Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Look. I'm sympathetic to ALL of the things that you say. To a point. And I know you're running a business.
But. Like with medical care, you are in the business of dealing with the health of our family members. We love them. Are nervous when they are ill. And we have stress when they are sick, are dealing with VERY HIGH vet bills, as well as the "new normal" of waiting to get in and be seen. I, for one, try to be patient and reasonable but you all have to understand the emotion in this. Watching your pet be sick, suffer, etc. and having to choose between the sonogram, the biopsy, the expensive prescriptions, or doing nothing at the pet's expense. . . . It can be traumatic if you cannot afford it. If you cannot get them in to be seen. While people should not be rude to you, and show a bit more understanding, part of YOUR job is understanding this dynamic. And showing a little grace yourself.
Additionally, while I understand that you as an individual do not control the number of vet schools and all of the factors that have led to this situation, you have more influence/power than your clients do. It's past time that the vets and industry start making the appropriate adjustments to change what is happening. You do continuing education. Go to conferences. Network. Etc. (I know this as my own wonderful vet and I have talked about this). That is where those changes are going to be discussed and initiated.
So, please. I get that there is some element of truth in your rant (and that's what it was, it wasn't a gentle PSA) your story is not the whole story. And your "throwing my hands up in resignation" excuses is not reasonable.
Beyond obnoxious and nasty.
My vet is on the verge of retiring and he's not raking in the money, despite being entirely inundated with calls. He's extremely stressed out, and a bit depressed over the way vets are both squeezed by management and squeezed by rude clients who understand nothing, like you. He never pushes any expensive procedures, and takes a rational approach to care, which is why I love him.
Just crawl back into your hole. When someone tells you they are stressed, believe them. That might reduce the number of suicides.