I used to make beds like that but realized that most people weren’t raised with things like that when I found a houseguest wrapped up in a 120 year old quilt in front of the tv like it was a fleece blanket. I adjust my bedding based on who’s staying over. For my mother, for example, who insists that face cleaner and water is too harsh on her skin, I use bedding that I’m about to donate, because she smears my sheets, pillowcases and blankets with makeup and mascara. |
Yes, I do remove them now, after realizing that no one under 40 years old and no males seem to understand the difference between a bed pillow in a pillowcase, a sham, and a throw pillow. My guests seem to choose their sleeping arrangements by sorting through to find the least washable and most fragile item and wadding it up under their face all night. Lesson learned! |
Quilts on beds are for using as blankets. If you don't want them used, hang them on the wall. - from a family of quilters |
You know the throw pillows end up on the floor, right? Wash your linens. |
You don't have to be nude to have your skin directly touching the blanket while you sleep. Plus people put their luggage, outdoor clothes, etc on the top cover of the bed. It needs to be washed. There is no excuse for not washing it. |
+1. |
My throw pillows aren’t antiques. Covering beds with quilts that are too precious to serve their actual function makes zero sense. |
Isn’t that what the quilt is for?? Like I can see being mad if she put her shoes on it or something but it sounds like she was using it like a blanket because it’s a blanket? |
| Nope. I don’t wash anything except the sheets and pillow cases. |
| My friend cleans everything and then puts a sheet over the whole bed until the next guest visits. I clean sheets and duvet cover. |
What kind of monster puts their luggage and outdoor clothes on the comforter?! I host clean people with common sense and manners who won’t taint my exterior bedding with such filth, therefore, no need to launder top covers btwn guests. |
I do that because otherwise items guaranteed that my dog will burst into the room and leap onto a freshly made bed. If there’s a sheet on top of it, he’ll consider it but walk away in disgust. |
I’ve hosted that sort of monster. It’s always the people you’d least expect and/or who are the most fastidious or controlling in their own home. My mother won’t bring a suitcase past her garage after a trip. And yet I could line the guest room with luggage racks and she will still go to the effort of lifting a suitcase with filthy wheels up onto my clean duvet cover. |
PP here…I have been hosting regularly for 20 years with the same quilts and it’s not an issue for me. Where do you all come up with these people? And why do you invite them in? lol. Condolences if you are related to them and have to. |
Same, or in dryer with wet clothes to sanitize duvet & blanket for short visits |