What's your partner's greatest vice?

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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I don't think some of you understand what a vice is.


+1


Like what? Call one out.

Np here but not doing the dishes is definitely not a vice

Selling the dishes to buy cocaine would be a vice
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Lying and living in an alternate universe.


This describes my soon-to-be-ex-husband. In his case, however, I suspect a thought disorder.
Anonymous
Soccer- watching, reading, playing 3 days a week, son playing 4 days a week, coaching, fantasy league. My husband would leave me for Landon Donavon.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I don't think some of you understand what a vice is.


+1


Like what? Call one out.

Np here but not doing the dishes is definitely not a vice

Selling the dishes to buy cocaine would be a vice


NP. 3-4 cups of coffee a day? Is that really a vice?

Buying too many books?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Right now- Draft Kings. Doesn't help that he's actually good at it and wins some money!


Ha! I'm a woman and I used to get mad when my fiancé was constantly checking his phone on sundays playing Fanduel. But I'm a football fan too so I joined his weekly league and now I'm also hooked! But it gives us something to laugh over and talk about and we watch the games together, so it actually ruined into a bonding activity for us.
Anonymous
Turned not ruined! Autocorrect
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Secret bearer here. Mainly, people think I'm a really nkce person but it's just because I am extroverted and attractive. I'm actually extremely cold and opportunistic.


That's boring. My secret is that I'm a sex addict.
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smoking
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Porn
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I don't think some of you understand what a vice is.


It's one of the seven deadly sins, right?
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Anonymous wrote:He is a piano player. I mean, he's a lawyer too, but he loves playing piano. So for his 30th birthday I bought him a baby grand piano. He can seriously sit down on the bench and not even look up for four hours unless he's interrupted. When we're traveling if he can't find a piano after about 3-4 days he gets a little mopey and his energy wains.
piano addict. Does he play well?


Yeah. He's started teaching the 5 year old to play.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Hmm. Where do I start?
ADHD, Asperger's, bipolar tendencies, all packaged with high intelligence and an inordinate degree of stubbornness. Makes for someone who is nearly impossible to manage.



This is exactly the kind of husband DS will be. At first his Asbergers and ADHD made the former principal at his school want him to leave. But now they like him because he raises their math and reading scores. But he's still a discipline problem because of his stubbornness. They are trying to teach him to write poetry, but he just won't do it. The men in my family have always been poets. My dad wrote lyrics for musicals, and I used to write a lot of poetry. I've offered to help him but he's not in
Anonymous
Mine is obsessed with what's next. He is never content. This is a vice because he can never relax, never just be happy with what we have -- it's always the next job, the next car, the next house, the next way he can turn our lives upside down in the name of "progress."

He also spends any free time he has on his computer, but he'd say the same about me on the phone. And usually I'm on DCUM.
Anonymous
^^PP here -- my vice isn't DCUM, or maybe it's one, but the main one is benzos at the moment. I quit smoking pot for the most part and painkillers are so damn hard to get.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Hmm. Where do I start?
ADHD, Asperger's, bipolar tendencies, all packaged with high intelligence and an inordinate degree of stubbornness. Makes for someone who is nearly impossible to manage.



This is exactly the kind of husband DS will be. At first his Asbergers and ADHD made the former principal at his school want him to leave. But now they like him because he raises their math and reading scores. But he's still a discipline problem because of his stubbornness. They are trying to teach him to write poetry, but he just won't do it. The men in my family have always been poets. My dad wrote lyrics for musicals, and I used to write a lot of poetry. I've offered to help him but he's not in


Something went wrong with my last post. Anyway, he has to take social skills classes and hates it. When we take him to school all the kids call out his name and say hi, but he ignores them. I guess he's popular because he's got exotic Eurasian good looks. He's a national chess champion, and is unbeatable in UNO and Connect Four. But like many with Asbergers, he's focused on particular thing. In his case, it's elevators. Whenever we take him to chess tournaments, he wants to go to all the local hotels and ride the elevators. We even took him to Disney World but all he wanted to do was go to the local hotels and ride elevators.

I can't imagine what kind of husband he will be. He had a job as a magazine model before we moved here from NYC and I think he'll be good looking enough to attract women at the outset, but whoever ends up with him will have to be very easy going and patient.
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