She is stunning. |
It’s very awful, but I’ll tell you when the one they cheat with is old and less attractive, it doesn’t affect your self esteem as much. It’s still incredibly traumatizing, but there is a certain superior feeling you get when the OW is a skank and you are beautiful and successful. Much harder to deal with if it was a young babe. Andrew went to Dartmouth. And TJ’s wife went to U Michigan and Vanderbilt law. These two losers went to Univ. Arkansas (TJ) and Univ Georgia (Amy). No advanced degrees. Dumber and less attractive than the spouse’s they cheated on. |
For sure. |
He wrote the bolded about his wife less than two years ago:
“Not only is my marriage still intact, it’s, actually, working pretty well, and that made me uncomfortable,” the University of Arkansas alum wrote at the time via Eurweb.com. “You see, I didn’t fully understand why my marriage was flourishing, and I feared that if I didn’t understand what we were doing right, how would we know what to keep doing?” He explained that his “eureka moment” came that week when the lawyer helped him craft a business email. “I asked my wife to review it, and she thought the tone of the email was too aggressive, confrontational and negative. She was right. Her input stopped me from making the mistake of hitting send,” Holmes continued. “That innocuous example is emblematic of our entire relationship. In all I do, I have a partner looking out for me, advising me, keeping me on track and stopping me from making a mistake, no matter how great or small.” The former MSNBC correspondent noted that while he was “still the same guy at my core,” there were a lot of positive changes in his life as a direct result of his marriage. “My family and I are closer, my individual net worth has gone up every year since we met, I’ve learned a second language, I’m healthier, I use the N-word less, I listen to Sunday church service more, I’m a better friend, I’m more forgiving than I used to be, I’m more involved in charitable work,” Holmes concluded. “In every way, I’m better off because I’m married. So, for me, a successful marriage has revolved around this principle: I like who I am with her.” The World News Now co-anchor doubled down on the compliments while toasting his and Fiebig’s 10-year anniversary in March 2020. “Asking her for another 10 years would be asking too much. Another 10 months? That may even be a stretch. If she gave me another 10 weeks, I should consider myself lucky. If she puts up with me another 10 days, I’d be grateful,” he playfully wrote via Facebook at the time. “But if she would even spare another 10 minutes of her time for me today, I should consider myself blessed. This is MARILEE FIEBIG HOLMES, y’all. And I, T. J. Holmes, do solemnly swear … that I …. was HER #decadechallenge.” |
As beautiful, lovely, and successful as she is, those posts also suggest that he was constantly trying to live up to expectations? Sometimes that takes a toll on a marriage. |
I was thinking the same thing. |
She was too good for him and so was Andrew for Amy. Both the other spouses were better looking and far more intelligent. Likely low self-esteem and worth is the reason they both stepped out with one another, as well as being lifelong cheats. I didn't realize TJ's first wife is a well-known CNN anchor, but she sealed her private life after their divorce, likely to protect their two children...who are now dealing with this complete sh*tshow. |
They married up and affaired down. |
Twice? Both were on 2nd marriages. |
Agree with maybe a little Thandie Newton. ![]() ![]() |
Is GMA going to fire them? How can they put them back on TV as co-hosts with this sh@tshow. I’m sure they broke all kinds of employment agreements. |
Omg! Her daughters were babysitters to his kids and the families were close, double dated. What a complete disgusting thing to do. |
Would be a great Shania Twain ending |
Isn’t that how the Bezos-Sanchez affair also started? |
Pople here seem weirdly affronted by this news. Sadly, affairs happen every day of the week. Sad but true. No one knows what goes on behind closed doors. |