| This is a question for the pediatrician you haven’t bothered to see yet. |
You can have a home birth without forgoing prenatal care. And the post birth exam the midwife did for my second kid was identical to the post birth exam my first kid got in the hospital. Whatever happened with your friend's child, it wasn't because of a home birth. |
That blood test/here prick test should have been done w/n 24 hrs Op!! I CAnt believe your midwife didn't tell you to do that sooner (or at least get your baby to an actual pediatrician). You can't wait on that. I'm betting there might be something on that blood panel your baby is positive for (metabolism deficiency is my guess). - Signed Mom whose newborn came back positive for one of the metabolic tests/heel prick and so grateful it was discovered right away. |
She had the heel prick. I think you misread the post. |
| I think DS babies are born really small. |
| OP, newborns look really weird. Your baby is probably completely fine. |
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Op you should absolutely, unequivocally go to the pediatrician right away. Your midwife is NOT trained in pediatric care. While I think there are many midwife’s wonderful at supporting the birthing process, I seriously question any that made you think she is an appropriate replacement for a pediatrician in early days. In fact, I would report someone that encouraged me to skip my pediatrician and instead see them. There is no pediatric training in midwifery training (which already varies in how good it is).
Go to your pediatrician!!! |
My kid has Phelan McDermid!! You don’t hear about it much. But I will say, if this is not a troll. You need to go see a doctor. The reality is that there are “syndromic” features that can signal that testing for a genetic syndrome is in order. And there are many syndromes that end up with a child with syndromic features — not just Down syndrome. Odds are your child is FINE. But you should point out your concerns. And getting tested for PPD/PPA may also be a good idea. |
I wouldn’t call her a friend and while of course her choices to forego normal medical care didn’t cause the problems, they would have been diagnosed and addressed sooner with a better outcome. That baby absolutely should have been born in a hospital and they’re lucky she didn’t die in her first couple of days at home. |
I have a child with hypotonia. You can tell. |
Maybe go to an actual medical doctor???? What the hell man |
| Baby needs to be seen, but postpartum OCD is a possibility here. Just a heads up. |
Exactly. Lots of genetic abnormalities with characteristic facial changes. Important to get diagnosed in case there are other health issues to watch out for, which could be anything from metabolic to cardiac, etc. Just see a doctor. |
What the hell? I delivered in a birth center with a CNM, and I had prenatal care, ultrasounds, bloodwork, the whole bit (minus genetic testing, which we declined because it wouldn't have changed our decision to continue the pregnancy). You sound ignorant. |
What?! Your baby is 4 weeks and hasn't seen the ped? |