In what ways would you be considered trashy?

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Anonymous wrote:Well right now I'm eating mini powdered donuts, drinking moscato, & browsing a forum affectionately known as DCUM.

Love those mini powdered donuts. As a kid, my father and I would buy them sometimes on Sunday mornings for breakfast, while my mother looked on disapprovingly, eating her muesli.

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Anonymous wrote:I wear a two-piece at the community pool. And I'm not rail thin.

Bless your heart you have confidence few people have anymore.

I for one has my nipples pierced at age 48, and don’t often wear a bra,
the piercing clearly visible under many of my outfits including swimwear.
I prefer to drive my Subaru Outback to your BMW. Our other car is a Jeep Wrangler
Panties are no longer my thing, commando is far more comfortable.
DH and I sleep naked.
We have a hot tub in our yard and don’t allow bathing suits to be worn in it.

People can think what they want about us, but we are happy and will continue
to do our own thing, whether you or others think it’s trashy or not!!

You force your guests to be naked in your hot tub? How very rapey of you.

Understandably the homeowners don't want the detergents/chemicals/oils/chlorine from the swimsuit fabric in
their hot tub - it has nothing to do with being 'rapey' is that even a word?

We have a similar rule for hot tub use in our home. It has nothing to do with sex, its about cleanliness. Have you
ever maintained a hot tub? Unless cared for properly and the water treated, a hot tub is the breeding ground for a
multitude of bacteria and organisms. Those bubbles you see floating on the surface of a hot tub are body oils, lotions,
and other chemicals/detergents that are carried into the bubbling hot water. A showered "naked" person is cleaner
than a person wearing a swimsuit. We have a shower near the hot tub for people to use.

Guests in our home understand our hot tub use policy, and if they feel differently, they are under no
obligation to get in the hot tub. They are welcome to enjoy the pool and sauna wearing their swimsuits.We have
no children living in our home, and 99.9% of our guests are child free as well. This is about adults being adults.

Really? So you sit in your hot tub naked with your naked friends? This is fascinating to me.

What is that you find fascinating about social nudity? Adults being adults

well adult humans acting like adult chimpanzees.. this whole thread with the trailer & yacht people, naked hot tup ppl.. totally reminds me of my parents being like oh my god.. what savagery .. when I was a kid. We are brown, and my parents were old enough to remember the British but Americans in the 1960s going into the 1970s were such a culture shock to them. I do remember getting yelled at for using the term trashy- my mother objected to calling any other person trashy b/c it was demeaning and rude plus they had an attitude of well we chose to move here for our economic and political safety so we have to put up with the bad and the good. Mostly these sorts of people were also very helpful and being slightly racist would come over and show my parents how to do things the American way while camping, on vacation. while more sophisticated types would basically just act like we didnt exist and go ahead of us in line and be rude as opposed to just ignorant like the camper van ppl. these posters are what I think of when I think of the term "trashy' also anything southern but in many ways the wealthier, more sophisticated Americans are more "trash' than their less educated, indulging -in -simple-pleasures compatriots.

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Anonymous wrote:Serious question; can somebody please explain to me how drinking soda out a can makes you trashy? Are you suppose to drink it out of a champagne glass?

Or going to Costco? You get good deals there. I don't go to Costco personally but would never pass judgement on somebody who does. Or calling somebody trashy for mowing their own lawn. Have people lost their minds from Covid?

Either a lot of people here have demented notions of what it means to be trashy or I'm way out of touch.

That's the way it is in the alternate universe of the DMV.

No one has explained how drinking a soda out of its container is somehow a sign of low class.

It is! Use a glass.

You still haven't given any reason why drinking a soda out of its can is an indicator of low class. Soda cans are typically (and maybe even the majority of time) taken on the go, which is a circumstance where pouring the soda into a glass makes no sense.

I'm sitting at my desk in my office, with a can of soda I picked up from the office fridge. What point would there have been to me searching for a glass to pour the soda into?

Your opinion on this is based on nothing, frankly.

It’s an old etiquette thing. My mother and grandmothers insisted on it.

Think about it. They had china and silver for entertaining guests, so you weren’t going to plunk down a bottle or can with that.

Call it old fashioned, but it’s not really difficult to comprehend.

why would you be drinking soda then? Its gross to drink anything other than water with your meal .. or wine unless you are having pizza.

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People posting are admitting what they are doing is trashy in their minds. No one is calling them trashy. They are admitting it. Stop getting so offended.

Yes, my Grandma never drank out of a can. The always poured in a glass. She thought it was not proper. Not sure she would consider it trashy. Yes, china and silver for dinner and guests did not drink from the can.

But, she has moved with the times. She does not drink from a can but she doesn't care if you drink from a can.

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I am on DCUM.

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Anonymous wrote:Living in pg county, Fairfax, Woodbridge, or Stafford.

You forgot Waldorf. Our Walmart is so trashy I sometimes have to bleach my eyes.

What a great response🤣

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Anonymous wrote:Growing up in the Midwest

My mom was from Indiana and she didn’t have any trouble living there-! I’ll take the down home and friendly people from the Midwest any day over the stuck people in the DC area.

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I wear my husband's boxer briefs as shorts around the house, but also in backyard and front porch. He thinks this is trashy.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m 37 and in the best shape of my life. I enjoy the attention that I get. I don’t dress revealing on a regular basis but if dh and I are on vacation together I’ll wear cheeky/small bikinis.

Guy here and I do the same. I get so many looks from married women. It's awesome knowing I could hook up with them if I wanted and the husband has no power to do anything about it.

Well...I don't know if this is actually true. I doubt you're that irresistible.

Yep. If the husband has a dad bod and is wealthy then you don’t stand a chance and the wife is not looking your way.

DP here. There are some spouses that look for attention because they have issues - they are still a hurt little child and need attention of any kind, positive or negative - any attention is considered good, because they are so in need of attention they never received as a child. This is not healthy, and they really need professional help.

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Anonymous wrote:My family and I are sloths on the weekend. My kids have never really been into a lot of activities so we sleep in and sometimes barely leave the house.

How is this even trashy?

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I like to show off my tramp stamp.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm an extremely aggressive driver. For example, I will not tolerate anyone driving in the left lane that is holding me up from going as fast as I want. I will either, tailgate them until they get over, flash my brights, or swerve around them while laying on my horn.

So you’re a law-breaker and a menace to others on the road? Trashy is the least of your problems.

I don't feel like a menace. I feel like the slow drivers are a menace, or at least a hindrance to me and the major cause of traffic jams. I feel the need to correct them and make them understand they don't belong in the far left lane when there are 3 or more lanes.

People like you are a menace on the road. You feel entitled to go as fast as you want and you have this weird desire to teach people some weird lesson that they need to move out of your way. SO weird.

As someone who doesn’t even like driving (we have one car and I generally try to walk or metro as much as possible), I cannot fathom people whose egos are THIS wrapped up in their car. The way you word your post, it’s like you interpret anyone driving slower than your personal perceived proper speed somehow owes you to move out of your way. How much hours a week do you spend rotting away in a car on the highway that you have become this angry about how fast other people drive? I feel sad for people who spend so much time in their cars that they act like this.

Go move to a nice walkable area or get a better commute and relax about the left lane.

NP. The left lane is the passing lane. If you’re going the speed limit or below it’s against the law to drive there.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm an extremely aggressive driver. For example, I will not tolerate anyone driving in the left lane that is holding me up from going as fast as I want. I will either, tailgate them until they get over, flash my brights, or swerve around them while laying on my horn.

So you’re a law-breaker and a menace to others on the road? Trashy is the least of your problems.

I don't feel like a menace. I feel like the slow drivers are a menace, or at least a hindrance to me and the major cause of traffic jams. I feel the need to correct them and make them understand they don't belong in the far left lane when there are 3 or more lanes.

People like you are a menace on the road. You feel entitled to go as fast as you want and you have this weird desire to teach people some weird lesson that they need to move out of your way. SO weird.

As someone who doesn’t even like driving (we have one car and I generally try to walk or metro as much as possible), I cannot fathom people whose egos are THIS wrapped up in their car. The way you word your post, it’s like you interpret anyone driving slower than your personal perceived proper speed somehow owes you to move out of your way. How much hours a week do you spend rotting away in a car on the highway that you have become this angry about how fast other people drive? I feel sad for people who spend so much time in their cars that they act like this.

Go move to a nice walkable area or get a better commute and relax about the left lane.

Except that it’s illegal to hold the left lane in Virginia and many states.

https://www.whsv.com/content/news/Virginia-law-targets-slow-left-lane-drivers-479440683.html

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Anonymous wrote:My family and I are sloths on the weekend. My kids have never really been into a lot of activities so we sleep in and sometimes barely leave the house.

How is this even trashy?

They think/believe they are trashy. You may not.

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Anonymous wrote:I wear shoes inside, which is trashy to people who like to lick their floors.

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