Do women really not have intimate knowledge of their husband's work experiences that might be relevant to a thread sometimes? I work in law myself which is why I opened this shit show thread but my husband is in medicine and sometimes I'll chime in about his hours or pay. Or how his residency worked, Match day, stuff like that. Should I stop doing that? |
good point |
Lol 180 |
Uh huh.... enjoy your fantasy. I suspect you are binging on Netflix, doing laundry, cleaning your trailer, and trying to figure out how to make hamburger helper tasty for the third meal this week. |
Knowledge of your husband's work and actually doing the work are two vastly different things. No matter what or how much he tells you, it's not a substitution for being the party doing the work. Based on what you cite, his hours, pay, how residency worked are pretty benign. Saying your husband made 500k last year would be a fine fact since you sign your tax forms every year. But the PP in this thread is trying to claim knowledge of how law firms work because her husband is a lawyer. Her comments are not relevant as she has no idea to their inner workings. |
Finance pp, where the heck are you working in finance and pulling down bonuses like that in the DC area? Please elaborate. Unless you're from NYC/CT (would make your story a modicum more believable) which is just sad that you're wasting everyone's time posting to a DC message board. |
Free GTO |
Big Law partner here: also, today's de-equitized partner may well become tomorrow's assistant general counsel at a client you have or want to have. Or your regulator, in some practice areas. Or turn up at DOJ. You don't want them holding a grudge, if possible. Firms are pretty careful not to burn bridges unnecessarily, in most cases, because you just never know where someone is going to show up next. A good citizen who is being de-equitized for performance reasons is typically treated as well as possible until they find somewhere to land, just in case. (Although at my firm no one is asked to stay around in a non-equity role, they are moved out.) |
Exactly! I'm reading these lofty comments and I'm like cool story bro, cool story |
Biglaw partner here: de-equitization isn't a "real problem." What has happened is that the market is fragmenting, with certain practices becoming incredibly lucrative due to relatively high margins and amenability to leverage, while other practices are subject to intense rate pressure or aren't as suitable to leverage. Some less fortunate practice groups have become essentially commodities and those groups either have been or will be dropped from Big Law entirely. And demand is flat-to-down mostly, with an increasing number of companies taking chances with cheaper firms because of sticker shock. You can tinker around the margins for a while with ratio adjustments and bonus pools and such, but it is now clear that the market is fundamentally changing and the organizations need to restructure, not just tinker, in order to survive. And everyone is going to have to do it. Firms that don't will not survive because their best people will be poached by other firms willing to be more aggressive. |
NP. There are money managers paying bonuses like that all over the place. My H works for one in St. Pete Beach. Not everyone who posts on here lives in DC. |
Save your rambling for associates who have to tolerate you. You have not added anything to this thread beyond a verbose summation of what the article and other posts already cover. Duh, practice areas are suffering, profits are down, and deequitization is one way to address this. |
My neighbor works a 9-5 at the local Edward Jones and took home an 8,000,000 bonus last December. Bought his DD a G-wagon for Christmas. |
The same can be said of associates who are lied on and fired virtually at will at law firms. You write as if law firms are perfectly rational places where the only actions taken are those that demonstrate long range, strategic thinking. This is not the case. Law firms are populated by all sorts of people with personality disorders, neuroses, temper problems, or who just plain old make mistakes in people management. People leave feeling disgruntled and abused when a little care would avoid making enemies. |
No, I write as if my audience is made up of adults who know all those things about the world without requiring explicit caveats. You know, like sensible people do. All those things can, and do, happen, of course. There are many dysfunctional people in Big Law, and there are good people who sometimes make bad decisions for a variety of reasons. My experience, however, has been that big law firms are relatively slow to act when people need to go, rather than too quick on the trigger, due to the considerations I outlined above. It was one of those things I found very surprising. Your mileage may vary, of course. |