Would you tell a spouse that their husband was cheating?

[Anonymous]

Let’s say you had definitive proof and you and the spouse knew both parties. Would you send an anonymous message?

[Anonymous]

Mind your own business. Get a life!

[Anonymous]

Yes, probably if I knew the person and cared about them. I would not do it anonymously and would want to give the proof.

[Anonymous]

What is my relationship to the spouse?

[Anonymous]

Be prepared to be attackedand and lose the friendship, but yes I would tell. It’s more of a betrayal to know and say nothing.

[Anonymous]

Don't risk your friendship. Send it to her anonymously several times. Send him the same package.

[Anonymous]

Yes! Personally have a feeleing a friend or two know more than I do but wish they would tell me or someone would. Embarrassed to ask in case they don’t and I’ve outed myself.

[Anonymous]

Yes, but only anonymously and only if we are friends. If no actual affiliations, then, no.

[Anonymous]

Yes, absolutely.

[Anonymous]

It depends. How well do you know the wife? How many other people know? What kind of proof do you have? If you decide to tell, you'd better not be wrong.

[Anonymous]

Yes ask yourself what kind of friend are you?

[Anonymous]

What’s the proof? I’m not sure I’d do it anonymously. Then the friend would’ve be worrying about who knew her private business.

[Anonymous]

Yes. bTDT but not anonymously. If you need to be anonymous just create a fake account and delete it a week later.

[Anonymous]

For a friend, yes, I would tell, and yes, it would be awkward for a while. But I only count as friends people who are really close to me, so the friendship would survive.

Now, for an acquaintance? I would be tempted to stay out of it, but would feel really bad.

[Anonymous]

Maybe the husband has an identical twin,like happened here:
https://www.littlethings.com/cheating-twitter-warning/