| When you give birth at a hospital you have a midwife/OB for you and pediatrician for the baby. They are both there when the baby is born. A midwife for mom and a doc for baby. You then have pediatrician appointments weekly. I recommend bringing your baby in right away for a checkup. |
| This seems off. I also had a midwife and had to get my newborn to a pediatrician within a week of her birth. |
| I'm so glad to hear that you saw the pediatrician and everything is normal. |
Technically the first 28 days are within the scope of practice for a CNM, and only to the extent things progress normally. |
| Glad to see the update, OP! |
| My baby really looked like she had FAS at birth. It was so strange. She looks completely normal now, but I freaked out for a long time. (I'd drank about 2 glasses of wine 2 weeks after conception at Thanksgiving and DCUM had all these stories of babies who got FAS from small amounts of alcohol). Her nose had this crease under it that looked like a koala and I pointed it out to the ped. I'm sure she thought I was crazy, but she looked into it and answered nicely. She knew I had 2 older children and never ever took them to the ped for minor issues (or ever really). |
Things weren't progressing normally. OP did the right thing because her PPA wasn't being addressed. This is what gives CNM a bad name. |
Oh my god, you sound nuts. Are you also anti-vax? Get your child to a REAL doctor ASAP. |
I had a baby with a midwife, and the attending pediatrician saw my baby in the hospital and scheduled a visit for us the next day. What OP is talking about is not normal. |
Glad you're getting help. |
| You need to take your baby to the pediatrician! Normally well checks occur right after birth, 2 weeks and 2 months, 4 months etc. I hope you are at least doing weight checks with the midwife. |
Nope. All three kids got vitamin k shot at birth and my two oldest are up to date on vaccines. Having midwife care postpartum is normal in my state. I went to the Peditrician once I had a concern. |
NP here. OP for future reference, midwife care for baby is not normal or typical. In any US state. I delivered with CNMs and having a pediatrician to follow up with immediately was required. |
+1000 I've had 2 deliveries with CNMs in a hospital setting. Midwives cared for me, pediatrician cared for my DDs. With both deliveries, our first appointment with the pediatrician was withing 5 days of birth. What OP described is not the norm for CNMs. Not even close. |
| OP, so glad your baby is healthy and your needs are being tended to as well. Be kind to yourself; a newborn + older kids is hard. We mothers always find something to worry about. You’re a good mama and I hope you have some help so you can spend a little time just enjoying your new little one. |