unrealistic expectations in terms of money and looks. But then again, some men have unrealistic expectations regarding a woman maintaining a high libido and not gaining weight after having kids.

False equivalency. Big difference between expectations BEFORE getting trapped into marriage versus bait-and-switch AFTER marriage.

The equivalent of a woman losing desire and getting fat would be a man who starts out attractive and wealthy just to get the relationship started, then he tattoos his face, pierces his nose, dreadlocks his hair, stops working and spends every dime on video games.

? age and kids does a number on women and their bodies. It's not like they do it on purpose. The man has had at least half a role in getting her pregnant. If a man wants her to stay in shape after kids, I hope he gives her the time to work out, ie, he does a lot of the childcare and house chores so she can go to the gym.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Don't send your daughters to college and the ratio will switch in their favor! Problem solved!

Wow! The 18th century is calling for you! My god, what sexist dribble.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Don't send your daughters to college and the ratio will switch in their favor! Problem solved!

Wow! The 18th century is calling for you! My god, what sexist dribble.

NP here. The poster was being sarcastic.

[Anonymous]

I've seen a lot of women who are beautiful, educated, professional, cool, and polished settle. Their spouses or boyfriends are either dull, or not very attractive, or have weird issues around sex/porn/cheating.

IME the number of men who are tall, handsome, educated, fun, funny and high earners obviously get snapped up quickly. The ones who don't tend to be commitmentphobes. Hence the dilemma.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Don't send your daughters to college and the ratio will switch in their favor! Problem solved!

Wow! The 18th century is calling for you! My god, what sexist dribble.

Of all the sexist post on this thread you pick this one? Guess you think sexism only applies to women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I've seen a lot of women who are beautiful, educated, professional, cool, and polished settle. Their spouses or boyfriends are either dull, or not very attractive, or have weird issues around sex/porn/cheating.

IME the number of men who are tall, handsome, educated, fun, funny and high earners obviously get snapped up quickly. The ones who don't tend to be commitmentphobes. Hence the dilemma.

What the f? The same can be said for all the single women. You as a women may think they are beautiful, educated, professional, cool, and polished, but men do not agree. That is not what men want. These single women all have major problems and most are commitment phobes. They are holding out for the prefect guy who does not exist. Stop being some sexist.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He was short? The horror!

Two of the greatest men I’ve ever known were 5-9. I’ve been married; my recollection is that neither relative height nor masters degrees mattered.

5'9 is not short but not tall

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I've seen a lot of women who are beautiful, educated, professional, cool, and polished settle. Their spouses or boyfriends are either dull, or not very attractive, or have weird issues around sex/porn/cheating.

IME the number of men who are tall, handsome, educated, fun, funny and high earners obviously get snapped up quickly. The ones who don't tend to be commitmentphobes. Hence the dilemma.

Accomplished women have earned the attention of better men? Do those guys know they’re supposed to pay attention to “professional” and “polished” instead of cute and fun?

And who cares if you’re educated beyond a certain point? Most women in this area are educated enough to enjoy a relationship with.