Are some men incapable of being faithful?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My wife refused to have sex with me for three years. She once told me that it must be hard not to have sex. Previously she had an text/online affair with a co worker with whom she exchanged very explicit emails. She never talks dirty to me. kids are 5 and 3. Now we have sex once in two months. Before I got married I had many sex partners, my libido is high. I help around the house, give her emotional support, etc. I talked to her about sex but she threatened to take the kids from me if I cheat. I won't be able to be faithful to her for too long if our situation does not change. She thinks it's my fault that I want to have sex.

That's not really what this thread is about.

[Anonymous]

No. Thinking that some men are INCAPABLE of fidelity, is completely infantalizing grown men.

Maybe fidelity isn't a personal value for them. Maybe they don't want or believe in it. And that's fine.

But all men (and all people) are capable of making choices. Being unfaithful is not some kind of involuntary thing some men do.

[Anonymous]

All men are capable of being faithful for a good woman.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:All men are capable of being faithful for a good woman.

I agree. Most men and women if they are happy in a relationship will be faithful. Why search for something else if you are happy with what you've got?

[Anonymous]

Both men and women cheat - BUT women get emotionally involved. Therefore if a woman cheats the Marriage is kaput!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:All men are capable of being faithful for a good woman.

Ha! Maybe this is the ghost of Johnny Cash.

[Anonymous]

I do think there are people who cheat even though they're happy. I'm a single woman and lots of married men hit on me because they just want a fling.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I do think there are people who cheat even though they're happy. I'm a single woman and lots of married men hit on me because they just want a fling.

Those are the thrill chasers.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I do think there are people who cheat even though they're happy. I'm a single woman and lots of married men hit on me because they just want a fling.

Exactly. They don't want you because if you they want you because that is what they do.

[Anonymous]

It seems most of the cheaters had a father who cheated.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It seems most of the cheaters had a father who cheated.

I've been cheated on twice and both had had who had cheated (better file that one away for next time).

[Anonymous]

Men are wired much differently than their Female counterparts. They possess testosterone which makes them think + act much differently.

For instance, have you noticed that ALL men have to turn their heads and look at a pretty/sexy woman who walks by?? Women, on the other hand do not do this as often as men.

I just think being monogamous is not in a man's psyche. His constitution is not able to offer him the willpower needed to say "NO!!" if propositioned by another woman.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men are wired much differently than their Female counterparts. They possess testosterone which makes them think + act much differently.

For instance, have you noticed that ALL men have to turn their heads and look at a pretty/sexy woman who walks by?? Women, on the other hand do not do this as often as men.

I just think being monogamous is not in a man's psyche. His constitution is not able to offer him the willpower needed to say "NO!!" if propositioned by another woman.

And women know it and use it to their advantage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men are wired much differently than their Female counterparts. They possess testosterone which makes them think + act much differently.

For instance, have you noticed that ALL men have to turn their heads and look at a pretty/sexy woman who walks by?? Women, on the other hand do not do this as often as men.

I just think being monogamous is not in a man's psyche. His constitution is not able to offer him the willpower needed to say "NO!!" if propositioned by another woman.

And women know it and use it to their advantage.

Oh Snap!!

[Anonymous]

The fact is men's sex drive is far more powerful than a woman's.
Yes, women use this to their advantage in starting relationships, or controlling the sex within a relationship.
So don't go complaining about men who can't be faithful because if we didn't have such a high sex drive, your power would be non existent. It's 2 sides of the same coin, one that you benefit from, one that you don't.