Am I missing something? You can comfortably pay $30K on a $200K income especially if you have saved. I don't get it. We have less income and saved since birth. You saddled your child with loans, not them. They don't need to go to an $80K school and can go to a state school or one you can afford. You are making bad financial choices. |
Need-based aid varies widely by school. Not all meet full need. Most public colleges do not give any need-based aid to out of state families. The most selective privates tend to be the most generous. This is why there are Net Price Calculators. While not always accurate, they are the closest indicator of price for an individual family. |
OP, this is a pretty succinct description of the situation of families in your situation - student with this level of HHI does not qualify for aid and merit generally only forthcoming for strong students at schools outside the top 50 (there are a handful of schools with a tiny number of full rides, but the competition is fierce, even for an NMSF). It has been this way for awhile and most likely not changing any time soon. FWIW, seems an improvement over the prior scenario where most first gen kids were loaded with debt rather than a more balanced package. |
What is your objection to the work study? FWIW, the definition of demonstrated need varies across schools. If you do not want your DC taking out loans, then the option is for your DC to apply to schools that meet demonstrated need and do not include loans when doing so. I can imagine this is frustrating, but you are in a more economically stable situation than so many in this country. I think I would have taken the trade off of attending a state school v the anxiety of growing up in a resource-starved household as I had to do. |
Interesting. DYK if they have assets of which you may not be aware? |
They have to have assets, they’re on a low COL area, or they aren’t being truthful with you (or you’re just making this up). It’s unusual that you know a friend’s HHI in the first place, so I doubt you know their entire financial situation. There are also people who can look less wealthy on paper when they own a business. |
NP. BS. These top 50 schools are sticking families with $80k tabs because they CAN. They do not need to charge this much to break even. There's no "subsidizing". |
| 250k income dual income household. 2 kids in college- $145k tuition. Full- pay. |
Sound about right, HHI 300k, NPC shows 210k !! |
Right, but then won't your older kid's drop too? Sounds like your efc is 60k, now halved for each kid when #2 enters because #1 is still in school, right? This is actually a great deal, but it may not last. The new college finance bill the passed congress a few years ago will go into effect next year, and Lamar Alexander added a clause that eliminates this siblings at the same time benefit. For many schools, you may see that 30k double. My #2 will be applying next year, and I hope some css schools will keep that provision even if FAFSA calculations drop it. But at 200k annual, 60k efc is not bad and 30k is excellent. You should have some money saved, right? |
Yep, I think a lot fall into this scenario, unfortunately. |
What should home equity have to do with it? Are you expected to borrow against your home? |
I would assume the answer is yes, unfortunately. Most schools that use CSS consider home equity. I told my child that he couldn't apply to any school that considers home equity AND isn't known for generous merit aid. Many schools dropped off the list. |
They are using the money to subsidize other families but they are charging that much as you say because the can. So, those of us who cannot afford it, send our kids to state schools. |
Because you choose a higher priced house over college savings. We bought a tiny sh@t shack so we could save for college. Why should we have the same income, you choose not to save, scream poverty and live in a much nicer house, take vacations, etc. Yes, you can borrow against your equity or save. |