Hugh Hefner Dies at 91

Anonymous
Hef was such an influential American. Will the President order American flags to half-mast?
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:Adios, asshole. A major player in the subjugation and objectification of women is gone!


Didn't all these women do what they did with him willingly?


If a woman willingly stays with a man who beats her, does that make it okay?



I was the one that stated the women chose to do what they did in regards to Hef...

Anyway, are you comparing women who are in a physically abusive relationship to women who got paid to pose nude in a magazine? You don't have to like him, I couldn't care any less, but don't be so extreme and dramatic.


Yes. Hefner abused the women he dated and many of the women who posed in the magazine were subject to sexual assaults, such as from Hef's dear friend Cosby.


Okay, so we are comparing posing for a magazine to domestic violence. Now I know any further discussion will be futile. Have a good one, hope you feel better.


Okay, so you are ignoring the fact that many of the women who posed at his magazine were raped and sexually assaulted. And that he defended it. I think we're done here. Have a good one, hope you feel better.



Where on Earth are you getting this information that many of the women who posed for playboy were raped or sexually assaulted?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Adios, asshole. A major player in the subjugation and objectification of women is gone!


Didn't all these women do what they did with him willingly?


If a woman willingly stays with a man who beats her, does that make it okay?



I was the one that stated the women chose to do what they did in regards to Hef...

Anyway, are you comparing women who are in a physically abusive relationship to women who got paid to pose nude in a magazine? You don't have to like him, I couldn't care any less, but don't be so extreme and dramatic.


Yes. Hefner abused the women he dated and many of the women who posed in the magazine were subject to sexual assaults, such as from Hef's dear friend Cosby.


Okay, so we are comparing posing for a magazine to domestic violence. Now I know any further discussion will be futile. Have a good one, hope you feel better.


Okay, so you are ignoring the fact that many of the women who posed at his magazine were raped and sexually assaulted. And that he defended it. I think we're done here. Have a good one, hope you feel better.



Where on Earth are you getting this information that many of the women who posed for playboy were raped or sexually assaulted?


http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2857873/Passed-Bill-Cosby-Hugh-Hefner-dozens-Hollywood-honchos-Playboy-Playmate-Month-felt-used-abused-powerful-leading-men-took-gun-shot-head.html
http://www.nydailynews.com/entertainment/gossip/accuser-bill-cosby-raped-12-playboy-bunnies-article-1.2035258
Anonymous
"Every Friday morning we had to go to Hef's room, wait while he picked up all the dog poo off the carpet — and then ask for our allowance: a thousand dollars counted out in crisp hundred-dollar bills from a safe in one of his bookcases. We all hated this process. Hef would always use the occasion to bring up anything he wasn't happy about in the relationship. Most of the complaints were about the lack of harmony among the girlfriends — or your lack of sexual participation in the 'parties' he held in his bedroom. If we'd been out of town for any reason and missed one of the official 'going out' nights [when Hefner liked to parade his girls at nightclubs] he wouldn't want to give us the allowance. He used it as a weapon."

—Izabella St. James in her book, Bunny Tales: Behind Closed Doors at the Playboy Mansion
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Adios, asshole. A major player in the subjugation and objectification of women is gone!


Didn't all these women do what they did with him willingly?


If a woman willingly stays with a man who beats her, does that make it okay?



I was the one that stated the women chose to do what they did in regards to Hef...

Anyway, are you comparing women who are in a physically abusive relationship to women who got paid to pose nude in a magazine? You don't have to like him, I couldn't care any less, but don't be so extreme and dramatic.


Yes. Hefner abused the women he dated and many of the women who posed in the magazine were subject to sexual assaults, such as from Hef's dear friend Cosby.


Okay, so we are comparing posing for a magazine to domestic violence. Now I know any further discussion will be futile. Have a good one, hope you feel better.


Okay, so you are ignoring the fact that many of the women who posed at his magazine were raped and sexually assaulted. And that he defended it. I think we're done here. Have a good one, hope you feel better.



Where on Earth are you getting this information that many of the women who posed for playboy were raped or sexually assaulted?


http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2857873/Passed-Bill-Cosby-Hugh-Hefner-dozens-Hollywood-honchos-Playboy-Playmate-Month-felt-used-abused-powerful-leading-men-took-gun-shot-head.html
http://www.nydailynews.com/entertainment/gossip/accuser-bill-cosby-raped-12-playboy-bunnies-article-1.2035258


Just more fake news.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Adios, asshole. A major player in the subjugation and objectification of women is gone!


Didn't all these women do what they did with him willingly?


If a woman willingly stays with a man who beats her, does that make it okay?



I was the one that stated the women chose to do what they did in regards to Hef...

Anyway, are you comparing women who are in a physically abusive relationship to women who got paid to pose nude in a magazine? You don't have to like him, I couldn't care any less, but don't be so extreme and dramatic.


Yes. Hefner abused the women he dated and many of the women who posed in the magazine were subject to sexual assaults, such as from Hef's dear friend Cosby.


Okay, so we are comparing posing for a magazine to domestic violence. Now I know any further discussion will be futile. Have a good one, hope you feel better.


Okay, so you are ignoring the fact that many of the women who posed at his magazine were raped and sexually assaulted. And that he defended it. I think we're done here. Have a good one, hope you feel better.



Where on Earth are you getting this information that many of the women who posed for playboy were raped or sexually assaulted?


http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2857873/Passed-Bill-Cosby-Hugh-Hefner-dozens-Hollywood-honchos-Playboy-Playmate-Month-felt-used-abused-powerful-leading-men-took-gun-shot-head.html
http://www.nydailynews.com/entertainment/gossip/accuser-bill-cosby-raped-12-playboy-bunnies-article-1.2035258


Just more fake news.


It's not. It's very real, and you know it.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:"Every Friday morning we had to go to Hef's room, wait while he picked up all the dog poo off the carpet — and then ask for our allowance: a thousand dollars counted out in crisp hundred-dollar bills from a safe in one of his bookcases. We all hated this process. Hef would always use the occasion to bring up anything he wasn't happy about in the relationship. Most of the complaints were about the lack of harmony among the girlfriends — or your lack of sexual participation in the 'parties' he held in his bedroom. If we'd been out of town for any reason and missed one of the official 'going out' nights [when Hefner liked to parade his girls at nightclubs] he wouldn't want to give us the allowance. He used it as a weapon."

—Izabella St. James in her book, Bunny Tales: Behind Closed Doors at the Playboy Mansion


So they could've left then, I didn't hear anything about being chained up.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:"Every Friday morning we had to go to Hef's room, wait while he picked up all the dog poo off the carpet — and then ask for our allowance: a thousand dollars counted out in crisp hundred-dollar bills from a safe in one of his bookcases. We all hated this process. Hef would always use the occasion to bring up anything he wasn't happy about in the relationship. Most of the complaints were about the lack of harmony among the girlfriends — or your lack of sexual participation in the 'parties' he held in his bedroom. If we'd been out of town for any reason and missed one of the official 'going out' nights [when Hefner liked to parade his girls at nightclubs] he wouldn't want to give us the allowance. He used it as a weapon."

—Izabella St. James in her book, Bunny Tales: Behind Closed Doors at the Playboy Mansion


So they could've left then, I didn't hear anything about being chained up.


And most of them did. It was not a happy place.
Anonymous
"The notion that Playboy turns women into sex objects is ridiculous. Women ARE sex objects."

- Hugh Hefner
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:"Every Friday morning we had to go to Hef's room, wait while he picked up all the dog poo off the carpet — and then ask for our allowance: a thousand dollars counted out in crisp hundred-dollar bills from a safe in one of his bookcases. We all hated this process. Hef would always use the occasion to bring up anything he wasn't happy about in the relationship. Most of the complaints were about the lack of harmony among the girlfriends — or your lack of sexual participation in the 'parties' he held in his bedroom. If we'd been out of town for any reason and missed one of the official 'going out' nights [when Hefner liked to parade his girls at nightclubs] he wouldn't want to give us the allowance. He used it as a weapon."

—Izabella St. James in her book, Bunny Tales: Behind Closed Doors at the Playboy Mansion


So they could've left then, I didn't hear anything about being chained up.


This shows that the guy was dick, a complete asshole that in no way deserves the veneration that many of the dumb asses on DCUM are giving him. I do not take this as an example of sexual assault or him being a rapists. These weren't women who were living with him because their alternative was the streets. These women allowed themselves to live this degrading lifestyle because they wanted a chance to pose naked in his magazine and attend his parties with celebrities.
Anonymous
Sickening.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:"Every Friday morning we had to go to Hef's room, wait while he picked up all the dog poo off the carpet — and then ask for our allowance: a thousand dollars counted out in crisp hundred-dollar bills from a safe in one of his bookcases. We all hated this process. Hef would always use the occasion to bring up anything he wasn't happy about in the relationship. Most of the complaints were about the lack of harmony among the girlfriends — or your lack of sexual participation in the 'parties' he held in his bedroom. If we'd been out of town for any reason and missed one of the official 'going out' nights [when Hefner liked to parade his girls at nightclubs] he wouldn't want to give us the allowance. He used it as a weapon."

—Izabella St. James in her book, Bunny Tales: Behind Closed Doors at the Playboy Mansion


A weapon? How about do your i king job if you want to get paid? I can't imagine not showing up for work and then being upset when I don't get a bonus.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:"The notion that Playboy turns women into sex objects is ridiculous. Women ARE sex objects."

- Hugh Hefner


This!
Anonymous
Sorry faux-feminsty men, Hugh and his ilk were not good men and did not help sexual lib for women.

Sorry to burst your faux feminist bubble.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Adios, asshole. A major player in the subjugation and objectification of women is gone!


Didn't all these women do what they did with him willingly?


Women desperate for money aren't on a level playing field with men who have tons of money, power and influence.


Women may finally find themselves equal to men in all areas when they decide to stop acting like perpetual victims. Take responsibility for decisions. These women made a choice. They weren’t oppressed or victimized. To suggest otherwise implies we are weak.


Except studies show 85% of women in the porn industry were sexually molested as kids.

So pretending these women were not victims making horrible decisions due to the result of complex PTSD would make us ignorant.


I don't think that the decision to pose for tasteful, nude pictures in Playboy is the same thing as starring in a porn movie. I highly doubt that 85% of the women choosing to pose in Playboy did so because they had been sexually abused. They did it for the money, the fame, the fortune, the status.



It's sad you think you can look at a women and tell if she was molested.

The person you work with could have been molested, they are not just whores on the street addicted to meth.


I don't think that I'm the one looking at women and labeling them or questioning their personal choices. Some women chose to pose nude in Playboy solely for the money and for the status of being a Playboy Bunny.

Think of all of the celebrities who have done it. You don't have to agree with it to understand that other women might make other choices than you do.
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