Why do people still expect you to dress nicely while flying?

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Anonymous wrote:I fly to Asia and Europe a lot for work. I bring pajamas in my carry-on, and change after we're airborne, then change back before landing. I look presentable in the airport, but am comfy in the seat.

You change in the plane bathroom? That’s so so gross. I try to touch as little as possible.

I read all five pages of this thread and am still stuck on PP willingly changing clothes in an airplane bathroom so they can “look presentable in the airport.”

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Anonymous wrote:I believe my 86 year old mother is OP. Somehow, she logged into dcum.

Sorry, everyone.

And for the record, I’ll add that comfortable clothing doesn’t mean pajama pants and or sweat pants. I hate to fly, do so infrequently but I will make a point to look as polished as possible in comfortable pieces.

Well-dressed, polite passengers receive better treatment. Tell me I’m wrong.

I don’t care what OP wears, but you do get better treatment if you’re well-dressed. It’s definitely a criteria when economy is overbooked & they need to move someone to first class.

I also agree that there are lots of comfortable clothes that look more polished. Ponte is a miracle fabric for travel — stretchy, warm, doesn’t wrinkle & can look dressy. Nothing’s comfier than ponte pants and a soft sweater.

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I fly to Asia and Europe a lot for work. I bring pajamas in my carry-on, and change after we're airborne, then change back before landing. I look presentable in the airport, but am comfy in the seat.


You change in the plane bathroom? That’s so so gross. I try to touch as little as possible.


I read all five pages of this thread and am still stuck on PP willingly changing clothes in an airplane bathroom so they can “look presentable in the airport.”

I'm stuck on this post as well. I don't even know what gymnastics you would have to do to change in such a small space. Where do you put the clothes you take off while you put on the other clothes (in the sink?). I agree that it's a gross idea. Plus how long is the PP clogging up the restroom while other people are waiting??

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I only question flip flops.

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Anonymous wrote:I don't judge others cause what they wear is none of my business, but the last time I flew I stepped it up and realized I felt better because I was presenting a better more pulled together me to the world, so I will probably continue doing that moving forward.

Even on a 15 hour flight to Asia?

NP. I don’t think you get that there is clothing that isn’t sweatpants and a hoodie that is still comfortable. I have stretchy trouser pants that are honestly as soft, stretchy and comfortable as yoga pants. And I have soft sweaters, long-sleeved shirts and jackets that are as comfortable as a hoodie. Why are you and OP acting like one must choose between sweatpants and a hoodie or a full-glam restricting outfit?

But what is really the point? You are packed in like sardines, it's mostly dark because the flight attendants are militant about putting down shades so people can watch movies or sleep, and no one is like "oh my, stretchy trouser pants and soft sweaters, an upgrade for YOU, my dear!" So why do you feel superior to someone wearing a tracksuit?

Can you please point to the part where I said I felt superior? I was making the point (that apparently you can’t argue against) that there are numerous items of clothing that are neither sweatpants or hoodies but are still just as comfortable. You’re acting like people either wear what you wear, or they won’t be comfortable. That’s just…not true.

I choose to wear soft trousers and a soft sweater or long-sleeved shirt and a pashmina, because that makes *me* feel ready for anything—if there’s a delay, I’ll be comfortable; if I run into an important colleague, a friend, or an ex (all scenarios have happened to me in the airport), I’ll be presentable; and to be honest, maybe it’s one of the reasons I’ve occasionally gotten an upgrade (which I’ve never asked for but would certainly never turn down). You do you, you wear what you want, but you don’t get to say I’m not comfortable or are somehow ridiculous for simply…making a choice that is different from yours.

Tell me you haven't flown in the last 15 years without telling me you haven't flown in the last 15 years.

Sorry! This happened to me en route to Vegas from DCA in 2019.

If so, your classy attire had nothing to do with it.

I didn’t see any schlubs in first class, so there’s that.

You haven’t flown often in first class, then. The idea that it’s full of twin sets and pearls, or driving mocs and wide-waled corduroys, is…inaccurate.

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Anonymous wrote:I believe my 86 year old mother is OP. Somehow, she logged into dcum.

Sorry, everyone.

And for the record, I’ll add that comfortable clothing doesn’t mean pajama pants and or sweat pants. I hate to fly, do so infrequently but I will make a point to look as polished as possible in comfortable pieces.

Well-dressed, polite passengers receive better treatment. Tell me I’m wrong.

I don’t care what OP wears, but you do get better treatment if you’re well-dressed. It’s definitely a criteria when economy is overbooked & they need to move someone to first class.
I also agree that there are lots of comfortable clothes that look more polished. Ponte is a miracle fabric for travel — stretchy, warm, doesn’t wrinkle & can look dressy. Nothing’s comfier than ponte pants and a soft sweater.

No. Frequent flyer status is what gets people upgraded, not a monocle, top hat, and jar of Grey Poupon. These ideas are so outdated.

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Anonymous wrote:I usually wear travel pants - soft and breathable fabric, wrinkle-proof, waterproof and stainproof, lots of zippered pockets, in a neurtal color. I top it with a bright full sleeve loose, soft material top, and a fleece fitted zippered sweatshirt with pockets. I also will have a super soft and pretty pashmina scarf that is very soft and can double up as a head-cover, a shawl or a blanket. I do not like to wear PJs while travelling but I like to be dressed in loose clothes and in layers.

If I have access to luxury business lounge during layovers, I usually also carry a change of underwear and take a hot shower. I also carry fuzzy socks with me. I never carry a conventional purse. It is always a super sturdy backpack purse. And super comfortable sneakers.

Frankly I think this outfit sounds like the purview of 70 year old Florida retirees. I know some of you don't want to hear this, but matching sweatsuits are much more stylish right now than "travel pants and a bright top."

I know you don’t want to hear this, but matching sweatsuits give 90s MC Hammer crew and and early 2000s JLo/Paris Hilton velour with chihuahua-as-accessory vibes.

Everything old is new again. But matching your bright top to the lipstick that is bleeding into the lines around your mouth is never a good look.

I’m not even the bright top poster, but you tried it, Lindsay Lohan circa 2003.

Try Hailey Bieber and Kendall Jenner circa 2022, oldster.

Hahahaha, and you are how old? And these are your style inspiration? You’re the desperate “Cool Mom” played by Amy Poehler in “Mean Girls,” complete with your trying-to-be-relevant velour tracksuit! I am laughing so hard!

Sorry, I haven’t seen that movie. Is it in black and white?

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Anonymous wrote:I believe my 86 year old mother is OP. Somehow, she logged into dcum.

Sorry, everyone.

And for the record, I’ll add that comfortable clothing doesn’t mean pajama pants and or sweat pants. I hate to fly, do so infrequently but I will make a point to look as polished as possible in comfortable pieces.

Well-dressed, polite passengers receive better treatment. Tell me I’m wrong.

I don’t care what OP wears, but you do get better treatment if you’re well-dressed. It’s definitely a criteria when economy is overbooked & they need to move someone to first class.
I also agree that there are lots of comfortable clothes that look more polished. Ponte is a miracle fabric for travel — stretchy, warm, doesn’t wrinkle & can look dressy. Nothing’s comfier than ponte pants and a soft sweater.

No. Frequent flyer status is what gets people upgraded, not a monocle, top hat, and jar of Grey Poupon. These ideas are so outdated.

LOL!!!

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Anonymous wrote:Personally think there’s a good amount of in-between between baggy sweatpants/hoody and restrictive clothing. You do you but yeah I’m judging the heck out of ya.

This is how I feel also.

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Anonymous wrote:I don't judge others cause what they wear is none of my business, but the last time I flew I stepped it up and realized I felt better because I was presenting a better more pulled together me to the world, so I will probably continue doing that moving forward.

Even on a 15 hour flight to Asia?

NP. I don’t think you get that there is clothing that isn’t sweatpants and a hoodie that is still comfortable. I have stretchy trouser pants that are honestly as soft, stretchy and comfortable as yoga pants. And I have soft sweaters, long-sleeved shirts and jackets that are as comfortable as a hoodie. Why are you and OP acting like one must choose between sweatpants and a hoodie or a full-glam restricting outfit?

But what is really the point? You are packed in like sardines, it's mostly dark because the flight attendants are militant about putting down shades so people can watch movies or sleep, and no one is like "oh my, stretchy trouser pants and soft sweaters, an upgrade for YOU, my dear!" So why do you feel superior to someone wearing a tracksuit?

Can you please point to the part where I said I felt superior? I was making the point (that apparently you can’t argue against) that there are numerous items of clothing that are neither sweatpants or hoodies but are still just as comfortable. You’re acting like people either wear what you wear, or they won’t be comfortable. That’s just…not true.

I choose to wear soft trousers and a soft sweater or long-sleeved shirt and a pashmina, because that makes *me* feel ready for anything—if there’s a delay, I’ll be comfortable; if I run into an important colleague, a friend, or an ex (all scenarios have happened to me in the airport), I’ll be presentable; and to be honest, maybe it’s one of the reasons I’ve occasionally gotten an upgrade (which I’ve never asked for but would certainly never turn down). You do you, you wear what you want, but you don’t get to say I’m not comfortable or are somehow ridiculous for simply…making a choice that is different from yours.

Tell me you haven't flown in the last 15 years without telling me you haven't flown in the last 15 years.

Sorry! This happened to me en route to Vegas from DCA in 2019.

If so, your classy attire had nothing to do with it.

I didn’t see any schlubs in first class, so there’s that.

You haven’t flown often in first class, then. The idea that it’s full of twin sets and pearls, or driving mocs and wide-waled corduroys, is…inaccurate.

You know what else is inaccurate? Acting like one person on this thread has mentioned wearing or seeing twin sets, pearls, driving moccasins, and corduroys. We’ve made the unarguable point that you don’t have to wear pajamas or athleisurewear to be comfortably dressed. You can wear real clothes and still be comfortable.

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Anonymous wrote:Who the hell are you talking to? Have people assaulted you about your outfit or are you projecting?

NP. Probably my MIL. "Oh! Have you seen what people wear on an airplane these days! It use to be you wore a tie, wore a skirt. Dressed up like you were going out. Now it's all pajama bottoms and t-shirts. Everyone! Literally everyone! Even First Class!""

People who dress up for flights even in bus or first have no money and are MC. Everyone else dresses comfortably.

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Anonymous wrote:I don't judge others cause what they wear is none of my business, but the last time I flew I stepped it up and realized I felt better because I was presenting a better more pulled together me to the world, so I will probably continue doing that moving forward.

Even on a 15 hour flight to Asia?

NP. I don’t think you get that there is clothing that isn’t sweatpants and a hoodie that is still comfortable. I have stretchy trouser pants that are honestly as soft, stretchy and comfortable as yoga pants. And I have soft sweaters, long-sleeved shirts and jackets that are as comfortable as a hoodie. Why are you and OP acting like one must choose between sweatpants and a hoodie or a full-glam restricting outfit?

But what is really the point? You are packed in like sardines, it's mostly dark because the flight attendants are militant about putting down shades so people can watch movies or sleep, and no one is like "oh my, stretchy trouser pants and soft sweaters, an upgrade for YOU, my dear!" So why do you feel superior to someone wearing a tracksuit?

Can you please point to the part where I said I felt superior? I was making the point (that apparently you can’t argue against) that there are numerous items of clothing that are neither sweatpants or hoodies but are still just as comfortable. You’re acting like people either wear what you wear, or they won’t be comfortable. That’s just…not true.

I choose to wear soft trousers and a soft sweater or long-sleeved shirt and a pashmina, because that makes *me* feel ready for anything—if there’s a delay, I’ll be comfortable; if I run into an important colleague, a friend, or an ex (all scenarios have happened to me in the airport), I’ll be presentable; and to be honest, maybe it’s one of the reasons I’ve occasionally gotten an upgrade (which I’ve never asked for but would certainly never turn down). You do you, you wear what you want, but you don’t get to say I’m not comfortable or are somehow ridiculous for simply…making a choice that is different from yours.

Tell me you haven't flown in the last 15 years without telling me you haven't flown in the last 15 years.

Sorry! This happened to me en route to Vegas from DCA in 2019.

If so, your classy attire had nothing to do with it.

I didn’t see any schlubs in first class, so there’s that.

You haven’t flown often in first class, then. The idea that it’s full of twin sets and pearls, or driving mocs and wide-waled corduroys, is…inaccurate.

First class has three groups: --- paid for by employer -- I fit in this often. I wear what I wear --- sometimes it is nice because I am going to or coming from work. Group 2 rich people. I also fall into this. I wear what I want. Group 3 frequent flyers -- also fit into that and wear what I want but I see this group as the people dressing up for no reason.

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Anonymous wrote:I don't judge others cause what they wear is none of my business, but the last time I flew I stepped it up and realized I felt better because I was presenting a better more pulled together me to the world, so I will probably continue doing that moving forward.

Even on a 15 hour flight to Asia?

NP. I don’t think you get that there is clothing that isn’t sweatpants and a hoodie that is still comfortable. I have stretchy trouser pants that are honestly as soft, stretchy and comfortable as yoga pants. And I have soft sweaters, long-sleeved shirts and jackets that are as comfortable as a hoodie. Why are you and OP acting like one must choose between sweatpants and a hoodie or a full-glam restricting outfit?

But what is really the point? You are packed in like sardines, it's mostly dark because the flight attendants are militant about putting down shades so people can watch movies or sleep, and no one is like "oh my, stretchy trouser pants and soft sweaters, an upgrade for YOU, my dear!" So why do you feel superior to someone wearing a tracksuit?

Can you please point to the part where I said I felt superior? I was making the point (that apparently you can’t argue against) that there are numerous items of clothing that are neither sweatpants or hoodies but are still just as comfortable. You’re acting like people either wear what you wear, or they won’t be comfortable. That’s just…not true.

I choose to wear soft trousers and a soft sweater or long-sleeved shirt and a pashmina, because that makes *me* feel ready for anything—if there’s a delay, I’ll be comfortable; if I run into an important colleague, a friend, or an ex (all scenarios have happened to me in the airport), I’ll be presentable; and to be honest, maybe it’s one of the reasons I’ve occasionally gotten an upgrade (which I’ve never asked for but would certainly never turn down). You do you, you wear what you want, but you don’t get to say I’m not comfortable or are somehow ridiculous for simply…making a choice that is different from yours.

Tell me you haven't flown in the last 15 years without telling me you haven't flown in the last 15 years.

Sorry! This happened to me en route to Vegas from DCA in 2019.

If so, your classy attire had nothing to do with it.

I didn’t see any schlubs in first class, so there’s that.

You haven’t flown often in first class, then. The idea that it’s full of twin sets and pearls, or driving mocs and wide-waled corduroys, is…inaccurate.

First class has three groups: --- paid for by employer -- I fit in this often. I wear what I wear --- sometimes it is nice because I am going to or coming from work. Group 2 rich people. I also fall into this. I wear what I want. Group 3 frequent flyers -- also fit into that and wear what I want but I see this group as the people dressing up for no reason.

So your definition of “dressing up” is anything beyond pajamas or a sweatpants/hoodie? Got it.

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Anonymous wrote:I believe my 86 year old mother is OP. Somehow, she logged into dcum.

Sorry, everyone.

And for the record, I’ll add that comfortable clothing doesn’t mean pajama pants and or sweat pants. I hate to fly, do so infrequently but I will make a point to look as polished as possible in comfortable pieces.

Well-dressed, polite passengers receive better treatment. Tell me I’m wrong.

I don’t care what OP wears, but you do get better treatment if you’re well-dressed. It’s definitely a criteria when economy is overbooked & they need to move someone to first class.
I also agree that there are lots of comfortable clothes that look more polished. Ponte is a miracle fabric for travel — stretchy, warm, doesn’t wrinkle & can look dressy. Nothing’s comfier than ponte pants and a soft sweater.

No. Frequent flyer status is what gets people upgraded, not a monocle, top hat, and jar of Grey Poupon. These ideas are so outdated.

It’s happened to me recently, and I promise you that when they pick someone to upgrade, it’s going to be the nicely dressed person, not the person in sweats.

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Anonymous wrote:Personally think there’s a good amount of in-between between baggy sweatpants/hoody and restrictive clothing. You do you but yeah I’m judging the heck out of ya.

DP and not me. Just as long as someone is clothed in something that isn't so dirty is smells and wears some kind of foot wear - even the cheapest flip flops or socks, that's enough as far as I am concerned.

Nope, footwear is not up for discussion. Closed toed shoes, period. Anything else is disgusting and offensive. If you wear flip flops on a plane I’m assuming you’re poor and can’t afford shoes.

Lmao. All of the Asian airlines literally give you disposable sandals to change into.

Just landed in Asia. 28+ hours of total transit time from house to hotel. Thank bloody damn hell for baggy sweatpants and hoodies.Absolutely a marathon of endurance and feeling uncomfortable.