So you spend no money in order to send your kids to school debt free; do you expect your kids to do the same for your grand kids? Does the cycle just continue indefinitely? |
No kids are unplanned. If you had sex, you know the risk of having a child. If you are trying to have kids, you know multiples are a possibility. And, all the more reason to save. You have to be realistic and send them to a state school. |
Here is the NYT article on it from a while ago. https://www.nytimes.com/2021/01/29/your-money/fafsa-changes-college-aid.html Ok, I was wrong about libertarian. But, he's a total gamer. |
The majority wants choice AND wants our taxes to support meaningful things that help our lives like higher education so that it's actually affordable rather than an ever-expanding military and low corporate tax rates. |
Military has seen huge reductions, not increases and enlisted are paid very poorly. |
We spend money on things important like activities for the kids. Yes, I will do what ever it takes to make sure my kids are debt free. A debt free education is the best gift you can give your kids. I hope they will do the same for their kids but I also hope we are in a position to help. My grandparents paid for a good chunk of my college and graduate school. My parents are too stingy to help despite plenty of money. I got my education debt free, my husband didn't get his till his 30's because he didn't have the money to go. We don't want our kids to struggle like he did when we can make "sacrifices" and pay for it. Our kids know we have the money to live nicer but also know we want to pay for their college and graduate school and know they will go to a state school in less we can find more money (we could pull from retirement if there is a good reason) or aid, which we aren't counting on at all. |
I don't get responses like this. Saving for college is a burden, even at that range. I don't get why this country accepts that colleges should cost that much money for anyone. I work hard for my money and was "first gen" and worked my way out of poverty. Yeah, I make a fair amount but I was a late starter to saving for retirement, buying a home, etc. Saving earlier wasn't exactly possible. And don't say "go somewhere else." This is theoretical for us at this point, but why should DC have to do that after working his/her tail off for 4 years just because other people will get aid and they won't? It's bull---t. |
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I am with you. I don't accept it, but I also don't know what I personally can do about it, besides steer kids to in-state schools that are still probably more costly than they should be. By paying or borrowing the money for these "elite" schools, arent' you feeding into it? |
Also, just because they make $200-300K now doesn't mean they always have. We didn't. We were very late to saving for retirement, having reliable cars that were not used and 100 years old and breaking down, having reliable healthcare, a home, etc. That EFC doesn't tell the whole story, rather, only a snapshot in time. We saved aggressively for college in the time that we could and it is increasingly apparent that it will not be enough. |
Importantly, "they'll give you 100%..." could mean different things at different universities. I worked for a couple of years at a private college. Unmet need, per the FAFSA (or other calc. used by the school) of $4000 could be MET with a $2000 campus work study job and a $2000 subsidized loan. OR it could be met with a $4000 grant. Or some mix of all and other sources. If your student is awarded scholarships outside of the college (e.g., a local garden club award), that too could factor into lessening the unmet need. |
Please show me all of these 300k homes in decent school districts |
And this is how the best colleges like Amherst are pulling away. 100% of need met through grants without the requirement for work study is starting be the standard for elite schools. Just like 100% of need met, this standard will spread to the schools that have the endowments to support it. Those that don't will slip a little bit more |
Not to pull the thread off-track, but nope: https://www.macrotrends.net/countries/USA/united-states/military-spending-defense-budget And it's still far higher than many other large countries combined: https://www.pgpf.org/chart-archive/0053_defense-comparison |
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Getting back to the OP's question -- OP, if you are talking about "elite" schools that don't give merit aid, plug your numbers into the net price calculator on the school's website, which will give you an estimate of what you will be expected to pay. This will give you a general idea.
You mentioned merit aid in your post. Lots of schools do give merit aid. Check online to see what most get. Some state universities will have a chart that breaks it down by ACT/SAT score and GPA. This can be "automatic" merit aid -- If your GPA is X and your ACT is X, you will get X dollars. |