"Cat Person"

[Anonymous]

I want the last ten minutes of my life back from reading that. Definitely the biggest time waster of the month.

[Anonymous]

Did none of you have men in their late 20s or early 30s pursue you when you were in college and young? I did. It made me uneasy and the first time it happened I was 17 (freshman in college) and I didn't know how to handle the situation. I was immature, he was 28. There's definitely a power imbalance and it's not natural. There's something not right with men who pursue women that young. Crap, I even had a man in his early 50's pursue me at one point in college. I didn't know how to handle that situation either. No one really prepares you for these situations.

Her text (the one her friend sent) wasn't nice, but it was direct. And sometimes direct is better than nice. She felt uncomfortable and wanted out, why does she owe him anything? She wasn't a "tease" she slept with him, she didn't stop. But heck, I remember having situations like that where I knew I made a bad decision, but I was on that path and there was no stopping at that point. But again, if she had stopped, good for her. No person owes another person sex. That's not a thing, it's a construct in our heads.