All true, except there’s no merit aid at the Ivies. At Stanford, it’s negotiable. |
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Don’t use credit, except for mortgage.
I hate to shop and don’t do any impulse buys. It’s a conscious decision to splurge. And I don’t feel the need to impress others with flaunting my “wealth”. |
I could have "fixed" the above car at 12 yo. However, the issues were all electrical. Fixed one electrical that I had to to keep car running. The others were handfree was no longer working and my alarm system was not working (car just locked and made the sounds, but without fixing it, there was no real alarm system). So for safety, I refuse to drive around in a car without handsfree options or an alarm system. Yet I was not willing to pay the fees to fix it on an older car. It also had some bodywork needed. So all the repairs would have been over $5K. Now, from experience, I know that once a vehicle starts needing electrical work, a lot tends to go wrong. Electrical work is very labor intensive and sometimes can take them forever to find what is actually wrong. So sure, if I didn't have the money saved for a new vehicle, I might not get one. But at 12+ years old, I define those as items that need to be repaired, and lets just get rid of the car while I can and get a good amount for it. Because it could become a money pit soon. |
Leftovers are awesome! Now that we are empty nesters, we often cook and then freeze the rest in individual servings for lunches. Then you always have lunch easily available. I won't eat something more than 4 days after it was cooked/brought home from a restaurant. Unless I've frozen it before day 4. |
Lunch and one trip to Starbucks daily can add up to $25/day. Multiply by 20 workdays and that's $400/month. Not even accounting for weekends and dinners out and hitting the bars/partying. Many waste $600-800+/month Great if you have the money, but most are not saving sufficiently |
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Most of my frugality is a happy byproduct of decisions I make for other reasons.
Take lunch and rarely eat out: my motivation is health, but a side benefit is that it's a lot cheaper. Basic haircut that I can get trimmed 1-2 times a year vs 6-8 week cut/color: I'm lazy and hate scheduling haircuts. Eating leftovers: they're yummy! I put a lot of effort into that dish, why wouldn't I want to eat the rest of it? Don't buy a lot of new clothes: I like what I have, no motivation to go shopping unless something wears out to the point that I really can't be seen in public in it anymore. |
I thought this was standard -- not throwing away food and eating leftovers. There are massive amts of food waste otherwise. |
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I pay my kids for mowing, weeding, laying mulch. What my landscaper used to charge me $1000 for, I pay my kids $50 each.
I buy used luxury handbags on ebay. I grow my garden plants from seeds. One pack last years. |
Alarm system? WTF, that isn’t a safety issue because it’s used when you aren’t in the car. And you can just put your phone on speaker. I would never replace a car for those reasons. I replace vehicles when they won’t drive, not before. Anything less is wasteful/bad for the environment. I also seek out vehicles with few electrical systems. They make so much more sense. I can roll down my own window perfectly well. |
DP. Agreed. I also save all food waste for my chickens. They are “recycled” into eggs. But we eat them until they are too old, so mostly the chickens get peels/ends/trimmed fat/etc. |
| Using a single square of toilet paper per wipe. Also, folding the square after one wipe so you can use it again. |
| We do our own most things: lawn, gardening, simple plumbing and electrical, cooking, cleaning, coffee making...That being said I see some HHIs here and truly these people would be 100% fine spending on everything all the time. Our own income went up a lot last year and saving requires NO effort when you make more money. |
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Our big savings: we live in a small apartment that we can afford, in a big city. We don't own a car, we don't have much to maintain or upkeep (small apartment, no lawn). We pick up free things from around the neighborhood all the time. Use public parks like our backyard. Ride bikes and walk a lot, no gym membership. Kids in public school. These are the things that save us many thousands of dollars per year. I also try to save on the smaller items (make coffee at work, do more pedicures at home than out, etc) but I don't count pennies on those things.
HHI $350, NW ~$3M |
I love you. You are awesome. |