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If you don’t have kids.
I feel like I’m missing out. I used to go out both days on the weekend, and once during the week. Also played team sports during the week. I don’t have kids but I’m married. Now I go out once a week. My friends are getting kids or moved away and makin new friends is notoriously hard. |
| Once a week max. Expensive and tiring |
| Pre-kids, I was out 2-5x per week. |
| Pre kids. 2ce a week or 3 times if I had a volunteer thing. |
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Pre kids, pretty much every night. I worked in hospitality and my work life normalized being out so much. I was also a problem drinker and drug user - it facilitated this lifestyle.
Now I book a babysitter twice a week to go to AA. Yawn.
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| In my 20s almost daily. In 30s 2-5 times per week. Now in my 40s with kids, rarely go out at night. |
| Another married childfree couple. 2-3x/week max. That includes weekends. We’re 40 and 41 FWIW. |
| Pre kids 2/3 times a week absolute max |
| Maybe four times total all last year. Don't go by me... |
| Ooooh I remember staying in for entire weekends before kids. Maybe gym. Being a hermit! |
| Pre-kids: 1-2 times a week. |
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Once a month?
Then once a week when DC1 was a toddler. Now - never. |
| No kids, go out once a week max. More like once every two weeks. |
LOL this is my life. DH works a very early shift so has to get up really early, even on weekend most of the time. I run 6 days a week, after work during the week. DH also goes to the gym about the same time. We’re both tired and don’t feel like getting dressed up to go out by then. Weekends we prefer a quick and easy outing to get pizza or something but becaisenof his work have to be home by 9 to get to bed. In the summer we do like having friends over to grill out and hang out in the yard but never very late. Fitness and sleep are priorities for us! I don’t miss or have any desire to go back to the bar scene whatsoever. |
| I think I “go out” to dinner once a month. The rest, gym. |