Are some men incapable of being faithful?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

2. Many men who cheat are nonetheless good fathers, brothers, sons, friends, employees, even good husbands in every other way. If male infidelity were driven by some kind of underlying personality disorder, that wouldn't be the case.

I don't think "cheating" can be reconciled with being a good husband. If you want/need variety, bring it up with the person you are going to marry/are married to and see if they are amenable to it. If not, decide whether you want to be in the relationship in light of the fact that they won't agree to it. Sneaking around and lying to your spouse is horrible.

Those are deal breakers. So Bill Clinton is a good husband??? lol

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not sure. I'm 44, attractive and have never even cheated on a girlfriend, much less my wife. I know people, male and female (including my first wife) who have cheated. Its just not for me. I don't want to view myself as a bad person and would never hurt my best friend (my wife).

God bless you.

I never cheated on both of my husbands, but I left them when I realized that I was unhappy. Finally met mr. right.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't know many men who have been faithful, at least the handsome charming men all seem to cheat at some point. I think it would shock women if they knew how often infidelity happens.

I am not sure if I am capable of being faithful. I have never been faithful, not completely. When my wife and I are having a lot of sex, I really don't think of other women that much. The sex dries up, like it always does, and other women become near obsession for me.

Maybe if I married a woman with a high sex drive. No idea where to find those. Every woman has a high drive in the beginning. Wait 3 years.

The above experience mirrors mine. I love my wife, but if the sex slows, I go elsewhere, temporarily.

You're lucky all you need is frequency. My husband won't give me oral and I don't O with him. Harder to remain faithful.