Why do people still expect you to dress nicely while flying?

[Anonymous]

Let's be honest, noone is expecting you to dress 'nice' on a flight. They just don't agree with this very popular line of thinking among American ladies: 'If I have to wear anything other than my actual pajamas for more than 15 minutes, then it's SO UNCOMFORTABLE and such an agony, I'll need therapy to process this hardship.'

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Anonymous wrote:I usually wear travel pants - soft and breathable fabric, wrinkle-proof, waterproof and stainproof, lots of zippered pockets, in a neurtal color. I top it with a bright full sleeve loose, soft material top, and a fleece fitted zippered sweatshirt with pockets. I also will have a super soft and pretty pashmina scarf that is very soft and can double up as a head-cover, a shawl or a blanket. I do not like to wear PJs while travelling but I like to be dressed in loose clothes and in layers.

If I have access to luxury business lounge during layovers, I usually also carry a change of underwear and take a hot shower. I also carry fuzzy socks with me. I never carry a conventional purse. It is always a super sturdy backpack purse. And super comfortable sneakers.

Frankly I think this outfit sounds like the purview of 70 year old Florida retirees. I know some of you don't want to hear this, but matching sweatsuits are much more stylish right now than "travel pants and a bright top."

I know you don’t want to hear this, but matching sweatsuits give 90s MC Hammer crew and and early 2000s JLo/Paris Hilton velour with chihuahua-as-accessory vibes.

Everything old is new again. But matching your bright top to the lipstick that is bleeding into the lines around your mouth is never a good look.

I’m not even the bright top poster, but you tried it, Lindsay Lohan circa 2003.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I don't judge others cause what they wear is none of my business, but the last time I flew I stepped it up and realized I felt better because I was presenting a better more pulled together me to the world, so I will probably continue doing that moving forward.

Even on a 15 hour flight to Asia?

NP. I don’t think you get that there is clothing that isn’t sweatpants and a hoodie that is still comfortable. I have stretchy trouser pants that are honestly as soft, stretchy and comfortable as yoga pants. And I have soft sweaters, long-sleeved shirts and jackets that are as comfortable as a hoodie. Why are you and OP acting like one must choose between sweatpants and a hoodie or a full-glam restricting outfit?

But what is really the point? You are packed in like sardines, it's mostly dark because the flight attendants are militant about putting down shades so people can watch movies or sleep, and no one is like "oh my, stretchy trouser pants and soft sweaters, an upgrade for YOU, my dear!" So why do you feel superior to someone wearing a tracksuit?

Can you please point to the part where I said I felt superior? I was making the point (that apparently you can’t argue against) that there are numerous items of clothing that are neither sweatpants or hoodies but are still just as comfortable. You’re acting like people either wear what you wear, or they won’t be comfortable. That’s just…not true.

I choose to wear soft trousers and a soft sweater or long-sleeved shirt and a pashmina, because that makes *me* feel ready for anything—if there’s a delay, I’ll be comfortable; if I run into an important colleague, a friend, or an ex (all scenarios have happened to me in the airport), I’ll be presentable; and to be honest, maybe it’s one of the reasons I’ve occasionally gotten an upgrade (which I’ve never asked for but would certainly never turn down). You do you, you wear what you want, but you don’t get to say I’m not comfortable or are somehow ridiculous for simply…making a choice that is different from yours.

Tell me you haven't flown in the last 15 years without telling me you haven't flown in the last 15 years.

Sorry! This happened to me en route to Vegas from DCA in 2019.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Personally think there’s a good amount of in-between between baggy sweatpants/hoody and restrictive clothing. You do you but yeah I’m judging the heck out of ya.

DP and not me. Just as long as someone is clothed in something that isn't so dirty is smells and wears some kind of foot wear - even the cheapest flip flops or socks, that's enough as far as I am concerned.

Nope, footwear is not up for discussion. Closed toed shoes, period. Anything else is disgusting and offensive. If you wear flip flops on a plane I’m assuming you’re poor and can’t afford shoes.

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Anonymous wrote:I don't judge others cause what they wear is none of my business, but the last time I flew I stepped it up and realized I felt better because I was presenting a better more pulled together me to the world, so I will probably continue doing that moving forward.

Even on a 15 hour flight to Asia?

NP. I don’t think you get that there is clothing that isn’t sweatpants and a hoodie that is still comfortable. I have stretchy trouser pants that are honestly as soft, stretchy and comfortable as yoga pants. And I have soft sweaters, long-sleeved shirts and jackets that are as comfortable as a hoodie. Why are you and OP acting like one must choose between sweatpants and a hoodie or a full-glam restricting outfit?

But what is really the point? You are packed in like sardines, it's mostly dark because the flight attendants are militant about putting down shades so people can watch movies or sleep, and no one is like "oh my, stretchy trouser pants and soft sweaters, an upgrade for YOU, my dear!" So why do you feel superior to someone wearing a tracksuit?

Can you please point to the part where I said I felt superior? I was making the point (that apparently you can’t argue against) that there are numerous items of clothing that are neither sweatpants or hoodies but are still just as comfortable. You’re acting like people either wear what you wear, or they won’t be comfortable. That’s just…not true.

I choose to wear soft trousers and a soft sweater or long-sleeved shirt and a pashmina, because that makes *me* feel ready for anything—if there’s a delay, I’ll be comfortable; if I run into an important colleague, a friend, or an ex (all scenarios have happened to me in the airport), I’ll be presentable; and to be honest, maybe it’s one of the reasons I’ve occasionally gotten an upgrade (which I’ve never asked for but would certainly never turn down). You do you, you wear what you want, but you don’t get to say I’m not comfortable or are somehow ridiculous for simply…making a choice that is different from yours.

Tell me you haven't flown in the last 15 years without telling me you haven't flown in the last 15 years.

Sorry! This happened to me en route to Vegas from DCA in 2019.

If so, your classy attire had nothing to do with it.

[Anonymous]

I don't think this is a thing, OP. Even European women in fashionable cities wear sporty-chic stuff in airports -- puffy jackets, fashion sneakers, that sort of thing.

When I flew long-haul to Asia a lot I would wear normal (casual but not sloppy) clothes and then change into PJs or sweats on the flight.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Let's be honest, noone is expecting you to dress 'nice' on a flight. They just don't agree with this very popular line of thinking among American ladies: 'If I have to wear anything other than my actual pajamas for more than 15 minutes, then it's SO UNCOMFORTABLE and such an agony, I'll need therapy to process this hardship.'

Not just ladies.

[Anonymous]

You must fly much nicer airlines than I do OP. I tend to fly on budget airlines and the attire is.....something else.

Come slum with us poor folks and I guarantee you will not be the most ridiculous person on the plane. By a mile!

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Anonymous wrote:I usually wear travel pants - soft and breathable fabric, wrinkle-proof, waterproof and stainproof, lots of zippered pockets, in a neurtal color. I top it with a bright full sleeve loose, soft material top, and a fleece fitted zippered sweatshirt with pockets. I also will have a super soft and pretty pashmina scarf that is very soft and can double up as a head-cover, a shawl or a blanket. I do not like to wear PJs while travelling but I like to be dressed in loose clothes and in layers.

If I have access to luxury business lounge during layovers, I usually also carry a change of underwear and take a hot shower. I also carry fuzzy socks with me. I never carry a conventional purse. It is always a super sturdy backpack purse. And super comfortable sneakers.

Frankly I think this outfit sounds like the purview of 70 year old Florida retirees. I know some of you don't want to hear this, but matching sweatsuits are much more stylish right now than "travel pants and a bright top."

I know you don’t want to hear this, but matching sweatsuits give 90s MC Hammer crew and and early 2000s JLo/Paris Hilton velour with chihuahua-as-accessory vibes.

Everything old is new again. But matching your bright top to the lipstick that is bleeding into the lines around your mouth is never a good look.

I’m not even the bright top poster, but you tried it, Lindsay Lohan circa 2003.

Try Hailey Bieber and Kendall Jenner circa 2022, oldster.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op, you care more than you think if you have to start a thread about it.

Ding ding.

[Anonymous]

I work for an airline (corporate) and fly for business and standby and we have appearance standards when we fly. Nothing overly strict, but can't look like a total slob either. So I've become pretty good at looking put together while still being comfortable - long dresses (in the summer), stretchy ponte knit pants, jeggings - all comfortable non-athletic wear options.

I generally do not care what other people wear, but I do roll my eyes a little at the people who clearly have on a special plane outfit. They have on the matching sweat suit with logos, the fuzzy slippers, neck pillow on their neck, blanket, huge sunglasses, fake LV bag.. Its like.. uh you're about to get on a 2 hour Spirit flight to Miami. Its not that serious.

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LOL. No. No one in any class cares.

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Anonymous wrote:Personally think there’s a good amount of in-between between baggy sweatpants/hoody and restrictive clothing. You do you but yeah I’m judging the heck out of ya.

DP and not me. Just as long as someone is clothed in something that isn't so dirty is smells and wears some kind of foot wear - even the cheapest flip flops or socks, that's enough as far as I am concerned.

Nope, footwear is not up for discussion. Closed toed shoes, period. Anything else is disgusting and offensive. If you wear flip flops on a plane I’m assuming you’re poor and can’t afford shoes.

There are non-closed toe shoes that aren't flip flops. Leather sandals are "disgusting"?

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Anonymous wrote:I don't judge others cause what they wear is none of my business, but the last time I flew I stepped it up and realized I felt better because I was presenting a better more pulled together me to the world, so I will probably continue doing that moving forward.

Even on a 15 hour flight to Asia?

NP. I don’t think you get that there is clothing that isn’t sweatpants and a hoodie that is still comfortable. I have stretchy trouser pants that are honestly as soft, stretchy and comfortable as yoga pants. And I have soft sweaters, long-sleeved shirts and jackets that are as comfortable as a hoodie. Why are you and OP acting like one must choose between sweatpants and a hoodie or a full-glam restricting outfit?

But what is really the point? You are packed in like sardines, it's mostly dark because the flight attendants are militant about putting down shades so people can watch movies or sleep, and no one is like "oh my, stretchy trouser pants and soft sweaters, an upgrade for YOU, my dear!" So why do you feel superior to someone wearing a tracksuit?

Can you please point to the part where I said I felt superior? I was making the point (that apparently you can’t argue against) that there are numerous items of clothing that are neither sweatpants or hoodies but are still just as comfortable. You’re acting like people either wear what you wear, or they won’t be comfortable. That’s just…not true.

I choose to wear soft trousers and a soft sweater or long-sleeved shirt and a pashmina, because that makes *me* feel ready for anything—if there’s a delay, I’ll be comfortable; if I run into an important colleague, a friend, or an ex (all scenarios have happened to me in the airport), I’ll be presentable; and to be honest, maybe it’s one of the reasons I’ve occasionally gotten an upgrade (which I’ve never asked for but would certainly never turn down). You do you, you wear what you want, but you don’t get to say I’m not comfortable or are somehow ridiculous for simply…making a choice that is different from yours.

Tell me you haven't flown in the last 15 years without telling me you haven't flown in the last 15 years.

Sorry! This happened to me en route to Vegas from DCA in 2019.

If so, your classy attire had nothing to do with it.

I didn’t see any schlubs in first class, so there’s that.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I usually wear travel pants - soft and breathable fabric, wrinkle-proof, waterproof and stainproof, lots of zippered pockets, in a neurtal color. I top it with a bright full sleeve loose, soft material top, and a fleece fitted zippered sweatshirt with pockets. I also will have a super soft and pretty pashmina scarf that is very soft and can double up as a head-cover, a shawl or a blanket. I do not like to wear PJs while travelling but I like to be dressed in loose clothes and in layers.

If I have access to luxury business lounge during layovers, I usually also carry a change of underwear and take a hot shower. I also carry fuzzy socks with me. I never carry a conventional purse. It is always a super sturdy backpack purse. And super comfortable sneakers.

Frankly I think this outfit sounds like the purview of 70 year old Florida retirees. I know some of you don't want to hear this, but matching sweatsuits are much more stylish right now than "travel pants and a bright top."

I know you don’t want to hear this, but matching sweatsuits give 90s MC Hammer crew and and early 2000s JLo/Paris Hilton velour with chihuahua-as-accessory vibes.

Everything old is new again. But matching your bright top to the lipstick that is bleeding into the lines around your mouth is never a good look.

I’m not even the bright top poster, but you tried it, Lindsay Lohan circa 2003.

Try Hailey Bieber and Kendall Jenner circa 2022, oldster.

Hahahaha, and you are how old? And these are your style inspiration? You’re the desperate “Cool Mom” played by Amy Poehler in “Mean Girls,” complete with your trying-to-be-relevant velour tracksuit! I am laughing so hard!