The Problem with Our Marriage

[Anonymous]

is that I cannot deliver what DW expects or wants. God knows I have tried. I have changed my career and refuse to do so again, I have bent over backwards within the constraints of my profession to accomodate her but she also needs to learn to accept that you cannot always get what you want. I am tired. Just tired. Tired.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:is that I cannot deliver what DW expects or wants. God knows I have tried. I have changed my career and refuse to do so again, I have bent over backwards within the constraints of my profession to accomodate her but she also needs to learn to accept that you cannot always get what you want. I am tired. Just tired. Tired.

is this about the dishes and/or recycling

[Anonymous]

Your DW is asking too much if she keeps asking you to change your career.

[Anonymous]

No. It’s about me changing careers, meeting all her endless emotional needs and refusal to give her money even though she has a six figure income. She’s like a child. Also wants a medal for being a mother!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No. It’s about me changing careers, meeting all her endless emotional needs and refusal to give her money even though she has a six figure income. She’s like a child. Also wants a medal for being a mother!

So, what do you wan to do? Really. What is it you WANT? You aren't going to change her. What about you is going to change?

[Anonymous]

Tell her to go fix herself and to come back when she knows what she wants.

[Anonymous]

How do you split up/combine your finances?

[Anonymous]

What do you mean, she wants you to give her money and a medal for being a mother? You’re being awfully vague.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What do you mean, she wants you to give her money and a medal for being a mother? You’re being awfully vague.

All you need to know is he hates his wife and she's wrong and he's right.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am tired.

So let her be disappointed.
Get some rest.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:is that I cannot deliver what DW expects or wants. God knows I have tried. I have changed my career and refuse to do so again, I have bent over backwards within the constraints of my profession to accomodate her but she also needs to learn to accept that you cannot always get what you want. I am tired. Just tired. Tired.

Do you have children?
What time do you leave the house and what time to your return? Do you do any travel? If so, how much?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No. It’s about me changing careers, meeting all her endless emotional needs and refusal to give her money even though she has a six figure income. She’s like a child. Also wants a medal for being a mother!

Why aren’t your incomes mixed?

[Anonymous]

She says I owe her money for childcare, for gas for my car when she drives it and that I need to pay for all the house repairs, and on top of that the company llegevtiition whike she drives her $50K sports car. I think a divorce will cure her real quick when she realizes she’ll actually have to truly supper herself. I’ll probably find a better model anyway.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She says I owe her money for childcare, for gas for my car when she drives it and that I need to pay for all the house repairs, and on top of that the company llegevtiition whike she drives her $50K sports car. I think a divorce will cure her real quick when she realizes she’ll actually have to truly supper herself. I’ll probably find a better model anyway.

So, divorce. She's likely sick of you whining and complaining anyway.

[Anonymous]

OP you should go on strike.