High Drive Couples

[Anonymous]

I see a lot of "low-drive, low frequency, he doesn't want sex, she doesn't want sex" posts but are there any high frequency, total mind-blowing sex having couples?

Please tell me they're out there. If so, how long have you been married and how many kids do you have?

[Anonymous]

Not high drive but consistently 2x a week and consistently very good even though we do the same things. There are times when I can’t get up after her finishing move. Been together 17 years and she’s my best friend for sure.

We have one kid.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not high drive but consistently 2x a week and consistently very good even though we do the same things. There are times when I can’t get up after her finishing move. Been together 17 years and she’s my best friend for sure.

We have one kid.

The Move: does it involve a knuckle?

[Anonymous]

8 years married, two young children. He’s obsessed with me recently both got so into foreplay we came within a few minutes of the actual deed.

[Anonymous]

17 years in, and we go at it enthusiastically 4-10 times/week. During the week it's often quick (helps us both connect and sleep), but satisfying. If one of us isn't in a state where individually we want it, we "help" the other happily. Often we start that way but the process gets the other going and usually ends with both of us going for gold.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:17 years in, and we go at it enthusiastically 4-10 times/week. During the week it's often quick (helps us both connect and sleep), but satisfying. If one of us isn't in a state where individually we want it, we "help" the other happily. Often we start that way but the process gets the other going and usually ends with both of us going for gold.

There is hope! Thank you.

[Anonymous]

Married 25 years. We average three times a week . I'm the DW and confess that when my kids were very young, my libido took a big hit. Sex at that point was out of obligation . Now that we are both in our forties, we are both very much into it. We are even trying new things and look forward to the few moments when all three kids are out of the house so we can have some fun.

[Anonymous]

2x/week here. Married 20 years. late 40s/early 50s. It isn't always rocking passionate, but it is good. She comes. He comes. blah blah blah.

[Anonymous]

This is us when I’m not pregnant or nursing. So...not for the last three years, or for the next 1.5 probably, but it’ll be nice to be back!

[Anonymous]

Married 37 years and still average 1-2 times a week. Our foreplay can be so good we finish right there. I can't say we are high drive, we just still both enjoy sex.

[Anonymous]

It's nice see married couples who prioritze sex and intimacy. It's not just for single people!

-single woman taking notes

[Anonymous]

5 years with a 1 year old. At least 3 times a week, often twice in a night, before bed and again in the middle of the night. Sex brings us back to normalcy since our days are so different with a child now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is us when I’m not pregnant or nursing. So...not for the last three years, or for the next 1.5 probably, but it’ll be nice to be back!

That does not sound very good. Before having kids and even during the first pregnancy (3 years ago) DH and I were averaging 7 times a week. After 2 kids (1 and 3) it’s more like 2-3 times a week. How do you know how it will be with your DH since it hasn’t been like that for 3 years?

[Anonymous]

Married 14 years, 3 kids. We do it twice a day and more on weekends. Pregnancy, nursing and small kids never interrupted my drive.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is us when I’m not pregnant or nursing. So...not for the last three years, or for the next 1.5 probably, but it’ll be nice to be back!

That does not sound very good. Before having kids and even during the first pregnancy (3 years ago) DH and I were averaging 7 times a week. After 2 kids (1 and 3) it’s more like 2-3 times a week. How do you know how it will be with your DH since it hasn’t been like that for 3 years?

Lol +1. Good luck there PP