Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think she’s attractive and sexy. You can be both of these things and not be conventionally beautiful.
+1 I feel like having a quality of being sexy to men is a major thing and other women don't see it in its varied forms in other women the same way other heterosexual men will obviously. Some men genuinely dig prominent noses for example (ask me how I know). It's not all showing the obvious t & a. I remember years ago reading about how men thought Lillith/bebe neuworth on cheers was smoking hot. As a woman I saw her as very pretty but certainly her "hotness" went right by me. Some men don't see sjp as attractive at all (and that magazine article calling her the unsexiest woman ever was mean spirited) but a lot of the venom also comes from other women who project their internalized, idealized standards on to her. She is ikea barbra streisand....some people think she is beautiful others think ugly. Some people have a uniqu look, outside the traditional. Many men will still dig it.