+1 This, exactly. |
+100 It's interesting to see parents of AAP kids react when they realize that ALL kids will be able to take honors and AP classes in high school. Or when they hear that a former Gen Ed kid is going to a really excellent college - which happens all the time. You can almost see the disbelief in their eyes. I blame FCPS for setting up this ridiculous system of what amounts to nothing more than segregation. |
First of all, I'm not the PP who made the "delighted" comment. There are several of us here. However, I understand exactly what that PP meant - she explained it fully and eloquently and you seem not to grasp her meaning. She is happy to see Gen Ed kids excelling. As am I. It has nothing to do with jealousy, and everything to do with being thrilled our kids are finally given opportunities they should have had all along. Also, I've never said the Gen Ed program is "so much worse than AAP" - you seem to be taking the comments of a disparate group of posters and attributing them all to me. I said that the Gen Ed program and AAP are almost identical - something you won't hear many AAP parents admitting because they've convinced themselves (and their kids) that they are truly getting a "better education." That's why we didn't bother pursuing AAP. It was more trouble than it was worth, considering my kids have gone above and beyond what was being taught in AAP anyhow. Being labeled "AAP" certainly wouldn't make a difference. It's notable that there aren't many posters claiming AAP is superior to Gen Ed - because it isn't. It's simply a different label for a group of very similar kids. Which makes no sense. |
Not the PP, but exactly who is "mocking" former AAP students? Are we not allowed to be happy for all the Gen Ed kids who excel? As for your description of AAP kids, it sounds nothing like the kids at our center school. There are plenty of travel athletes and popular kids. In fact, more so in AAP because they far outnumber the Gen Ed kids at our school. AAP is nothing like the GT program of years ago. The very small amount of truly gifted kids were selected for that program, many with quirks. AAP today is full of mainstream kids - no different from Gen Ed. So please don't pretend they're some kind of protected class. If anything, they are more likely to bully Gen Ed kids for not "getting into" AAP. It happens all.the.time. |
+100 AAP as a separate program is not worth it. I can't think of one other program that has caused this kind of divisiveness within FCPS. |
+1000 Well said and very true. |
| 23:51. Well not in our school and from the likes of the "sweet justice" poster there are snarks from gen-ed as well. No one can even talk about any academic success. Gone are the days of parents being proud of children's academic successes. It's not possible to say anything anymore without someone being offended. Does it really happen all.the.time that AAP kids berate gen-ed? What did your school do about it when you brought up this bullying? |
Yes. These comments are commonplace at the center school my kids attend. The AAP kids, for the most part, are extremely sure of themselves and often refer to Gen Ed as "the dumb classes." Nice, right? Especially since the vast majority of Gen Ed and AAP kids are pretty much identical. The administration has had various counseling sessions for the students, to make them more aware of how awful they sound, but frankly, FCPS has created this monster. They've elected to separate very similar kids into two groups, with very distinct labels. The kids are well aware of who is in what class. The parents are very aware also. As another poster said, there is an undercurrent of tension. Of course, someone will chime in and say, "Not at our school! The kids don't care about such things!" But they're seeing it from the point of view of their own AAP kids. If their kids were in the group that certain kids call, "the dumb classes," they would be singing a much different tune. And the sad part is that all of this could have been prevented if FCPS had continued with very small GT classes for kids who *actually* need gifted instruction (which AAP is not), and kept all of the other kids in Gen Ed. |
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Plenty of parents have brought this subject up to the administration, not just me. I address this in another post. A counseling session was set up to enlighten these kids that they are not superior to the Gen Ed kids, and are not to treat them as their inferiors. They behave better for awhile, but it always starts up again, usually on the bus, at recess, or lunch. Honestly, it's not so much "bullying" as it is being so cocky that they feel they can simply state things like, "Oh, the teachers know we're smart so we get the harder work," or my favorite, "If you had just tried harder, you would have gotten into AAP!" Just really clueless. Makes you wonder what their parents are telling them at home. |
So what then? How would this perfect world of differentiation work in detail with a smaller group of advanced students being labeled GT? |
In the 80s in FCPS it was one or two kids in each grade who were in GT. This is how it should be now. The current system is doing a disservice to the few gifted kids who truly need it. Currently, at my DCs elementary school, it's pretty common that close to half of each class is in AAP (approx 80 or so total kids in each grade and almost half of them being labeled AAP). We are not a center but a level IV school. Statistically impossible that there are 40 of 80 kids "gifted" at one school year after year. This is called tracking - and Fairfax claims they don't track. I had one in AAP and one not in AAP go through this school. The AAP kids can be just rotten and never miss an opportunity to remind the Gen Ed kids they are "smarter". I have heard it all and the parents can be just as bad. My kids are older now and watching their Gen Ed friends excel and watching some of the AAP kids flounder has been eye opening and, yes, does make me happy to witness after years of telling DS that things will eventually all even out. Believe me, they do! |
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APP is a sham and allows people to buy cheaper real estate in less desirable school pyramids and then escape the FARMS aka Poors
If the kid is above average intelligence yes thats it simply above average it is very easy to appeal and get in I don't blame people that do this but that's all it really is |
So make the GT kids travel farther to centers and make the group smaller. Only have centers and no base school LLIV. What happens to everyone else? FCPS isn't the same as in the 80's. |
| How does FCPS approach the idea of a "fixed" vs "growth" mindset? Research shows that having a growth mindset is a key aspect of success. I know my kids in APS hear a lot about developing a growth mindset. But it seems that the things people say they are hearing AAP/Gen Ed kids say to each other show that those kids are getting a really strong message that reinforces a "fixed" mindset -- e.g. we're smart/you're dumb. That's damaging for both groups -- the "dumb" ones can start to think they really are and not try while the "smart" ones become averse to trying things that might be hard because struggling with something means they aren't "smart" after all. Getting a B or (horrors!) a C in something becomes a tragedy rather than an opportunity to figure out how to improve. |