How's this possible? What's your take home pay? |
Their numbers are not believable. |
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38 and 39 yo, 2 kids in elementary. Last year we made $700k and we saved $230k. I feel pretty good about the split, it's almost exactly 33/33/33 taxes/spending/saving.
Lord knows we could save more if we tried but we have a lot of fun with our money. We travel a lot, go to a lot of concerts, send the kids to fun camps, etc. And my H and I don't mind our jobs so it's not like we're racing toward retirement. I feel pretty good about our balance. |
700k of that income is from DH’s consulting company, he can contribute 200k to a defined benefit plan from gross income to save taxes and we save 150k on top of those savings. Also, I save 85k in my 150k job, 60k in 403b and 457( we have two plans available) and a 25k retirement contribution from my employer to my state pension. We live as if we are making 300k, which is plenty for us as our housing expenses are relatively modest as we bought in 2018. |
These numbers don't seem legal to me. What is the code for the 200k in savings from your husband's consulting company? How can you participate in multiple retirement plans at the same time? |
School districts offer multiple retirement plans, 403b as well as 457, their employees can contribute 60k if they are above 50. As for defined benefits plan for DH, that is all managed by his CPA, it is of course legal because we don’t want to save at the expense of getting into trouble with the IRS. You can choose to believe or not. |
This thread is comical at best! Folks BS'ing left and right!
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go get a girlfriend dude - very sad. |
Your parents are taking care of you - that's why you can save all of your income. The posters you're replying are taking care of their kids - that's why they spend their income. Is your next post going to be how you're better than your parents because they're not mooching off of your grandparents? |
What is BS about this ? |
Unlike you, we budget meticulously, similar HHI, similar savings. Annual savings 250k (some pretax, some post). Essentials, including private school ~320k. Lifestyle, including travel $100. The rest is tax. |
There is this thing called life. It's fun to live. When you live it to the fullest it includes things like a family of your own, freedom, your own home, vacations with people you love. I highly recommend it. I highly doubt you can get this living with your parents. It's a serious red flag for most people to be in their parents home beyond 25. Well, I wouldn't have dated anyone living with their parents beyond college/grad school. It literally means they haven't launched. |
+1 Now late 40s and I wouldn't do anything differently. Had first kid when I was 31. Before that I traveled a lot! I had so many adventures and was very ready to "settle down". My life and been so rich and full. No one wants to be the parent that looks like a grandparent. Or on the flip side the rich parent who longs to have the stories and photos of the most exotic things, basically just an exciting life experience. |
DP Believable if not all their income is W2. The better question is what is their effective tax rate? |
+1. It sounds like they are taxed on $590K less health insurance costs, mortgage, child tax credit, etc. As opposed to that amount being $804K. I’m not sure how the catch up contributions work in OP’s case. I’m in my 30s, so I don’t pay much attention, but I thought that if you were over a certain income you couldn’t take advantage of catch up contributions. It would seem that $850K would be over any sort of reasonable catch up contribution limit, but maybe it is different for state savings plans. |