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Yes, all the facts seem to check out. Even representing herself as 1st gen according to Penn's definitions (though that one is the most stretched). Regarding the injuries, she was hospitalized, and the nurse is speaking on her behalf. My kids are dramatic and might think of a short time in a neck brace in more extreme terms. My daughter classified her asking repeatedly for something over the span of a couple years as "pleading incessantly." I was like, not quite. This kid was traumatized and not in full capacity of her faculties. She also had no parent caring for her with her in the hospital to quantify what happened. It's her qualitative experience. |
| Cheating in the college applications is more common than you think. Most are not caught and unknown to most people. |
Her story largely checks out. Did you read the full article? |
"Going Les Mis" may be my new catch phrase - so good! |
I read the article. Her story didn't check out. The DA said he dropped the charges against the mom and the more he looked into it the less clear the story became. Whatever. She's not low-income or first generation. At least the Rhodes Committee didn't think so as they defined it. |
As a first gen kid, especially when schools did nothing for us and seemed kind of proud of it, this one rankles. But the various PPs' discussion of concept of time really rings true and kinda WTH, getting beaten by your parent and ending up in foster care would be pretty mind blowing for ANY kid. |
She was hospitalized for almost a month, but sure her mom didn’t do anything wrong. |
This goes back to Louis L'Amour if not further. Americans have always been obsessed with the idea of pulling yourself up from your bootstraps, the self-made man, making something out of nothing. Of course to be fair, the idea that it's both brand new and contemptible because your kid doesn't benefit from the narrative is also pretty classically American. |
and the state must have just placed her in foster care for funsies! |
So she should be a Rhodes Scholar? And I think the prosecutor who investigated and dropped the charges knows more about it than you do. |
He also said the abuse could very well have happened but that he didn't have the evidence to pursue it. The nurse testified on her behalf. She could be considered low-income and 1st gen by Penn's standards. That is not clear cut. Rhodes did not do a deep investigation. |
I read from several sources with various bits of information that frame out the situation enough for me to form an opinion that this is a girl of sketchy character & she knows how to tilt a story for her benefit. If you have ever known someone cunning & capable of such behavior the little red flags start to pop up. Everything else aside, little Miss Victim is not deserving of Oxford, regardless of her "qualitative" interpretation of her victimhood. This whole situation is offensive on so many levels. |
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The girl does seem mentally ill. Whatever happened with her mother is one thing but lying about being first gen etc on college application seems like she was already planning to lie about herself and her background. She lied. Period.
Universities especially elite ones need to realize that the rich will keep coming up with ways to gain entry into their institutions by lying, cheating etc no matter what. They need to rethink admissions.. this is crazy! |
How can she be first gen when her mom was a radiologist? And she grew up rich! |
| She's not first gen by my standards but it seems messed up for Penn to state that they consider "first at an elite institution" first gen and then say that her use of the designation is categorically untrue. They should have left the designation alone, and it seems like they introduced confusion in order to have it both ways (claim "look at all our [artificially inflated] first gen students" in literature, but then call those same kids connivers for going with Penn's definition if they want to punish them). |