Would you tell a spouse that their husband was cheating?

[Anonymous]

Of course. You have an ethical obligation to tell.

[Anonymous]

Wish someone would tell my AP's wife.

[Anonymous]

Victim spouse here. Please tell. We have a right to make decisions about our own lives based on the truth, not lies. Don't do it anonymously. Share hard proof if you have it. Tell victim spouse that you respect them enough to tell them the truth as you know it and that you also respect them enough to know that it is entirely their choice what to do with that knowledge and, if you are a friend and not mere acquaintance, that you are there to support them in whatever way they need.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Victim spouse here. Please tell. We have a right to make decisions about our own lives based on the truth, not lies. Don't do it anonymously. Share hard proof if you have it. Tell victim spouse that you respect them enough to tell them the truth as you know it and that you also respect them enough to know that it is entirely their choice what to do with that knowledge and, if you are a friend and not mere acquaintance, that you are there to support them in whatever way they need.

Yes, but not everyone is as rational as you. If you are a good friend, you probably know how they would react to the news.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Victim spouse here. Please tell. We have a right to make decisions about our own lives based on the truth, not lies. Don't do it anonymously. Share hard proof if you have it. Tell victim spouse that you respect them enough to tell them the truth as you know it and that you also respect them enough to know that it is entirely their choice what to do with that knowledge and, if you are a friend and not mere acquaintance, that you are there to support them in whatever way they need.

+1

[Anonymous]

Yes and I have done this. My friend did not hold it against me.

[Anonymous]

I would tell the husband either he tells his wife, or I will. He has 48 hours. He's putting her at risk of STD's. Unacceptable.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Victim spouse here. Please tell. We have a right to make decisions about our own lives based on the truth, not lies. Don't do it anonymously. Share hard proof if you have it. Tell victim spouse that you respect them enough to tell them the truth as you know it and that you also respect them enough to know that it is entirely their choice what to do with that knowledge and, if you are a friend and not mere acquaintance, that you are there to support them in whatever way they need.

This. He is robbing her of her autonomy and risking her health. Please tell.

[Anonymous]

Yes

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would tell the husband either he tells his wife, or I will. He has 48 hours. He's putting her at risk of STD's. Unacceptable.

I did this. Friend told me, I sat on it for s day or so. Called the friend back and told him he had 24 hours to tell his wife (who I had a long friendship with) or I would. He spilled immediately.

[Anonymous]

Yes

[Anonymous]

You should tell otherwise he might infect his wife with an STD. This has happened before.

[Anonymous]

Yes, tell her.