Is this really what friendship looks loke for two 30-something men? Unbelievably immature

[Anonymous]

My husband is mid-30s, we're married with 2 young children. His best friend is divorced with limited custody of his child, so he is dating.

My husband left his gchat window up on the family computer the other night and I saw the thread of conversation with his best friend. It was mostly a request to share celebrity nudes, chatting about women they think are hot and his friend chiming in with self-depricating humor about how fast he ejaculated in a recent sexual encounter with a woman. (Luckily there were no comments from my husband about me ornour sex lufe - I would be pissed if he were giving his friend the kind of details his friend is sharing!)

Is this really normal for guy friendships??

[Anonymous]

MYOB

- a wife

[Anonymous]

What's the problem?

[Anonymous]

I don't think my husband talks like this with any of his friends, but I don't think I'd care if he did. The most I've ever overheard him say is, "dude...I think I made a baby last night."

[Anonymous]

Nope. I swear mine only ever talks sports.

[Anonymous]

I told you, stay off my computer Larlene!!

[Anonymous]

Are you new here? Men love this immature stuff. Have you never watched movies or TV shows geared towards men? Looked at the Chive? Honestly? You don’t know men love looking at boobs and talking about their penises?

Yes, it’s normal. He wasn’t doing it around you or in your presence; you stumbled upon it.

[Anonymous]

wow, so immature. women NEVER talk about men or sex with their girlfriends, ever. There's not even a 160+ page thread about "I'd hit that Thursday" where women are posting pictures of guys, offering critiques about men, lusting and sharing fantasies.

Sweetheart, you need to think carefully about the guy you thought married.

Seriously, get your head (and that long pole) out of your ass

[Anonymous]

Seems really lame. But my husband left his chat with a friend open and it was just pages upon pages of discussion of a recent soccer game, which is also sort of lame.

[Anonymous]

I'm 35. Yes. I joke around like this with old friends. I only talk about boring stuff with men I've met since becoming a dad.

[Anonymous]

According to DCUM, women are always talking about their sex lives. Women seem to know which friends are having issues of not enough sex, etc. And I bet some of that talk gets damn spicy. So what is the big deal if men do it?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Seems really lame. But my husband left his chat with a friend open and it was just pages upon pages of discussion of a recent soccer game, which is also sort of lame.

because talking about window treatments, latest pinterest pins, etc. is definitely not lame

[Anonymous]

Immature isn't the word I'd use. Horny is. Give him some quality loving.

-a wife who's convos are way filthier than her DH's

[Anonymous]

Are you a real person or like a teen trying things out on the internet? It’s okay if you are and everyone else will feel better.

In case you are, this is not the kind of thing married people get upset about.

[Anonymous]

Maybe a bit cruder than most but husbands are always curious about divorced friends conquests. Often those conquests are a bunch of BS. When he sends his friend a picture of you in a reverse cowgirl position then you should have a chat!