Mom Cliques. I had no idea.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t get how an adult woman could care if a group of mere acquaintances didn’t invite her to something.

All the ladies at my yoga studio get together all of the time. I’ve only been invited once or twice and couldn’t make it. I’ve run into them out and about for lunch/drinks and jimmy crack corn I don’t care. What’s it to me? Is it a clique? Nope, it’s just a group of women who like to hang out with each other. They’re not doing it at my expense.

Besides, I’m too busy to care. Now, if my friends got together and didn’t include me, that would hurt. But mommies on a bus stop? I really, really could not care less.

Don’t you have other stuff to do, OP?

Exactly. It's because OP and this echo chamber here are all thirsty social climbers. They ooze desperation. It's a safe bet the women OP and the echo chamber are all frustrated by are upper caste and wealthy. You're not pissed off if the school's apartment dwelling parents aren't inviting you to an Olive Garden lunch on Friday. You want to be 'in' with the high born. Too bad you're not.

OP clearly considered some of those women to be more than acquaintances, which is why she felt left out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t get how an adult woman could care if a group of mere acquaintances didn’t invite her to something.

All the ladies at my yoga studio get together all of the time. I’ve only been invited once or twice and couldn’t make it. I’ve run into them out and about for lunch/drinks and jimmy crack corn I don’t care. What’s it to me? Is it a clique? Nope, it’s just a group of women who like to hang out with each other. They’re not doing it at my expense.

Besides, I’m too busy to care. Now, if my friends got together and didn’t include me, that would hurt. But mommies on a bus stop? I really, really could not care less.

Don’t you have other stuff to do, OP?

Exactly. It's because OP and this echo chamber here are all thirsty social climbers. They ooze desperation. It's a safe bet the women OP and the echo chamber are all frustrated by are upper caste and wealthy. You're not pissed off if the school's apartment dwelling parents aren't inviting you to an Olive Garden lunch on Friday. You want to be 'in' with the high born. Too bad you're not.

It's crazy to me that you couldn't understand anyone every feeling left out for any reason other than being a "thirsty social climber."

When I have felt left out of a group of women, it is usually because I am in a place where I don't yet have many friends and am lonely. That's it. Not because I'm trying to wheedle my way into a higher "caste."

This is honestly a deranged attitude and I hope I never find myself in a friend group with people who think this way. Most people just want friends to hang out with and talk to, not to gain entry to high society. Good lord.

You and all the other social climbing wannabes in this thread know I'm right.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t get how an adult woman could care if a group of mere acquaintances didn’t invite her to something.

All the ladies at my yoga studio get together all of the time. I’ve only been invited once or twice and couldn’t make it. I’ve run into them out and about for lunch/drinks and jimmy crack corn I don’t care. What’s it to me? Is it a clique? Nope, it’s just a group of women who like to hang out with each other. They’re not doing it at my expense.

Besides, I’m too busy to care. Now, if my friends got together and didn’t include me, that would hurt. But mommies on a bus stop? I really, really could not care less.

Don’t you have other stuff to do, OP?

Exactly. It's because OP and this echo chamber here are all thirsty social climbers. They ooze desperation. It's a safe bet the women OP and the echo chamber are all frustrated by are upper caste and wealthy. You're not pissed off if the school's apartment dwelling parents aren't inviting you to an Olive Garden lunch on Friday. You want to be 'in' with the high born. Too bad you're not.

It's crazy to me that you couldn't understand anyone every feeling left out for any reason other than being a "thirsty social climber."

When I have felt left out of a group of women, it is usually because I am in a place where I don't yet have many friends and am lonely. That's it. Not because I'm trying to wheedle my way into a higher "caste."

This is honestly a deranged attitude and I hope I never find myself in a friend group with people who think this way. Most people just want friends to hang out with and talk to, not to gain entry to high society. Good lord.

If you actually want to be friends with these people it's probably best not to run off and declare them all drunks, with awful children, no jobs, who are just a bunch of mean girls. That doesn't make the lonely people more empathetic.

DP. You’re ironically desperate for an excuse. I’m one of the people who defended the OP, I DON’T want to be friends with the wine moms, and I’m wealthy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t get how an adult woman could care if a group of mere acquaintances didn’t invite her to something.

All the ladies at my yoga studio get together all of the time. I’ve only been invited once or twice and couldn’t make it. I’ve run into them out and about for lunch/drinks and jimmy crack corn I don’t care. What’s it to me? Is it a clique? Nope, it’s just a group of women who like to hang out with each other. They’re not doing it at my expense.

Besides, I’m too busy to care. Now, if my friends got together and didn’t include me, that would hurt. But mommies on a bus stop? I really, really could not care less.

Don’t you have other stuff to do, OP?

Exactly. It's because OP and this echo chamber here are all thirsty social climbers. They ooze desperation. It's a safe bet the women OP and the echo chamber are all frustrated by are upper caste and wealthy. You're not pissed off if the school's apartment dwelling parents aren't inviting you to an Olive Garden lunch on Friday. You want to be 'in' with the high born. Too bad you're not.

OP clearly considered some of those women to be more than acquaintances, which is why she felt left out.

And what caliber of women is a striver like OP more inclined to exaggerate her friendship with, the apartment dwellers or the wealthy moms? You know the answer. We all know what this and threads like it are REALLY about.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t get how an adult woman could care if a group of mere acquaintances didn’t invite her to something.

All the ladies at my yoga studio get together all of the time. I’ve only been invited once or twice and couldn’t make it. I’ve run into them out and about for lunch/drinks and jimmy crack corn I don’t care. What’s it to me? Is it a clique? Nope, it’s just a group of women who like to hang out with each other. They’re not doing it at my expense.

Besides, I’m too busy to care. Now, if my friends got together and didn’t include me, that would hurt. But mommies on a bus stop? I really, really could not care less.

Don’t you have other stuff to do, OP?

Exactly. It's because OP and this echo chamber here are all thirsty social climbers. They ooze desperation. It's a safe bet the women OP and the echo chamber are all frustrated by are upper caste and wealthy. You're not pissed off if the school's apartment dwelling parents aren't inviting you to an Olive Garden lunch on Friday. You want to be 'in' with the high born. Too bad you're not.

OP clearly considered some of those women to be more than acquaintances, which is why she felt left out.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t get how an adult woman could care if a group of mere acquaintances didn’t invite her to something.

All the ladies at my yoga studio get together all of the time. I’ve only been invited once or twice and couldn’t make it. I’ve run into them out and about for lunch/drinks and jimmy crack corn I don’t care. What’s it to me? Is it a clique? Nope, it’s just a group of women who like to hang out with each other. They’re not doing it at my expense.

Besides, I’m too busy to care. Now, if my friends got together and didn’t include me, that would hurt. But mommies on a bus stop? I really, really could not care less.

Don’t you have other stuff to do, OP?

Exactly. It's because OP and this echo chamber here are all thirsty social climbers. They ooze desperation. It's a safe bet the women OP and the echo chamber are all frustrated by are upper caste and wealthy. You're not pissed off if the school's apartment dwelling parents aren't inviting you to an Olive Garden lunch on Friday. You want to be 'in' with the high born. Too bad you're not.

It's crazy to me that you couldn't understand anyone every feeling left out for any reason other than being a "thirsty social climber."

When I have felt left out of a group of women, it is usually because I am in a place where I don't yet have many friends and am lonely. That's it. Not because I'm trying to wheedle my way into a higher "caste."

This is honestly a deranged attitude and I hope I never find myself in a friend group with people who think this way. Most people just want friends to hang out with and talk to, not to gain entry to high society. Good lord.

If you actually want to be friends with these people it's probably best not to run off and declare them all drunks, with awful children, no jobs, who are just a bunch of mean girls. That doesn't make the lonely people more empathetic.

DP. You’re ironically desperate for an excuse. I’m one of the people who defended the OP, I DON’T want to be friends with the wine moms, and I’m wealthy.

Are you insinuating OP is poor because she's lonely and wants to be friends with the wine moms? What?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t get how an adult woman could care if a group of mere acquaintances didn’t invite her to something.

All the ladies at my yoga studio get together all of the time. I’ve only been invited once or twice and couldn’t make it. I’ve run into them out and about for lunch/drinks and jimmy crack corn I don’t care. What’s it to me? Is it a clique? Nope, it’s just a group of women who like to hang out with each other. They’re not doing it at my expense.

Besides, I’m too busy to care. Now, if my friends got together and didn’t include me, that would hurt. But mommies on a bus stop? I really, really could not care less.

Don’t you have other stuff to do, OP?

Exactly. It's because OP and this echo chamber here are all thirsty social climbers. They ooze desperation. It's a safe bet the women OP and the echo chamber are all frustrated by are upper caste and wealthy. You're not pissed off if the school's apartment dwelling parents aren't inviting you to an Olive Garden lunch on Friday. You want to be 'in' with the high born. Too bad you're not.

It's crazy to me that you couldn't understand anyone every feeling left out for any reason other than being a "thirsty social climber."

When I have felt left out of a group of women, it is usually because I am in a place where I don't yet have many friends and am lonely. That's it. Not because I'm trying to wheedle my way into a higher "caste."

This is honestly a deranged attitude and I hope I never find myself in a friend group with people who think this way. Most people just want friends to hang out with and talk to, not to gain entry to high society. Good lord.

If you actually want to be friends with these people it's probably best not to run off and declare them all drunks, with awful children, no jobs, who are just a bunch of mean girls. That doesn't make the lonely people more empathetic.

DP. You’re ironically desperate for an excuse. I’m one of the people who defended the OP, I DON’T want to be friends with the wine moms, and I’m wealthy.

Are you insinuating OP is poor because she's lonely and wants to be friends with the wine moms? What?

Read again.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t get how an adult woman could care if a group of mere acquaintances didn’t invite her to something.

All the ladies at my yoga studio get together all of the time. I’ve only been invited once or twice and couldn’t make it. I’ve run into them out and about for lunch/drinks and jimmy crack corn I don’t care. What’s it to me? Is it a clique? Nope, it’s just a group of women who like to hang out with each other. They’re not doing it at my expense.

Besides, I’m too busy to care. Now, if my friends got together and didn’t include me, that would hurt. But mommies on a bus stop? I really, really could not care less.

Don’t you have other stuff to do, OP?

Exactly. It's because OP and this echo chamber here are all thirsty social climbers. They ooze desperation. It's a safe bet the women OP and the echo chamber are all frustrated by are upper caste and wealthy. You're not pissed off if the school's apartment dwelling parents aren't inviting you to an Olive Garden lunch on Friday. You want to be 'in' with the high born. Too bad you're not.

OP clearly considered some of those women to be more than acquaintances, which is why she felt left out.

Seems like people who know her in real life have her number. She came here to talk shit about them, didn't she?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t get how an adult woman could care if a group of mere acquaintances didn’t invite her to something.

All the ladies at my yoga studio get together all of the time. I’ve only been invited once or twice and couldn’t make it. I’ve run into them out and about for lunch/drinks and jimmy crack corn I don’t care. What’s it to me? Is it a clique? Nope, it’s just a group of women who like to hang out with each other. They’re not doing it at my expense.

Besides, I’m too busy to care. Now, if my friends got together and didn’t include me, that would hurt. But mommies on a bus stop? I really, really could not care less.

Don’t you have other stuff to do, OP?

Exactly. It's because OP and this echo chamber here are all thirsty social climbers. They ooze desperation. It's a safe bet the women OP and the echo chamber are all frustrated by are upper caste and wealthy. You're not pissed off if the school's apartment dwelling parents aren't inviting you to an Olive Garden lunch on Friday. You want to be 'in' with the high born. Too bad you're not.

It's crazy to me that you couldn't understand anyone every feeling left out for any reason other than being a "thirsty social climber."

When I have felt left out of a group of women, it is usually because I am in a place where I don't yet have many friends and am lonely. That's it. Not because I'm trying to wheedle my way into a higher "caste."

This is honestly a deranged attitude and I hope I never find myself in a friend group with people who think this way. Most people just want friends to hang out with and talk to, not to gain entry to high society. Good lord.

If you actually want to be friends with these people it's probably best not to run off and declare them all drunks, with awful children, no jobs, who are just a bunch of mean girls. That doesn't make the lonely people more empathetic.

DP. You’re ironically desperate for an excuse. I’m one of the people who defended the OP, I DON’T want to be friends with the wine moms, and I’m wealthy.

Are you insinuating OP is poor because she's lonely and wants to be friends with the wine moms? What?

Read again.

I don't have the time to try to figure out what you're trying to say. I'm just repeating what was said in this thread, wealthy mama.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t get how an adult woman could care if a group of mere acquaintances didn’t invite her to something.

All the ladies at my yoga studio get together all of the time. I’ve only been invited once or twice and couldn’t make it. I’ve run into them out and about for lunch/drinks and jimmy crack corn I don’t care. What’s it to me? Is it a clique? Nope, it’s just a group of women who like to hang out with each other. They’re not doing it at my expense.

Besides, I’m too busy to care. Now, if my friends got together and didn’t include me, that would hurt. But mommies on a bus stop? I really, really could not care less.

Don’t you have other stuff to do, OP?

Exactly. It's because OP and this echo chamber here are all thirsty social climbers. They ooze desperation. It's a safe bet the women OP and the echo chamber are all frustrated by are upper caste and wealthy. You're not pissed off if the school's apartment dwelling parents aren't inviting you to an Olive Garden lunch on Friday. You want to be 'in' with the high born. Too bad you're not.

It's crazy to me that you couldn't understand anyone every feeling left out for any reason other than being a "thirsty social climber."

When I have felt left out of a group of women, it is usually because I am in a place where I don't yet have many friends and am lonely. That's it. Not because I'm trying to wheedle my way into a higher "caste."

This is honestly a deranged attitude and I hope I never find myself in a friend group with people who think this way. Most people just want friends to hang out with and talk to, not to gain entry to high society. Good lord.

If you actually want to be friends with these people it's probably best not to run off and declare them all drunks, with awful children, no jobs, who are just a bunch of mean girls. That doesn't make the lonely people more empathetic.

DP. You’re ironically desperate for an excuse. I’m one of the people who defended the OP, I DON’T want to be friends with the wine moms, and I’m wealthy.

Are you insinuating OP is poor because she's lonely and wants to be friends with the wine moms? What?

Read again.

I don't have the time to try to figure out what you're trying to say. I'm just repeating what was said in this thread, wealthy mama.

For heaven’s sake! The other PP is randomly saying that the people who defended the OP are thirsty social climbers desperate to fit in with the wealthy wine moms. That’s objectively wrong.

BTW, Jeff defended the OP too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t get how an adult woman could care if a group of mere acquaintances didn’t invite her to something.

All the ladies at my yoga studio get together all of the time. I’ve only been invited once or twice and couldn’t make it. I’ve run into them out and about for lunch/drinks and jimmy crack corn I don’t care. What’s it to me? Is it a clique? Nope, it’s just a group of women who like to hang out with each other. They’re not doing it at my expense.

Besides, I’m too busy to care. Now, if my friends got together and didn’t include me, that would hurt. But mommies on a bus stop? I really, really could not care less.

Don’t you have other stuff to do, OP?

Exactly. It's because OP and this echo chamber here are all thirsty social climbers. They ooze desperation. It's a safe bet the women OP and the echo chamber are all frustrated by are upper caste and wealthy. You're not pissed off if the school's apartment dwelling parents aren't inviting you to an Olive Garden lunch on Friday. You want to be 'in' with the high born. Too bad you're not.

It's crazy to me that you couldn't understand anyone every feeling left out for any reason other than being a "thirsty social climber."

When I have felt left out of a group of women, it is usually because I am in a place where I don't yet have many friends and am lonely. That's it. Not because I'm trying to wheedle my way into a higher "caste."

This is honestly a deranged attitude and I hope I never find myself in a friend group with people who think this way. Most people just want friends to hang out with and talk to, not to gain entry to high society. Good lord.

If you actually want to be friends with these people it's probably best not to run off and declare them all drunks, with awful children, no jobs, who are just a bunch of mean girls. That doesn't make the lonely people more empathetic.

DP. You’re ironically desperate for an excuse. I’m one of the people who defended the OP, I DON’T want to be friends with the wine moms, and I’m wealthy.

Are you insinuating OP is poor because she's lonely and wants to be friends with the wine moms? What?

Read again.

I don't have the time to try to figure out what you're trying to say. I'm just repeating what was said in this thread, wealthy mama.

For heaven’s sake! The other PP is randomly saying that the people who defended the OP are thirsty social climbers desperate to fit in with the wealthy wine moms. That’s objectively wrong.

BTW, Jeff defended the OP too.

Jeff probably read 5 posts. The last 30 or so pages have been a little different, btw. But OP does smack of desperation whether she or the other women are wealthy or not. And since she lives in a subdivision and her kids ride school bus to school, I think that gives us some clues about her status.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t get how an adult woman could care if a group of mere acquaintances didn’t invite her to something.

All the ladies at my yoga studio get together all of the time. I’ve only been invited once or twice and couldn’t make it. I’ve run into them out and about for lunch/drinks and jimmy crack corn I don’t care. What’s it to me? Is it a clique? Nope, it’s just a group of women who like to hang out with each other. They’re not doing it at my expense.

Besides, I’m too busy to care. Now, if my friends got together and didn’t include me, that would hurt. But mommies on a bus stop? I really, really could not care less.

Don’t you have other stuff to do, OP?

Exactly. It's because OP and this echo chamber here are all thirsty social climbers. They ooze desperation. It's a safe bet the women OP and the echo chamber are all frustrated by are upper caste and wealthy. You're not pissed off if the school's apartment dwelling parents aren't inviting you to an Olive Garden lunch on Friday. You want to be 'in' with the high born. Too bad you're not.

It's crazy to me that you couldn't understand anyone every feeling left out for any reason other than being a "thirsty social climber."

When I have felt left out of a group of women, it is usually because I am in a place where I don't yet have many friends and am lonely. That's it. Not because I'm trying to wheedle my way into a higher "caste."

This is honestly a deranged attitude and I hope I never find myself in a friend group with people who think this way. Most people just want friends to hang out with and talk to, not to gain entry to high society. Good lord.

If you actually want to be friends with these people it's probably best not to run off and declare them all drunks, with awful children, no jobs, who are just a bunch of mean girls. That doesn't make the lonely people more empathetic.

DP. You’re ironically desperate for an excuse. I’m one of the people who defended the OP, I DON’T want to be friends with the wine moms, and I’m wealthy.

Are you insinuating OP is poor because she's lonely and wants to be friends with the wine moms? What?

Read again.

I don't have the time to try to figure out what you're trying to say. I'm just repeating what was said in this thread, wealthy mama.

For heaven’s sake! The other PP is randomly saying that the people who defended the OP are thirsty social climbers desperate to fit in with the wealthy wine moms. That’s objectively wrong.

BTW, Jeff defended the OP too.

Jeff probably read 5 posts. The last 30 or so pages have been a little different, btw. But OP does smack of desperation whether she or the other women are wealthy or not. And since she lives in a subdivision and her kids ride school bus to school, I think that gives us some clues about her status.

You’re projecting.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t get how an adult woman could care if a group of mere acquaintances didn’t invite her to something.

All the ladies at my yoga studio get together all of the time. I’ve only been invited once or twice and couldn’t make it. I’ve run into them out and about for lunch/drinks and jimmy crack corn I don’t care. What’s it to me? Is it a clique? Nope, it’s just a group of women who like to hang out with each other. They’re not doing it at my expense.

Besides, I’m too busy to care. Now, if my friends got together and didn’t include me, that would hurt. But mommies on a bus stop? I really, really could not care less.

Don’t you have other stuff to do, OP?

Exactly. It's because OP and this echo chamber here are all thirsty social climbers. They ooze desperation. It's a safe bet the women OP and the echo chamber are all frustrated by are upper caste and wealthy. You're not pissed off if the school's apartment dwelling parents aren't inviting you to an Olive Garden lunch on Friday. You want to be 'in' with the high born. Too bad you're not.

It's crazy to me that you couldn't understand anyone every feeling left out for any reason other than being a "thirsty social climber."

When I have felt left out of a group of women, it is usually because I am in a place where I don't yet have many friends and am lonely. That's it. Not because I'm trying to wheedle my way into a higher "caste."

This is honestly a deranged attitude and I hope I never find myself in a friend group with people who think this way. Most people just want friends to hang out with and talk to, not to gain entry to high society. Good lord.

If you actually want to be friends with these people it's probably best not to run off and declare them all drunks, with awful children, no jobs, who are just a bunch of mean girls. That doesn't make the lonely people more empathetic.

DP. You’re ironically desperate for an excuse. I’m one of the people who defended the OP, I DON’T want to be friends with the wine moms, and I’m wealthy.

Are you insinuating OP is poor because she's lonely and wants to be friends with the wine moms? What?

Read again.

I don't have the time to try to figure out what you're trying to say. I'm just repeating what was said in this thread, wealthy mama.

For heaven’s sake! The other PP is randomly saying that the people who defended the OP are thirsty social climbers desperate to fit in with the wealthy wine moms. That’s objectively wrong.

BTW, Jeff defended the OP too.

Jeff probably read 5 posts. The last 30 or so pages have been a little different, btw. But OP does smack of desperation whether she or the other women are wealthy or not. And since she lives in a subdivision and her kids ride school bus to school, I think that gives us some clues about her status.

You’re projecting.

Oh really? If I'm unbothered by people getting together without me I don't come to anonymous message boards to mock them and ask other to trade stories mocking other women. Try again.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:Just hang out with different moms. The clique stuff abates later on.

No, it does not. These groups actually expand and solidify. The DC will join the same travel teams with dad coaches. Carpools form. Then exclusive sport specific summer training camps. Girls Weekends. Multi-Family Vacations. Social engineering: the DC will take each other to Homecoming, Prom. Parents will join same church. Parents will host huge parties for each other (40th/50th). Kids will serve as bartenders.

DCs will be the Mean Girls/Guys.

For the love of God, your kids and especially you are not entitled to be friends with the "cool" families. And just because you're not in their orbit does not make them "mean". My kids are not in the "cool" clique but they've been dance dates with cool kids and the kids and their parents are always cordial. Then again our kids are in private school. Maybe the families are more vicious in public.

There are no cool families. The sooner you realize this, the happier you are. Coolness is imaginary.

Praise be, someone with some sense.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t get how an adult woman could care if a group of mere acquaintances didn’t invite her to something.

All the ladies at my yoga studio get together all of the time. I’ve only been invited once or twice and couldn’t make it. I’ve run into them out and about for lunch/drinks and jimmy crack corn I don’t care. What’s it to me? Is it a clique? Nope, it’s just a group of women who like to hang out with each other. They’re not doing it at my expense.

Besides, I’m too busy to care. Now, if my friends got together and didn’t include me, that would hurt. But mommies on a bus stop? I really, really could not care less.

Don’t you have other stuff to do, OP?

Exactly. It's because OP and this echo chamber here are all thirsty social climbers. They ooze desperation. It's a safe bet the women OP and the echo chamber are all frustrated by are upper caste and wealthy. You're not pissed off if the school's apartment dwelling parents aren't inviting you to an Olive Garden lunch on Friday. You want to be 'in' with the high born. Too bad you're not.

It's crazy to me that you couldn't understand anyone every feeling left out for any reason other than being a "thirsty social climber."

When I have felt left out of a group of women, it is usually because I am in a place where I don't yet have many friends and am lonely. That's it. Not because I'm trying to wheedle my way into a higher "caste."

This is honestly a deranged attitude and I hope I never find myself in a friend group with people who think this way. Most people just want friends to hang out with and talk to, not to gain entry to high society. Good lord.

If you actually want to be friends with these people it's probably best not to run off and declare them all drunks, with awful children, no jobs, who are just a bunch of mean girls. That doesn't make the lonely people more empathetic.

DP. You’re ironically desperate for an excuse. I’m one of the people who defended the OP, I DON’T want to be friends with the wine moms, and I’m wealthy.

Are you insinuating OP is poor because she's lonely and wants to be friends with the wine moms? What?

Read again.

I don't have the time to try to figure out what you're trying to say. I'm just repeating what was said in this thread, wealthy mama.

For heaven’s sake! The other PP is randomly saying that the people who defended the OP are thirsty social climbers desperate to fit in with the wealthy wine moms. That’s objectively wrong.

BTW, Jeff defended the OP too.

Jeff probably read 5 posts. The last 30 or so pages have been a little different, btw. But OP does smack of desperation whether she or the other women are wealthy or not. And since she lives in a subdivision and her kids ride school bus to school, I think that gives us some clues about her status.

You’re projecting.

Oh really? If I'm unbothered by people getting together without me I don't come to anonymous message boards to mock them and ask other to trade stories mocking other women. Try again.

OP = bothered

You = desperately triggered and projecting