What if your spouse's AP were a different race than you?

[Anonymous]

Would that make it any worse for you? I know, for some people, that this is a real sore spot. Like, to be frank, often for white men and women of color. Before you ask, I'm just asking because I'm bored.

[Anonymous]

That would be the least of my concerns.

[Anonymous]

Why would it make a difference? Cheating is cheating. It's devastating no mattwr what.

[Anonymous]

I would be surprised, because my husband (and I) are both not attracted to black people.

My ex on the other hand? He had a thing for Asian and Latina women so it wouldn’t have surprised me.

DH and I are both white.

[Anonymous]

purple will make me even more upset

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:purple will make me even more upset

Not a raven's fan?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would be surprised, because my husband (and I) are both not attracted to black people.

My ex on the other hand? He had a thing for Asian and Latina women so it wouldn’t have surprised me.

DH and I are both white.

What is how do you know you are talking to a trump supporter, Alex?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would be surprised, because my husband (and I) are both not attracted to black people.

My ex on the other hand? He had a thing for Asian and Latina women so it wouldn’t have surprised me.

DH and I are both white.

What is how do you know you are talking to a trump supporter, Alex?

So personal attraction aligns you with a political affiliation?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why would it make a difference? Cheating is cheating. It's devastating no mattwr what.

Because, for instance, if a successful black man leaves a black women, it's assumed it would be for a white woman. That is a really touchy subject that's fraught with insecurities and pain.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would be surprised, because my husband (and I) are both not attracted to black people.

My ex on the other hand? He had a thing for Asian and Latina women so it wouldn’t have surprised me.

DH and I are both white.

What is how do you know you are talking to a trump supporter, Alex?

So personal attraction aligns you with a political affiliation?

When you determine attractiveness by skin color, it fits his followers. I'm white. I find Halle Berry very attractive, pretty much irresistible. Whoopi Goldberg does nothing for me. Diane Lane is spectacular. Sandra Burnhardt - I'd rather perform self-castration than sleep with her.

[Anonymous]

At a very primal level, sometimes people of different race smell different to me - not bad, just different. Maybe it’s dietary. Sometimes people of MY race smell bad to me. However, scent does impact how attractive a person is to me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would be surprised, because my husband (and I) are both not attracted to black people.

My ex on the other hand? He had a thing for Asian and Latina women so it wouldn’t have surprised me.

DH and I are both white.

What is how do you know you are talking to a trump supporter, Alex?

So personal attraction aligns you with a political affiliation?

It's odd to say you arent attracted to ANY people of a certain race in the whole world. The variety of looks among Black people is enoormous- saying you would never be attracted to any of them is about more than a physical preference.

[Anonymous]

Honestly it would be worse if they were the same race (southeast Asian), because then there would be a more likely chance he would want to be with that person instead of just F them.

[Anonymous]

Any white guy would be more angry if found his wife banged a black guy. That even might hold for Asian/Hispanic guys too (would be angry about a black guy).

[Anonymous]

It would be worse if it were the same ethnic/racial mix because I probably know the person, haha, and it would be creepy...