Yes I’m interested too as to why you feel the need to write this rather than “children are not disposables”… |
Hopefully you know enough about Bangladesh to know that you'd only be able to adopt if someone was paid or it's a child from incest. Regardless, it wouldn't be a great situation and probably not above board. |
Many adopted children have experienced trauma. BEFORE the adoptive parent arrived on the scene. Their birth parent died it they were all hungry it the parent was an addict/abusive.
When systems work , a non-corrupt government, who is putting the child’s interest first , identifies their need for a nurturing family (because the one they were born into cannot provide what they need). Under these circumstances, an adoptive family who has been thoroughly vetted by objective professionals can give that child what every child deserves: love, safety and security. I am against private adoption because I think it is prone to some of the unethical practices mentioned above. |
You are wrong to characterize must adoption this way. |