This! Have a super low maintenance look for when you cant do you hair. Wear a baseball hat and sparkly earrings in between when your roots are done. |
NP. I agree with doing hair at night. For me, it looks better after I’ve blown it out and slept on it - less frizzy and poofy. I also only wash it every 3-4 days as it’s dry and frizzy/curly. With showering done at night, I not only sleep better, but there’s more time in the morning to put on some makeup. |
Motherhood is terrible. Ruins so many great lives. |
+1 it is really time consuming at the salon even though it's a much nicer experience. I've gotten into a good routine where I can do it on a WFH day that's not too busy or after kids go to bed. |
OP can also try applying mousse or antifrizz cream after rinsing out conditioner at night and either braiding it and 4-8 large braids or twirling it into 3-8 mini buns and letting it dry overnight. Tie it up with a satin/silk scarf or get one of those sleep bonnets. When she takes it out in the morning, defined waves/curls that can be separated quickly with fingers as desired, or a cute wavy/curly pony tail. |
You're not wrong. |
OP's oldest is in 5th grade now. I wonder if she's figured out how to carve out some time to put on mascara yet. |
Yeah well OP posted 9 years ago! lol, she may well have a weight problem by now. Or not! I was responding to the PP who wanted zero time defrumping tips. |
Get a sheer red lippy.
Play w eyeliner or a hint of glitter shadow This comes from an older Japanese lady I know She always has the best earriings. Get basics that fit Jeans & T Suerte |
You're a loser. Ever heard of birth control? |
+1 |
I remember my sister blaming pregnancy for her gum disease. She actually told me that pregancy and childbirth cause gum disease. So when I got pregnant, I asked my dentist if it's true. He said truth is women tend to neglect a lot of self care when the have children, especially flossing. |
Start with hair. Get balayage highlights a few times a year. You need to break up your color so the gray doesn’t show so much.
Learn to use the right product and set waves properly. You can still air dry. Try Oribe Matte Waves or a little argan oil on combed out damp hair and then twist or braid it while it dries. I twist sections into a bun and put a big clip or scrunchie on it. At night I usually braid it. When I take it out I have nice waves with very little effort. |
Yes but as we all KNOW, Japanese (and all other Asians in general!) just do. not. age. And if they do, it is on an entirely different timeline than their white peers. |
I’m Asian, 45, and I am aging. I saw a picture of myself today ![]() My Asian peers are all aging too. |